Why are fewer and fewer people taking part in collective activities in go on road trip?

I have participated in several activities organized by go on road trip. I don't know how people in other places organize themselves, but I join this go on road travel group and have one or two activities every month. Why didn't I attend later? To put it bluntly, it is a question of money. Every time you take part in an activity, whether you bring food or not, you should get together at lunch or when you come back in the evening. The parties are all AA.

But one thing I can't stand is that the so-called AA system is all men's AA system, which has little to do with women, and all women are free. To put it mildly, this is a gentleman's demeanor. But at some family gatherings, there is only one man, and the remaining three or four are all women. What happened? I only bring my daughter-in-law to every party and never bring anyone else. I feel that I have suffered a lot, and I am embarrassed to say it in person, so I have participated in such a party for three times and will not go again. Last time, there was a more exaggerated one. A man took away seven fairies. What rhythm is this? Are you thinking about eating back all your previous losses?

Then I want to go out to play, so I drive my car and take my family out to play. And buy water in advance to buy delicious food, and find a beautiful place in the scenic spot to start eating. It doesn't cost much at the end of the day, mainly a little gas money and tickets for scenic spots. Therefore, it is better for go on road trip to go out and play by himself, and he really disapproves of participating in the activities organized by the group.

I have been driving in China for ten years, and all provinces except Taiwan Province are go on road trip. Driving from northeast to south for winter every year before winter. At first, I liked going out with a group of friends. Many people and cars are lively and fun, but it is difficult to adjust, especially for long-distance travel in Tibet and Xinjiang. Accommodation will be a problem. Everyone has different consumption concepts, so it is thankless to be a team leader. Slowly become a person walking alone. Besides a short trip for a day or two, I want to find some brothers to go with me. A person mainly does what he wants. Every time I drive, I make a rough plan. Stay if you are tired, stay if you are lazy. Sometimes I change my itinerary and try to go to some places I have never been. Besides, I live and eat by myself. I am poor and rich. I'd better go out to eat and live. Don't worry, especially at night. Of course, sometimes friends will fly to the southwest to play, especially in Xinjiang and Tibetan areas. It better be safe.

In my experience, taking part in a self-driving tour is similar to a group tour. Although most organizers don't benefit from it, they must abide by discipline in participating in group activities and can't go their own way and play according to the established itinerary. It feels less interesting than riding a bike.

It turns out that I like traveling with my riders very much. Many times it is to design the itinerary and study the strategy. I always want to arrange everything perfectly, but I'm just an ordinary player, not as professional as Great God. It's always a bit unpleasant after the real departure, and sometimes I will be complained and feel very uncomfortable. I have also participated in group self-driving organized by others. Although I don't have to worry about the itinerary and accommodation, I always feel that I am traveling with a group. Gradually, I got away from this activity and started riding a bike.

In the last three or four years, Dafen and I have completely ridden bicycles, and it feels super cool. We rode on the road, free and unrestrained. Our itinerary can be changed according to the actual situation, and we don't need to ask other people's opinions. I like the feeling of being my own master. We can play more in places we like, but staying for one night is really not good. We can leave places we don't like at any time and do everything according to our own wishes. I think this is the only way.

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Let's answer this question together. Why are fewer and fewer people attending the activities organized by go on road trip?

First: what do you want to eat when you travel by car? It is important to stay away from noisy big cities and dense crowds. What matters is freedom. ...

Secondly, every activity of go on road trip in China is generally organized by an organization or company, which is too commercialized. It is too constrained to reach its destination within the specified time.

Haibo RV has been on the road for more than a year. Only when you meet many donkey friends in the right place will you form a team to take a route. Every time, the route is different. Everyone in road trip wants freedom and prefers quiet places, mainly because the public security in our country is very good. ..............................................................................................

Going to road trip has many advantages, which are valued by friends in the tourism industry and enjoyed by my brother. But over the years, I have become more and more worried about group driving. To sum up, there are five main factors that affect go on road trip groups.

First, there are too few angry people. Everyone has his own personality. It's really hard to find a few people with similar interests who can think of, chat and swim together. Every time before driving, I have an uncontrollable ambivalence. On the one hand, travel itself is an exploration and challenge to the unknown world, and traveling alone is really lonely; On the other hand, it is difficult to find a really ideal traveling companion.

(Gannan's "Luolu", which has a soft spot for my brother, is still in my dream)

Second, they have different preferences for scenic spots. Before you travel, you often have to spend a lot of energy to coordinate the travel route and the scenic spots you want to go to. In this respect, it is hard to say that one person is the heart of ten people. They often don't please, complain, listen to a few words or have to change their strategies halfway to meet their personal requirements. Very troublesome, very helpless. On May 1 this year, I originally planned to go to Zhuoni, Gannan, cross the "Lok Road" and visit Zhaga, Diebu. I sent this plan and itinerary to several registered friends a few days in advance. As a result, a sister paper said that she was afraid of the cold and refused to go. I have to compromise because of my feelings. Helpless, I started a trip to Chongqing. Everybody's okay with it. As a result, when I left, someone said it was going to rain there and asked to change my itinerary. There is no other way but to take them to Shanxi and Shaanxi. Everyone enjoyed swimming and gained a lot. It's just that I'm always unwilling. After all, I am a repeat student, nothing is new, and I wasted a long-awaited holiday.

(The first travel plan launched on May Day was ruined because a friend was afraid of the cold.)

Third, there are great differences in living habits. When you are not at home, you will have to use your ability to cope. You can't ask too much, and you can't ask everything to conform to your living habits. Some people can't do this. For example, people who don't like noodles don't even eat a meal, which makes everyone fight for food and even makes everyone unhappy. For example, many traveling companions have a wish to see as many scenic spots as possible in a limited time, and the itinerary will naturally be more compact. However, some friends will take sleeping, resting, eating, drinking and shopping as the main theme, and take enjoyment as an excuse to travel. Don't be too hasty, which will upset the road book and greatly reduce the itinerary.

The second guidebook launched on May Day was rejected by a companion who was afraid of rain before leaving. )

Fourth, the time is not easy to agree. Everyone has his own career and work, so it is difficult to leave at the same time and travel together all the time. Before I came to Tomb-Sweeping Day, some friends I made an appointment with quit on the grounds of something temporary, which made me very passive. One Sunday a few years ago, some friends went to the Taihang Grand Canyon. Before the tour began, a friend received a phone call saying that there was something important at home and a group of people had to go home with him.

Everyone was happy to be the last one on May Day, but Brother Qing ate the chewed steamed stuffed bun. )

Fifth, the burden of expenses is prone to contradictions. A very important factor in group driving is sharing to reduce the financial pressure of driving alone. However, in the actual tourism process, due to the constraints of economic conditions and personal consumption habits, the cost allocation is most prone to ambiguity. This is mainly because some people have deep pockets and some people want to fight for it; Some people like to stay in high-end hotels, eat big meals and talk about ostentation and extravagance, and some people can send them away with simple meals; Some people complain that others love to see mountains, but they want to enter the temple; Some people think that I should spend less money on a car, and some people will say how much it is worth for me to steer all the way. And so on, and so on, will affect the interest and mood, and even break up in discord.

I want to answer this question seriously, hey; -) Because individuals are practitioners of long-term self-driving activities. Before 13, I can't remember how I spent my weekends or long and short holidays. Ever since I joined a go on road trip group, it has been out of control. This is a non-profit outdoor group, founded by a group owner who has been out of the workplace for many years and several responsible and willing colleagues. The owner himself has worked hard in the workplace for many years, striving to achieve financial freedom, but his health is getting worse and worse. The original intention is to organize a group of like-minded people to climb mountains and keep fit. Later, the team grew stronger and stronger, but there will also be long-distance activities in road trip on holidays. This is a completely non-profit organization in go on road trip, and the expenses are settled according to the actual AA system. Careful calculation shows that the group has been established for eight years, but it has been practicing non-profit. The purpose of group organization is to let people with the same pursuit have a happy place to participate in physical and mental relaxation. At first, I only climbed mountains, but when I grew up, the content of group activities became more and more abundant. For example, when climbing mountains every day, everyone will bring their own specialties or spring water to cook. A few days ago, a sister specially made a cake and took it to the mountain for the group's birthday. A celebration annual meeting will be organized every year, and the participants will do their best; Every summer vacation, there will be camping activities in the wild, grassland, seaside and at the foot of the Great Wall. , changing with time. There will be long-distance self-driving during the long vacation. I have organized Xinjiang, Tibet, Inner Mongolia and so on. In tourism activities, we usually cook together, barbecue in the wild, stew fish, ribs, rinse meat and other delicious food; Bring your own karaoke equipment and play games together. Of course, the mountain climbing activities with the original intention of keeping fit have always been preserved. Every Saturday, the thunder can't move, rain or shine.

Cool girls like to travel and often go to road trip. At the beginning, they also participated in several group activities on road trips, and they organized such activities themselves. Why are fewer and fewer people involved? I have a deep understanding.

The people who organize this kind of travel activities on the road can be said to be enthusiastic people, not seeking fame or profit, holding a more interesting mentality of playing with everyone and planning enthusiastically.

Most people who take part in this group activity in road trip are mainly young people. Young people love to travel, like to be lively, have economic strength and have a good attitude to play. When someone encourages them, there is no place to play. Just walking.

There are also some people who don't have a car, or the car is inconvenient and want to travel freely. For them, this is really a good opportunity.

Of course, some people attend for other purposes, which is hard to say.

At first, Kumei took part in activities organized by others and enthusiastically made banners and team flags, which was very serious.

When you set up your own team, you will build a group, formulate specifications, write notes, design LOGO, print car stickers, customize badges ... discuss travel locations, coordinate travel time, contact and collect. ...

Do it. It's tiring.

However, it is difficult to fix the personnel of the road travel team, not to mention the differences in personality and habits, and it is difficult to meet everyone's requirements in time and place.

The cool girl is also worried about the location proposed by the organizer. The place you want to go is not my cup of tea.

So Shuang Niu tried to organize it several times, but it was not thankless, laborious and worry-free.

The gathering time is a big problem, as well as the food for the dinner party, the time at the scenic spot during the trip and the time waiting for the photo shoot.

Moreover, there are many online strategies, all kinds of information are easy to obtain, and people's self-feeling is more and more bursting. They travel by themselves, with the highest degree of freedom, and the organizers are not grateful. Participants also feel bound, and there are really too few people to play with.

Nowadays, more and more young people's views are self-centered. Not only are there few people in charge of things, but there are many right and wrong, and there are fewer and fewer natural organizers.

Cool girls never participate in activities organized by others, but also give up organizing activities by themselves, and then drive by themselves completely, from which they also learn a lot.

There are conditions for human nature to be good; People who have a bad memory and can only hold grudges are not without them; People's pursuit of freedom is endless.

Many people are right and wrong, and it is difficult for everyone to adjust. It's not worth paying for free.

Understanding each other and learning to be grateful is also one of the meanings of tourism.

A lot. I have experience.