What if parents disagree?

It seems that your parents love you very much! They don't want you to marry far away, for fear that it will be difficult for them to meet again after you get married. You have to choose between affection and love in the end.

I have a best friend who got married 3,000 kilometers away. The relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, but more and more people know how cruel it is for them to marry far away.

My answer is very long, I hope it has reference value for you, please read it patiently, thank you!

If you give up your current love, you may not meet someone who loves you so much in the future. Maybe you will almost fall in love, but you can stay with your parents all the time. You can take care of your parents who are sick and have disasters, so that you can help your parents.

If you marry far away, it will be difficult to go home to see your parents if you seize this relationship for the time being. I have a friend who got married far away. Six years before her marriage, she didn't go back because she started from scratch and really had no money. However, my husband's family is close and my in-laws are very old. Every year, she will accompany her husband back to visit her in-laws. Every Spring Festival, she is at her husband's house. Sometimes she misses her parents and is so sad that she secretly cries. Later, the economic conditions at home were better. When I go back to my parents' house during the Spring Festival, I will ask around to buy a return train ticket as soon as my feet touch the ground. It is difficult for parents to go back when they are ill in hospital, and they will be urged back in a few days. In the past two years, my in-laws have all been lost, and I can afford plane tickets. I just went back to my mother's house twice and the epidemic broke out again.

There is another situation to consider. If the relationship between husband and wife changes, the daughter who marries far away will not get the support of her parents.

So please think carefully. My best friend's parents didn't object to her long-distance love, because they couldn't bear to give up love. My best friend's mother also married far away, but married thousands of miles away. During the Chinese New Year, my girlfriend's father-in-law asked his son and daughter-in-law to go back to her in-law's house, but my girlfriend's parents didn't care, saying that it would be good to meet at other times of the year.

I'm done answering. Thank you for your patience. I hope I can help you. Good wishes!