Why do some people say to stay away from people who travel for a living?

Who said that? It seems to be for me. Leaving my home in Shanghai, going back to my hometown to buy an apartment and becoming an empty nester is to stay away from the person who lives by traveling. Who is this man? It's my wife. I don't like traveling myself, but I am tolerant of my family. My wife got all my pensions. First, save money and give my wife 5000 yuan to travel. In other words, I actively supported her to go at the beginning of this trip, but the trip can only be done occasionally. If I am obsessed with traveling, or I am not at home all day, I am often keen on parties and dinners. This aroused my disgust. Why? Financially, my wife accepts my pension. She doesn't go home when traveling or partying. Sometimes she throws me ten or twenty dollars to buy my own food. Sometimes she tells me that you can cook for yourself in the refrigerator. Sometimes she cooks one or two dishes for me as my dish. How many days can she stay at home a week? I watch dogs at home and cook by myself, but I am not at home almost every day. I look after the house, do housework and often pay for meals with my own money. Isn't my pension her net income? Therefore, people always count my tolerance as their "blessing". Since you are not at home, I don't have to go. You like running around, I can go back to my hometown, so I can get my pension back in full. She doesn't want to, but she doesn't make sense. The state pension is for me She doesn't want to and can't help it, so don't overdo it. If she goes too far, that's her real misfortune.

As a matter of fact, tourism craze is just a fashion in China, and few travelers really enjoy their wonderful experience. Many people regard travel as a fashion. If you spend time with them, they will not only spend money on punishment; However, because the number of trips is too small, it will be ridiculed and accused by some tourists.

With those travelers, you must ignore the actual situation of your family; Spend a lot of money "traveling around the world". But taking photos and sending them to WeChat friends circle shows that you have been to all corners of the country or "Asia, Africa and Latin America". However, in terms of tourism culture, basically only a general idea can be given. In economic accounting, it is not worth the loss, and the income is very small.

"Travel" is the process of traveling and going out, that is, to travel from place A to place B in space in order to achieve a certain goal; "Tour" means going out for sightseeing, sightseeing and entertainment, that is, traveling for these purposes. Together, it is tourism. Now tourism has become an unprofitable business for many industries to make money, so it is fully promoted and brainwashed in various ways.

My ancestral home is Zhejiang. I was born in Shanghai and settled in Jiangsu. I have worked in two first-tier cities, Beijing and Shenzhen. He has worked and lived in Shanghai, Xi, Shaanxi, Shaoxing, Zhejiang, Nantong, Jiangsu and Changzhou. Perhaps because I am well informed, I have always thought that it is unnecessary to invest too much money in tourism.

I have high requirements for travel aesthetics. All the cities where I worked in those years did not fully appreciate the local places of interest because of their busy business. Moreover, I like to appreciate "places of interest" rather than "historical sites"; I like nature, but I don't like those temples and ancient houses.

Under the background of obvious homogenization of mainland tourism, my tourism appeal has been negatively affected repeatedly; For "buying in buy buy" and traveling in the form of sightseeing, it is even more exclusive. Because my trip focuses on the local customs, I have to fully feel the cultural customs of the tourist destination besides enjoying the scenery. So as to broaden one's horizons and cultivate one's sentiment.

It is a great pity that some tourists in the circle of friends, after "traveling around the world", are not bullish, but are still an ordinary citizen. Therefore, the subject asked well and said well; The differences between the three views are still "fragmented". Live a good life, the world is so big that you can't see it!

Retirees, whose income is not as good as those who go to work, need too much money. There is no need to spend all the money on travel. Choose your favorite places of interest properly and just visit a few places. There are too many homogeneous tourist attractions now.

After reading my question and answer, I hope tourists don't curse first; Count your money bags before you go home, and then think about your trip. You may even thank me for "stopping" in time!

What would you think if there was a person in your circle of friends who often took photos of all kinds of beautiful scenery? You will think that he is sensitive to life, or that he is simply doing nothing. You will envy this kind of life and want to communicate with him, or you will think that this kind of friend is not suitable for deep friendship because you are too playful.

With the continuous growth of economy, we have the ability to travel, but the difference is that some people will take travel as a way to relax, others will take it as an indispensable pleasure in life, and they will save money to travel and then travel. There are also people in life who regard travel as the meaning of life.

For those who regard tourism as the meaning of life, there may be some people who are very exclusive to life and will regard people who are far away from these tours as the meaning of life, because some thoughts in their hearts will feel that they have not done their job well. Seeing the photos they sent in the circle of friends, I thought this person just likes to pretend. They think that life is responsibility, that is, work is always busy. The so-called leisure and relaxation is only after retirement.

I have a friend who calls her Fu Xiao. She is a person who truly regards traveling as the meaning of life. I stayed at home after graduating from middle school, but she worked as a summer job for a month, and the money she earned was used to travel all the scenic spots in our province. When we are on the rise, we are all talking about what we did in the summer vacation. They were all bored, but when we heard her talk about her travel life, we were all envious and jealous. She also kept a diary to record every bit of her trip. To tell the truth, it is not normal not to envy.

Later, we didn't go to school together, but I know that she almost traveled all over the cities of our country and went abroad to see the little things in the world. Usually in communication, I can clearly feel that people who go out to see the world are different from us. Her knowledge, her knowledge and the way she speaks all make us like and appreciate her.

In my opinion, people who regard tourism as the meaning of life are a group of people who are not satisfied with the status quo and are willing to work hard to create their own world. They are not satisfied with the status quo, so they explore and pursue. The road they have traveled and the scenery they have seen are different from those of us who have fixed ourselves in a small world.

People who don't like to travel, or people who don't like to travel, may be envious to some extent, because other people's lives are wonderful and they live the life they want, so it is inevitable that they will feel a little uncomfortable.

This question is answered by Travel Notes of Flowers and Flowers.

I have traveled two or three times a year for more than ten years, and I have always considered myself a person who regards tourism as the meaning of life. Let me talk about my feelings.

There are basically several reasons to stay away from you:

Most of these people are colleagues or leaders. Because they like to travel, they often mention some feelings of travel in front of colleagues, often make travel guides, and prefer to publish pictures taken in their circle of friends. Moreover, your occupation is not tourism, which will make colleagues or leaders feel that this person is unreliable. If you have something to do at work, give it to others and be alone.

After all, most people are not poor tourists, and the travel expenses are also very high. It is still very difficult for the working class to spend 20 thousand to 30 thousand a year to travel. And you often take photos of your travels in the circle of friends, and always feel that this person is a "relocated household." Let's have less contact with this man.

Birds of a feather flock together, and gradually they will have their own circles. People like to read quietly at home and cook by themselves, but you like to run around the world, so there will be fewer topics and you will gradually fade out of your circle of friends.

In the process of traveling, you keep learning, and your knowledge and taste become richer and richer. The circle of friends is also a process of scouring sand. People who think their tastes are inferior to yours seldom interact. With the improvement of your pattern, you have higher aspirations and made more friends. They will stay away from each other, not unilaterally.

True friends are "rich but never forget" and "never abandon or give up". Those fair-weather friends, friends who don't know each other, and friends who crush their heads for profit are not real friends. Those who leave because they like to travel are not real friends.

Just try it. When you travel to a friend's area, you have told him whether the other person will warmly receive you or avoid you. When you sent messages to 50 people in your address book to borrow money because of lack of money, how many people generously helped you solve the urgent need? When you have achieved something, share it with your friends, and several people can celebrate with you. When you have critically ill patients at home and you are not around, there are many people who can take care of your family for you. I don't know until I try, but I will see.

Say hello when you meet, send a text message on holidays, not necessarily friends. Only in trouble can we see who our friends are. This is a question of human nature, not limited to whether you are a traveling friend or not, and whether you left your friend because of traveling.

100 people will have 100 answers. Everyone stands from a different angle and has a different understanding of life, work, humanity and the future, so the understanding of tourism will be different. What suits you is the best answer you want. My understanding is this:

It is not easy for our parents to raise us and send us to study and work for life. Now it's time to pay back. After school, we can chat with our parents and take a walk to make up for their previous shortcomings. As long as our parents are happy, it is our greatest wish.

At ordinary times, everyone is busy with work, making money desperately for survival, and relaxing appropriately, also for better work. Work and life should be relaxed one by one, and this string cannot be tightened forever. Once tightened for a long time, it is easy to have problems.

Through travel, I learned about the customs of different places, the religious beliefs of different nationalities, and the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. It's better to take Wan Li Road to read thousands of books. This sentence should be the mantra of people who like to travel. Actually, it's the same.

Tourism is not just tourism, accidents happen at any time during the journey. How to face difficulties, how to survive in no man's land and how to cultivate the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement can all be realized through tourism.

I think there are two kinds of people who regard tourism as the meaning of life.

One is to punch cards everywhere in the name of tourism, just to make friends and show off. Stay away from such a person, because she won't bring you anything of real value.

I have a good friend who likes to travel everywhere. Every time I go to a scenic spot, I will send a variety of selfies and food photos, and I will send a wave of screens. Every scenic spot can send a few waves, and my circle of friends is dominated by her almost every day.

If you send a beautiful photo, it will be of reference value to my trip. I will be happy to enjoy such a circle of friends, but it has nothing to do with me. I will go to see it at first, then I feel particularly bored, and finally I choose to block it.

There is another kind of people who really like to travel, and their knowledge and experience deserve our appreciation and learning!

I met many such people on my trip. They are familiar with the customs of various countries and know when to travel and how to get there, so I will not only stay away, but also ask them for some travel strategies.

Things are not absolute. Not all people who take tourism as the meaning of their lives are people who just play and don't do it, but everyone pursues a different lifestyle.

In ancient times, there were pro-virtuous ministers, far from villains, and so it is today! Pro-"xian" is far from "leisure"!

I remember that in the third year of work, the company's financial elder sister enthusiastically introduced an object. Weekend blind date, watching movies, shopping and eating all went smoothly. However, in the car, he asked me "what is your ideal", and I replied "buying an RV in the future will be home all over the world". The seemingly perfect date turned out to be "farewell". Later, I learned from the financial elder sister that people, especially women, are most eager for this. For example, buying a house, buying a car, getting married, having children, caring for her husband and educating children to go to college ... The reason for this example is to show that for China people now, taking tourism as the meaning of life is still "doing nothing" for people around them. 150 square meters of duplex high-rise, 300,000 imported cars, and a well-paid husband are far more important than traveling around the world to return to the original heart. Therefore, anyone who wants to tell his friends "I want to take travel as the meaning of life" will only create estrangement and even become indifferent. At the same time, your family will strongly oppose your idea. This is the main reason why people stay away from people who live by traveling.

At first glance, people who take tourism as their life meaning and status quo all envy Mu Yi. It seems that this lifestyle is what everyone pursues. But if you study it carefully, you will find that most people who travel as their life are dull or introverted friends, and then they abstain from sex. At the same time, they are tired of indulging in money and material life, so as to pursue a plain and natural ideal life. In addition, these people have strong perseverance, endurance and eternal inner peace. In this age full of temptations, it is difficult for most people to exercise self-discipline. If conditions do not permit, they can not eat meat for a year and bathe in snow at the foot of the snow-capped mountains. They can live by the ice lake for months without getting bored. They can even suffer from the lack of internet, record their journey with paper and pen, and then send photos to distant relatives and friends by email. Once a person with such a firm belief becomes your friend, there is only one result waiting for you: being influenced or even changed by it.

It is a realistic problem that many people don't want to face, but it is hard to turn a blind eye. For those who love or even are obsessed with traveling, whether it is soul or body, as long as one can be on the road. But the reality is often that most of their savings are spent on travel phone bills. But now I want to change my normal lifestyle and take traveling as my daily lifestyle. This idea is certainly good, but remember to ask yourself before you start, or look at yourself from the inside out: "Do you really have the ability and conditions now?" Therefore, I will use "by hook or by crook" to describe such people. In fact, I am on the road 200 days a year, and sometimes I will face this situation. For example, if I have to finish the plan because of lack of time, I will choose an adventurous route, thus putting myself in a dangerous situation of being in a dilemma. For those who quit their jobs or even sell their property to travel, although Dong Ge admires them, Bing doesn't quite agree with them.

I have a certain obsessive-compulsive disorder, which has followed me since I was a child. For example, if I go out to travel and change my bed, I will definitely not sleep well on the first night. The word-of-mouth and toothbrush in the bathroom must be placed neatly. Some people say that I am a good habit, while others say that I am self-disciplined. Well, let's talk about self-discipline and restraint. Maybe you didn't have this personality at first, but as you talk about travel and life, you will be immersed in the planning and execution of your trip all day, and even choose expressway or National Highway, which will eventually become a habit. Over time, the chaotic or disorderly habits of ordinary life will make you sneer. Slowly, your friends and colleagues will think that you have too many things to do, and finally you will ask your family to live according to your standards. In your opinion, this may be nothing, but it is really disgusting to others. It is more appropriate to use an old saying to explain "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Maybe this lifestyle and significance suits you, but not necessarily the people around you, so don't be stupid enough to change others. This is why people stay away from friends who are interested in traveling.

This is just a remark caused by the psychology of comparison. How to treat tourism is everyone's freedom to choose their own lifestyle, and so am I. ...

Why stay away from it? In fact, it is a kind of comparative psychology.

I am a tourism practitioner myself, and one of my jobs is to study the characteristics of tourism as a way of consumption. Undoubtedly, compared with other lifestyle consumption patterns, tourism is a low-frequency consumption pattern. The reason is very direct, travel needs money and leisure!

Although it doesn't mean that every kind of trip costs a lot of money and time, both money and time have to be paid. Therefore, in many people's minds, tourism is defined as a "luxury" of life, and tourism consumption is given the meaning of keeping up with the joneses.

You subconsciously have this idea:

People who travel a lot must be rich.

People who often travel in the sun are showing off. ...

Most people have a sense of comparison hidden in their hearts. Travel seems to be like luxury goods, bags, cars, work and even children, and it has become a way for ordinary people to compete secretly. Frequent business trips prove that this person has money and leisure and a good life; If you didn't go, you wouldn't get along so well.

In the final analysis, to "stay away from people who travel for a living" is actually to stay away from comparison. To put it mildly, that is, not keeping up with the competition and entertaining yourself. But exploring the deep psychological activities, if you don't have this sense of comparison, how can you realize that this is a comparison and contest?

So I think people who are very concerned and compared will have this statement.

This is a question of attitude and view to life. A thousand people can have a thousand different attitudes towards life, so there is no right or wrong to "take tourism as the meaning of life".

Like me, I am a person who regards travel as one of the meanings of life. I just like traveling. I am willing, but there is no harm. What can I do?

I like traveling to the point where I can choose to engage in the tourism industry and stick to it for more than ten years; It allows me to spend all my leisure time and hard-earned flexible money on traveling; You can also try to enjoy the trip, share the accumulated experience and interesting things that happened during the trip with you through your own actual combat experience, and painstakingly collect optimized strategies. This is my attitude towards travel.

Of course, not everyone agrees with my pure idea. Perhaps there are people who really regard tourism as the meaning of life, and they are also very left, and regard tourism as a means of showing off. In this regard, my attitude is to accommodate others to have their own attitude towards life, without criticism, disapproval or flattery.

Being so fascinated by travel, what have I experienced to become like this?

When I was a child, traveling was the life my parents gave me. When I grow up, traveling is my way of finding pleasure in life.

The process of loving travel is definitely not created overnight. It happens that my parents also like traveling very much. At the end of 1980s and the beginning of 1990s, there was no formed concept of tourism in Chinese mainland, and tour groups were a new thing in a small group. Since then, Guangdong, as the southern gate of the motherland, has first set up some travel agencies to promote tourism to the general public and daily consumption through short and fast Zhou Bianyou products such as Lotus Hill 1 Day Tour.

Parents who were quite young at that time, like all young people, had an inexplicable interest in new things. So, from these Zhou Bianyou, they took me on the road to travel. I still remember following the early tourism team, going to Lianhua Mountain and Lvwan Lake in Heyuan, which was just developed at that time ... My interest was also cultivated from an early age.

When I grow up, traveling becomes a habit. After normal and intense work, people always feel numb. However, as long as you are on vacation, even if you are tired of climbing mountains and wading, you can have a different understanding of life after seeing different scenery.

After a business trip became a job, my previous business trip not only broadened my horizons and met more people, but also gave me a strong ability to deal with emergencies. Now, when I can calmly face all kinds of situations, such as tourists having their wallets stolen in French restaurants and finding their passports lost in Thai customs, these are all the abilities given by the journey.

Finally, I want to correct a misunderstanding that not all people who travel frequently have money and leisure. Although I travel frequently, I have to work for more than ten hours every day, earning an ordinary salary. I can travel constantly, but I shift my consumption focus and leisure time to my interest in traveling, and at the same time earn "free travel" through my own efforts to realize my valuable and meaningful life. Of course, there is family recognition and tolerance.

For most people, travel is a way of life adjustment, not a staple food. Taking tourism as the meaning of life means taking snacks as the staple food.

Traveling is ok, walking on the road. There is an old saying in China that "a poor family is rich". This means you need to plan to live at home. Once you leave home, you should prepare more money for a rainy day. After all, there will be many unexpected situations on the road.

Therefore, tourism needs more economic conditions to support.

But life is more than distance and poetry. Life is more about rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Some people think these things are easy, but personally, this is the essence of life.

The cost of traveling is really high. Eat, live and play, there is nothing that needs money to support. This has also achieved hundreds of billions of economic data every Golden Week.

But except for adventurers and travelers, most people still run their lives on the established track. There was a joke before that September salary contributed eleven, so moonlight.

Get on the bus and sleep, get off the bus and punch in. Take photos, shop and visit here.

I've seen too many people travel like this. After arriving at the destination, stay in a star-rated hotel, take photos, punch in, drive by car or take a taxi, go shopping and visit here ... In fact, the real culture of a place is not felt.

Of course, there are parent-child tours.

As a child, I always follow the principle that "reading Wan Li is better than taking Wan Li Road". So, since the child is 1 year old, I will take her around when I have time. Later, I found that for children, the beach in Sanya is no different from the small sand pile in front of the door.

The real meaning of traveling is to settle down, feel the culture of a city, taste its past lives in alleys and teahouses, and find its history in legends.

I've seen people scrambling to take photos with landmarks in crowded scenic spots, and I've seen too many travelers glance at them in a hurry. The meaning of their trip is just "a trip here", just a place in the circle of friends.

A truly mature person will not regard travel as the meaning of life.

The real meaning of life lies in discovery and creation. Everyone is creating their own value, not always on the road, which is the meaning of travelers and adventurers.

Really mature people are more responsible and responsible. The responsibilities of work and family are not always far away.

In fact, I am also curious why some people have this idea, but I think the reasons are nothing more than the following:

1. The person who said this doesn't like traveling or is biased against traveling. Some people think that traveling is boring, tiring and expensive. Some people think that traveling is a waste of time and energy. Most of them think that traveling is "a trip here".

2. People who say this have no conditions to travel, but envy those who have conditions; Most people think that travel is only suitable for people with money and leisure, but few people have both. Most people are still busy with their work, and people who travel every day naturally envy them, which may lead to their loss of enthusiasm for their work;

The person who said this doesn't like to travel, but there are people who love to travel around him. For example, parents who don't like to travel, when they meet children who travel outside every day, they want to see but can't see them, and they have to worry about safety; For example, a husband who doesn't like traveling meets a wife who loves traveling, and so on.

From a rational point of view, traveling is one of most people's hobbies, not the whole of life. If everyone regards tourism as the meaning of life, it may be difficult for society to make great progress;

Real travel is very addictive. If you don't take traveling as a matter of taking photos and punching in, but open your heart to feel the local customs, then traveling is an addictive thing, and it may be difficult to stop once you start.

Finally, we should be rational about whether we need to stay away. Travel does have many benefits, which can increase knowledge and relax, but for most people, it should be regarded as an adjustment of life, not the meaning of life.

Only a person with a wandering heart will take tourism as the ultimate meaning of life. I have been wandering around the world, dragging too many people, and I can't hold this soul. Similarly, people who have no wandering heart can't evaluate people who take this meaning of life as their life well. From the perspective of tourism, I think there are two kinds of people in this world, one is those who are on the road and the other is those who have returned home. First of all, let's talk about people who have returned to China. These people are the mainstream of social groups, because they have gained enough life belonging in family, career, feelings and other aspects. These things are the best ties in his life. Travel is just to add some color to the existing life. Their hearts are as full and juicy as just ripe peaches, and they no longer care about what the journey has brought him. Travel is the spice of life. They only care about the influence of scenery on the senses, and only care about the perfect process of going out and coming back. When the trip is over, they share beautiful photos with people around them. What a wonderful thing! They not only enjoyed themselves, but also satisfied their vanity. This is the person who goes home. No matter how many experiences and wonderful experiences he has traveled 8000 miles and traveled around the world, everything is centered on the people around him. He shared his experiences, things he brought back and beautiful photos with people around him, enjoyed this honor, and stabilized and brewed the next travel plan. The people around him made him feel a sense of belonging, just like returning to a warm home. Only when they are here can travel be meaningful, otherwise no one will become an audience. They are not the topic we want to discuss, but the people on the road are our protagonists. They belong to people who have been on the road, people who look at the scenery, and people who are walking and looking for them. The soul throbbing, psychological touching and sensory impact brought by every moving scenery are the sense of belonging that those of us on the road are looking for. Yes, their hearts are tied too little by feelings, careers and families. This kind of too little is not unheard of, but has experienced negative effects, or painful things, or other unexpected situations, which makes the mind open up the function of self-protection like a conditioned reflex. After setting up a firewall for these things, the experience of traveling and the scenery along the way began to slowly enter their hearts. Our thoughts are like a ship sailing on the sea. There will be storms, crises and strays, but there are always various realities that give us a harbor to rest. Many people regard tourism as the ultimate meaning, and finally dock their boats in the harbor of affection, career and family. Some of them, after leaving, will always be teenagers, measuring heaven and earth with their feet and letting their hearts rest between the mountains and rivers of heaven and earth. That's all. To sum up, we must first know what kind of person we belong to, and then we can decide what kind of person to enter. In this way, our own minds can take fewer detours in the harbor where they are moored.