When my best friend became negative energy, I found that I had no friends.

Xiao Yao's unit recently took a week's high temperature holiday. Most of the girls in the unit go abroad for a few days and come back to share interesting things with each other. Everyone is full of energy and spit. Only Xiao Yao, the classmate next door, was unhappy and looked depressed. Before the holiday, I heard that Xiao Yao planned to go to Lijiang to see Erhai Lake with his girlfriends, and also prepared winter clothes for climbing Yulong Snow Mountain. Why, isn't it pleasant to travel? During lunch break, Xiao Yao told us all kinds of unpleasant things that happened when she was traveling with her best friend.

My best friend is Xiao Yao's first friend in Wuhan. They used to be high school classmates. After graduation, they went their separate ways. They haven't been in touch for years. At that time, WeChat was not as popular as it is now, and the only online communication tool was QQ. One day, they suddenly contacted each other, which was a great surprise. They made an appointment to meet and talk about their experiences in recent years. In short, because of classmates' friendship, they soon became one.

At that time, Xiao Yao felt very happy. Being alone in Wuhan is actually quite lonely. Unfamiliar environment and strange colleagues need time to adapt. The existence of girlfriends makes Xiao Yao's weekend no longer boring. They made an appointment to go shopping, watch a movie and get a manicure together. In short, they will think of all the interesting things about each other.

Xiao Yao said that when I think about it now, I may feel that it was too lonely at that time. I prefer someone around me to talk to each other, eager to integrate into the circle of friends around me. Unfortunately, I didn't find the right direction and orientation. Because the circle is different, there is no need to be strong. You try your best to be good friends with each other, but you may not be happy as a result.

It happened that Xiaoyao's best friend was going to take annual leave, and they made an appointment to go to Lijiang together. This is the first trip between Xiaoyao and his best friend. Xiaoyao is very happy and takes the initiative to check all kinds of information, travel strategies and book air tickets. My best friend said that she wouldn't do this online, so Xiao Yao planned all kinds of equipment and emergency measures on her own.

On their first day in Kunming, it was almost 7 o'clock when they got off the airport. They went straight to the hotel because they had booked a room in advance. It rained heavily that day. Having finished, they are all ready to have a rest. After all, they have to get up early the next day to go to various scenic spots, and the routes have been booked. To tell the truth, friends who have been to Kunming know that there is nothing to go near the airport and the weather is not good. Otherwise, tomorrow's physical strength will be exhausted and you won't enjoy the happiness brought by the trip. My best friend laughed at Xiaoyao for being timid. Go out and have fun in an unfamiliar Kunming night. What if I lose it if you don't accompany me?

Xiao Yao was angry and funny, so she had to accompany her around the airport, drink something at Starbucks and take a lot of photos for her best friend. It's almost one o'clock in the morning, and they return to the hotel and get up the next day. Needless to say, they are particularly listless. Xiao Yao is the kind of person who has a great sense of time. When traveling, her schedule will be full. She will plan a limited time and slowly see more people with beautiful scenery, so this trip will be very fulfilling.

Traveling together is the biggest test of two people's tacit understanding and mutual patience. Two people should take care of each other, understand each other and face all kinds of emergencies together. They should not follow their own feelings, but should consider the feelings of their peers in everything.

For the rest of the trip, I was the object of being spit out. I had to wait on her like a nanny and take all kinds of photos for her. Xiao Yao said with a depressed face, as agreed before, except for the souvenirs and gifts I want to bring, all the air tickets, hotels and meals are made of AA. After I came back, my best friend only transferred the money for the plane ticket to me, but the hotel accommodation and other expenses were not transferred to me, and I was urged several times. . . And every time I play a project, I queue up with my bag on my back. She had a cold drink in the shade, and it was nothing once. I always line up, and then she comes to play. It's really a trip to see a person's character. When I was shopping with her before, I found that my best friend never brought money. She always buys whatever she wants, and my best friend just eats it. Xiaoyao feels that this is the friendship of classmates for so many years, and we should not haggle over such a small sum of money. When I came back from this trip, I realized it was wrong. No matter what feelings, they are mutual. I regard you as a relative, I arranged everything myself, and you don't have to worry about everything, but I got such a sad ending.

Hehe, Xiaoyao, your righteousness has been done, and you don't owe her anything. We all get together and leave well, and everyone comforts.

Friendship in adulthood is not like when I was a child. If it is broken, it can be repaired at any time.

? When traveling, the choice of playmates is very important. No matter how familiar a friend is, it is not necessarily suitable for traveling. Two people must have the same interests and values, and the most important thing is the understanding of consumption. Otherwise, there will be great differences and affect their friendship.

Listening to all kinds of wonderful things about Xiaoyao and her best friend reminds me of the previous trip with a "best friend", and our friendship will stop here. When we came back, we broke up.

We are colleagues, and the company organized a trip to Thailand together. Because the two of us are very close friends, and colleagues in other departments are not very close, so we made an appointment to stay in a hotel from the beginning. * * * used a tourist wifi, and everyone paid 50 yuan to rent a wireless network in China. I paid the money, but she didn't pay me the other half later. I didn't care, maybe I forgot.

In Thailand in June and July, it was so hot that I doubted my life and got sunburned every minute, so I had to wear sunscreen every day when I went back to the hotel. We didn't bring any, but a group of people temporarily went to the duty-free shop to buy sunscreen and various masks. This colleague didn't buy anything, saying that she had it in China, so it was not convenient to bring it back when she came to Thailand for a week. As a result, she went back to borrow my mask at night and had to apply my sunscreen when she went out in the morning. I don't understand why she didn't buy it.

Friends who have traveled to Thailand know that there is a well-established rule in Thailand, that is, tipping is also recognition of one's service. Whether staying in a hotel or going out to the zoo, they will give a proper tip, and the cost is not high, 20 baht, about 5 yuan RMB. Every time a friend tips, she says she needs my help to pad it, and her Thai baht is not enough, so she will pay it back to me when she returns to China. However, one year has passed.

In fact, it seems that it is all about money, but it is really an idea.

Good friends are mutual, not just taking.

I'm not here to hack my best friend. Although these two words were badly beaten by netizens, I still can't help but vomit.

Please stay away from friends who are full of rage, friends who are centered on her, and everyone will turn around her, no matter how deep your feelings have been, because this kind of negative energy person, being with her, will really affect your three views, make you constantly deny yourself, and the whole person is full of frustration.

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