When people reach middle age, how can the "three qi" come from and live well before they can flourish?

A mature middle-aged person should have a good ability and be able to catch the oncoming "three souls". Only in this way can life turn the tide, make a final blow in the remaining years and bid farewell to mediocrity.

When wealth comes, you should seize it and don't live up to it. Wealth is not the so-called lottery and windfall, nor is it that the bank suddenly made a mistake overnight and earned hundreds of millions. These false and unreliable "wealth" are not called wealth, and there may be a crisis, and it is unpredictable whether it is a disaster or a blessing.

Wealth is actually a turning point in life. For example, you have worked hard in a certain industry for decades, and you are already a senior professional in this industry, but you lack a good opportunity, a chance to prove yourself.

At some point, the opportunity suddenly came, and I had such an opportunity when I was young, but I almost couldn't grasp it because of my lack of ability and expertise.

Now that I have enough majors and mature mentality, what I lack is a golden opportunity. Now that I'm here, I can grasp it naturally. This is a good opportunity to turn over, the so-called "wealth."

As Mencius First Out said, "Shun was born in an acre of land, raised between buildings, glued in fish and salt, raised in scholar, raised in the sea by Sun Shuai, and raised in the city by Priscilla". Only in one respect, he is professional enough to be qualified for a position in a certain field, and he will get it only if he has money.

When the blessing comes, you should seize it. Don't be afraid to enjoy going to heaven and going to hell You can accept all kinds of pain and never give up. You can also accept flowers and applause at the peak of your life, so you don't have to experience pain or face the scenery.

In the past, the ultimate goal of scholars was nothing more than fame and ancestor worship, but now one of the goals in life is to earn more wealth and realize financial freedom.

The core of financial freedom is to control your own money, and you will no longer wander between work and choice because of lack of money. The first thing that everyone who realizes financial freedom may choose is to travel, see the outside world and broaden their horizons.

If people are busy in the first half of their lives and have accumulated a certain amount of wealth in middle age, it is time to retire and consider "returning to the fields", instead of always thinking about accumulating more wealth for future generations and leaving more wealth for future generations.

Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they have struggled for half their lives. Now they have a successful career. When they are healthy, they should enjoy themselves, stop being busy and reward themselves. Why not?

When luck comes, you should seize it. Don't be ignorant, luck turns, and a pile of gold won't fall from the sky for no reason, and then hit the lucky people. This is a story that only exists in myth.

In reality, even if a tornado blows a pile of money, who can hold it? Luck is only a condition for success, but it lacks a suitable opportunity. It is not luck that sows can climb trees and black-bone chickens can directly become phoenixes.

When a person does nothing all day but eat and wait for death, even the best opportunities and luck will be regarded as air. Luck is obviously useless to such people.

And a person in adversity, struggling to support, only waiting for a suitable opportunity, can turn defeat into victory and turn the situation around. This is real luck, not accidental change, but luck.

For those who already have the conditions for success, what is lacking is luck; And a complete amateur, even if lucky, can't grasp it, because opportunities are only for those who are prepared.

We often sigh that if we had a stronger ability to seize opportunities when we were young, maybe life would have been different. Assuming that we can face the opportunities when we were young with our present mentality, maybe life will really be rewritten.

Unfortunately, times have changed, some opportunities are only once, and life cannot be repeated. In the remaining time, I may not have time to grasp the rest of my life and cherish the few opportunities.

Maturity is not necessarily the division of age, but more importantly, the maturity of mentality and thought. When people reach middle age, they have experienced numerous twists and turns, so it is impossible to be immature, but some people are obviously more profound and have stronger ability to seize opportunities, such as being able to cope with sudden good luck calmly.