How to chat with strangers

How to chat with strangers

How to chat with strangers is also a part of our life. Chatting with strangers is inevitable, so chatting is also skillful. There are many precautions when chatting with strangers. Here is how to chat with strangers. How to chat with strangers 1

If you have the following questions:

You can't chat, often can't find a topic, and you find nothing to say when chatting

You can obviously feel that this girl knows that you like her, but she keeps telling you that she is a friend.

You have a girl you like, but you don't know how to pursue

You often date girls, but you only eat and watch movies, and there is no real progress at all

Then please take mine directly, click it and send it to me once, and I will help you analyze the situation and solve the problem directly! At the same time, my circle of friends updates a lot of chatting skills and skills to get along with girls correctly every day, and can also add learning (if you can't add it, you can also click on my avatar to chat with me privately and send your number directly to Yu Ge, and I'll add you). Well, now let's get down to business and let Yu Ge take you to feel the way to make women fall in love with you through chatting!

the beginning of a chat: finding a topic

a chat begins with a topic. A good topic will make two people talk more and more interesting, and the more they talk, the more they can't stop. No one wants to continue talking about bad topics. So as a first step, Brother Yu will teach you how to choose this topic.

1. Entry level: General theme

The entry skills in chatting are easy to understand and master, and the most important thing is: effective. But for many people, this topic has become a big problem. What topics are attractive to girls? Brother Yu will tell you that all topics are attractive, and the key is how to reply after you throw this topic.

Many people here have no topic. Some people just ask: Which movie did you see? Ask and ask, I'll see how you reply in the future. For this conventional topic, this way of chatting is wrong. This conventional question is just to prepare for what you will say later. You should remember that your purpose is to chat with her, not to know which movie she is watching.

at this time, the correct way to deal with it is to make a fuss about her answer. When a person concentrates on one thing, he must get her attention in a short time, and any comment on it will touch her mood. Don't make the conversation boring. For conventional topics, your greatest advantage is that you can provide value. You should show the value you can provide and attach it to what she is doing.

a man must know more. She is watching a comedy. How to speak? Shit, Stephen Chow. All the people in China owe Master Xing a movie ticket. Spread the topic with your point of view. She doesn't want to go to the movies, because what you said is more interesting than movies.

in order to learn to chat quickly and catch up with the people you like, I have prepared gifts for everyone! Often send a lot of interesting chat topics in the circle of friends, and also send a lot of interesting topics to girls! If you can't chat? Chatting embarrassed, can't find a topic? You can add mine directly. In my circle of friends, you can see many interesting chat topics and topics that girls are interested in. I will also send practical chat cases between me and beautiful women to my circle of friends for your reference

2. Advanced: Event theme < P > "Suddenly I feel that I am also an invisible poor man." These topics will appear on various media accounts such as WeChat official account, Zhihu and Today's headlines every night. Why do some people like to write about these topics? Because of these rambling topics, an article was sent out and read 1 thousand in an instant. Man is a gregarious animal. Language ability is the second largest ability after thinking ability, even higher than action ability. The function of language is communication.

and these topics can just touch the point of communication. Event topic is a medium to arouse your desire to chat, and it is a better medium among many media. Always remember your starting point. You want to chat with her, not argue about who is right and who is wrong in the selected events. If so, we can talk. What does it matter to you who is right or wrong? So this kind of discussion topic is a good topic you can use when chatting with the goddess.

3, the ultimate body: keywords lead to topics

find the highest level of topics, everyone can learn. The secret is to find the key words in her reply. There are only one or two words in a sentence, and one or two words are useful. Find out these words, these are the key words you can use to spread.

"how was today?" "Very well, step by step." Where are the key words of this answer? "Step by step", if it were me, I would immediately talk to her around these four words. "Feeling bored?" This answer is to pave the way for future communication. How will she reply to me if I answer like this?

"yes." "No, it's not bad. I'm used to it." It doesn't matter what you say, because your topic has erased the discomfort between you two, and then the chat will be much smoother. What you need to do next is to keep looking for keywords and spread the topic.

the brewing of a relationship: the process of chatting

Many people have heard the saying that what a person looks like depends on how he speaks, which also applies to feelings. You know, when you have an idea about a girl, chatting with her is not a casual conversation. You need to use this chat process to attract people. Let's talk about how to chat this day.

1. Mind-reading-reading what the other person wants to say

Mind-reading is neither metaphysics nor superpower. This is a basic skill that almost everyone has. You must be able to read minds when chatting. Mind-reading doesn't really want to completely analyze what this person looks like. You just need to find out what she means, and this day will be easy to talk about.

"I don't want to eat or lose weight today." What does the other person mean by this sentence? I don't know, and I don't know. The so-called mind reading must be based on your understanding of her. If she is usually a girl who cares about her figure, this sentence means: I don't feel fat, please praise my figure.

If this girl seldom cares about her health, this sentence means: I want to lose weight. You should praise me for wanting to eat. If you don't eat, you will be hungry. Different people mean different things about the same question, so you need to learn "mind reading". According to her daily habits, find out what she wants to say.

when chatting, find the right opportunity through simple topics and quickly promote the relationship between two people! This is an effective chat! You will only care about each other every day and never catch up with her! Think more about the wonderful chat records with women, you can add me directly, and I will send some wonderful chat records with beautiful women in the circle of friends, which contains many chat topics and topics that girls are interested in! Show me how masters chat with girls and study hard.

2. Close the psychological relationship-guide the other person to show himself

An important factor to measure the intimate relationship between two people is whether two people share private and relatively secret information, which needs to be achieved through self-disclosure. Let your heart pour out in the opposite direction. How to talk? Passers-by said: care. However, you should understand that if you really want the other person to make a complete self-disclosure, it is not enough to care.

there are rules for self-disclosure. Generally speaking, when a person is depressed, it is easier and more willing to confess to them. But the trouble is, when you are unfamiliar, she won't show depression to you. So I need an opportunity to artificially create a display opportunity.

Introduce several specific periods:

She sent a message in a circle of friends and was scolded by her boss today. This is a signal. There is a message behind this news: I am sorry to be scolded by my boss, and I need someone to talk to me. What you need to do at this time is to be someone who makes her willing to talk.

how to be such a person? There is a little trick that can be summed up in one word: help each other in the same boat. "I'm embarrassed today, too. The list is wrong." How will the other party respond to you at this time? To comfort you first, as long as you pave the way and ask, "What are you scolded for?" She will tell why she was scolded today. In this way, she revealed herself.

3. Push-pull chat arouses curiosity

Don't push and pull when chatting. Ignorance will only make the topic more and more boring. Finally, she just stopped talking to you. What is push-pull type? Pushing is pushing each other away, alienating, depressing and annoying. Pull is to pull the other person over, please, agree, praise. Both are indispensable.

what is the psychological activity of the other person after replying to this sentence? "I've changed? Where has it changed? It looks good. Or his personality has changed. What does he mean? " "You've changed" means push. Everyone likes to be described as not forgetting your initiative. To say that you have changed is to release a kind of "disgusting" breath, and "as good as before" invisibly increases the affirmation of the other party, which is pulling. Between push and pull, curiosity comes out.

"You used to be gentle, but now you feel sharp." Is this the correct answer? If you answer like this, you will be hacked. Remember, the push here is not to make you really swear, but to pave the way for the push behind. "I used to feel like a small jasper, but now I am more and more like everyone." How comfortable people are to listen to this statement. Everyone likes to chat with people who feel comfortable. The actual push-pull process is praise, just to make the chat smoother.

Of course, if you chat more, how to improve your emotional intelligence and make yourself more attractive? Please directly add Yu Ge's and we will tell you how to do it one by one. Of course, I can also learn the chat skills updated every day in my circle of friends and the correct way to get along with girls, so as to improve my level of chatting with girls!

These skills and methods are just some of the most commonly used skills in internal courses of Yugo, and they are just the tip of the iceberg. Maybe you haven't heard of it or seen it. But none of this matters. Do you want to learn to change? This article accomplished its mission here. If you want to learn a faster and more effective way to catch up with the goddess, you can join my internal course. But you should know by now that if you can't chat, you must study systematically. If, brother, you can't chat and are determined to learn to chat, go directly to Brother Yu and click to send three words directly to Brother Yu-I want to learn

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How to improve

Brothers, you can always see here from the beginning, so the wing tutor believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to change the status quo quickly and improve the level of love quickly. Maybe you can't stand talking to girls anymore. Maybe you don't want to go out with girls every time. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience. But Brother Yu is very responsible to tell you that everything is not a problem, but whether you meet the following three conditions is very important:

1. You must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better

2. You are willing to invest in yourself, not just know how to spend money on women

3. You can cooperate with your mentor, have execution and take action, instead of just saying that you can't do it.

If you have made up your mind, are eager to change the status quo, are willing to invest in yourself and actively cooperate with your mentor, then you can continue reading. It's actually a very simple thing to associate with girls. Why? Because as long as you are normal and have the ability to learn, you can fall in love; You just need to learn love skills, learn to associate with girls, improve emotional intelligence, and improve your love ability < P > Question: Isn't financial ability very good and useful? Is it useful not to be handsome? The tutor replied: As long as you have a normal income and are willing to invest in yourself, on the surface, it is entirely possible to invest the money you spent on women before. Men are just like women, just lazy men, not ugly men. Don't always make excuses for yourself. In fact, as long as you can master the methods and make up your mind to study, you can still get the results you want.

wing tutor is a student who is not tall or handsome. But after choosing a wing tutor and actively cooperating under the guidance of the tutor, you can also catch up with the girl you like. People who are short, unattractive and have no money can still find their love and be happy with their beloved woman. You make women like you and never give up on you; Instead of simply liking your money, patting your ass and leaving when you are down and out; Only by choosing the right method and having the help of professional tutors can we achieve the expected results.

Start to change

Actually, brothers, it is not difficult to get along with women, whether it is chatting or dating! As long as you master the right method and have the help of a professional tutor, you can do whatever you want. Don't worry about chatting with girls, girls suddenly ignore you; I don't know how to reply; Go out with girls and don't know where to play; And I don't know how to improve the relationship with girls, because you haven't studied systematically at all. If you want to have sweet love and sweet her, then join our internal course directly and click to tell the teacher directly-I want to change

how to chat with strangers? At the same time, if you have any emotional problems now, you can send them directly to the teacher and let professionals do professional things, which is much better than if you want to break your head alone. The teacher will also send daily dry goods in the circle of friends, click on it, and usually look bored, and there will definitely be gains. Born to love's emotional wings. Your love will be escorted by us! I'm brother Yu, and I'll wait for you in the inner hall! How to chat with strangers 2

1. Be good at interaction

Communicating with strangers is different from communicating with good friends. Therefore, we must be careful not to talk to each other blindly, but to talk to each other.

Be good at giving the other party the right to speak with imperative sentences, such as, "I think this matter … what do you think?" This naturally gives the right to speak to the other party.

through the process of interaction, you can understand each other's views and opinions on certain things and find the next topic.

2. Be good at selling yourself

Communicate with strangers and learn to sell yourself.

When the conversation between them opens, you can first introduce yourself, what's your name, where you come from, why you came here, where you worked and studied, and so on.

In fact, in the process of introducing yourself, the other person will know you and compare with himself. Maybe when you introduce yourself, you will have a buzz with the other person, "Ah, so we are still fellow villagers (alumni, peers)". You can get closer to each other at once and find many topics in common.

3. Be good at listening

When listening, ordinary people often have the following situations:

First, it is easy to interrupt each other's speech;

second, make sounds that agree with each other, such as "um ..." and "yes ...".

The better listening is that there is no sound at all, and the other party is not interrupted, and the eyes are fixed.