Is it reasonable to take the nanny out to eat at Haidilao and have the nanny wait at the door?

Is it reasonable to take the nanny out to eat at Haidilao and have the nanny wait at the door?

People’s living standards are getting higher and higher, but at the same time they are getting busier and busier at work, which means that we may not have enough time to take care of our families. In order to achieve a balance between work and life, many people choose to pay someone to take care of their children and earn money to support the family themselves, in order to achieve a balance between life and work.

This is the so-called finding a nanny, but as for a nanny, his status is quite special, although the relationship between the nanny and the employer is an employment relationship. However, due to their special working environment, the relationship between nannies and employers is actually in a relatively ambiguous state.

As for this state, I think it is a state between family and employment relationships. On this basis, let’s talk about whether it is reasonable to take the nanny out to eat at Haidilao and let the nanny wait at the door.

What is the situation at the scene?

In the title of the question, there is no very detailed description of the child. So I don’t know what age the children are now, so I’ll analyze it.

Suppose the child is very young now. You need someone to take care of you all the time, so it is natural that you have to take a nanny out under such circumstances. And if the child cannot do without the nanny, then in this case, it actually means that the nanny is looking after the child at the door, while the child's parents are eating hot pot in Haidilao. If this is the case, there is not much to say.

Personally speaking, the smell in hot pot restaurants is relatively strong, which may not be good for children's breathing. But the child is so young, parents can't leave him alone at the door, so he definitely needs a nanny to take care of him.

The second situation is that although the child is small, his parents can barely take care of him. In this case, it actually means that parents take their children to eat hot pot in Haidilao, while the nanny waits alone at the door. I would like to suggest that what I want to express should actually mean this. And if this is the real situation, then I think the child's parents may not be doing the right thing.

As we just mentioned above, the identity of a nanny is actually between an employee and a family member. Because he has been with his employer for a long time and has relatively close contact with him. And if the children's parents can independently take their children to dine in Haidilao, they do not necessarily have to take a nanny with them. But the problem is, since I take others out, I don’t take them to eat with me.

We often say that the human heart is made of flesh. Under such circumstances, the nanny will inevitably feel uncomfortable inside. In fact, I think it was originally at home. We all ate with the nanny. Why didn't we leave the nanny outside when we got outside? If you didn’t originally plan to take the nanny to dinner with you, you can actually work harder on your own. Take your children out by yourself.