Not having an open relationship is giving others a chance.

I was scrolling through Moments last night and saw An An’s newly updated Moments: An undisclosed relationship is giving others a chance.

I gave her a like and she immediately sent a crying emoji.

I asked her what was wrong, and she said that she had been dating her boyfriend for half a year, but he had never brought her to meet friends or posted photos on WeChat Moments. Asked him if he wanted to take her to visit his parents during the Chinese New Year, he said it was still early and there was no rush.

I asked her when she would be anxious, and she said he would be anxious only if she forced him to post a group photo on WeChat Moments. His reason is that most of the people on WeChat are customers, and posting this seems a bit pretentious and immature.

She said that he is relatively low-key and doesn't like to show off in his circle of friends. I said something and she would find an excuse to block me. Finally, I asked her: Do you believe it? Do you believe everything he says? It took her a long time to reply with four words: I don't know.

As expected, there is no excuse for not showing off. It’s not because you don’t like showing off, but because you feel it’s not worth showing off.

In fact, the reason for not liking "shows of affection" is not valid. Frequently posting is called "show", but doing it once and only once cannot be called "show", it can only be called publicity or declaration of sovereignty.

I remember that a colleague and her boyfriend went to Macau for a trip. During those few days, all the girl’s screens were photos with her boyfriend. Even the messy hair strands blown up by the wind were not missed in the back and profile. .

The boy’s circle of friends consists of posting a selfie and a return ticket. There was not a trace of a girl in the whole process, and a friend with *** happened to comment below: Who are we going to play with? He replied: I go out alone to relax...

Without an open relationship, in addition to clearly giving others opportunities, you also deliberately misunderstand others. ? Later we asked him why he didn't disclose his girlfriend, and he said: "She didn't insist that I disclose it. If we break up by then, it wouldn't be a joke."

It was obvious. He doesn't really like her.

I am not asking you to disclose it, but I am waiting for you to take the initiative to disclose it. There are some things that you would rather give up decently than get them in an ugly way.

I have seen too many people shamelessly say that they are single on certain occasions even though they have been dating someone for a long time.

Then you can cast a wide net and move among all kinds of flowers and plants with ease, constantly engaging in ambiguity and constantly making lies.

In the end, the fatal point is that it is not enough love.

If he doesn't bring you into his circle, then no matter how close you are, you are just traveling to his world. If he really wants you to settle down, he will introduce your relationship to everyone in his world without any worries.

What is watched by everyone is called the tide, and what is turbulent under the river bed is called the undercurrent. Being together in public is called love, and only two people know it is flirting.

Those who love you will never let others know your existence. If you don't disclose things like feelings, you are leaving yourself a spare tire. If you can't expose your feelings to the public, if you keep secret, you will almost die if you expose them to the public.

Don’t listen to the millions of reasons, and don’t always comfort yourself. That person may not be able to let go of his ex, or he may be secretly in love with someone else, or he may be in the same boat, or he may even dislike you for your age. Got to be ugly. You may also be afraid of blinding others, or even more afraid of being slapped in the face in the future.

In short, you are not the person he firmly chooses, and he does not have the sincerity to follow you to the end.

We are neither celebrities, nor do we have such worries, so there is no need. There is nothing wrong with worrying about affecting your career.

Those who have a boyfriend or girlfriend and are unwilling to disclose it to the public, who keep saying they love you, but there is no trace of your existence in their lives, are called bitches. If they don’t break up as soon as possible, they will still be together. Keep it for the New Year?

We have passed the age of hearing about love. If we really want to judge a person's sincerity, it depends on whether he is willing to disclose it to you, cut off the escape route for you, and give you fair love.

Love cuts off all avenues of escape? Let’s change the you who lives the rest of our lives

Am I with you openly? I hope you will love me without leaving any room

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