What should you do when you are falling out of love?

There is no need to force yourself to forget. In fact, there is no need. There are many memories in life that are precious.

When you grow old, these memories will be a treasure in your life.

Being broken up in love can make you understand the true face of reality: there is no perfection, there are more incompleteness and regrets. It is indeed difficult to let go of first love, but after going through the baptism of first love and broken love, you should understand the world better. So the first step is to face reality, because you have to live no matter what, you should make yourself live better. Second, divert your attention. For example, when you are sad about this relationship, you can find something meaningful to do. Third, catharsis. Various ways, talk to friends, write diary, exercise. Fourth, establish new life goals and carefully plan your future life. When you have a plan and are working towards it, it’s hard to have time for random thoughts. In short, it is better to save yourself than cry. Strive to become smarter, stronger, and more charming. You will also meet someone who is more suitable for you. Even if you don't encounter it, you should live a fulfilling and strong life. In fact, lovelorn people are everywhere, and in the end they can only get through it on their own. The fact is, many people have gotten through it. So, please do your best, I believe it is only a matter of time.

The pain of lovelorn needs external help, but more importantly, it is to improve one's psychological endurance, enhance psychological adaptability, and learn to self-psychologically adjust, so as to achieve a new psychological balance.

Reverse thinking

In addition to the socially recognized qualities and concepts, there are also many special psychological requirements for successful love, such as: harmonious personality, similar interests, consistent values, and physical characteristics. Match and so on. If the relationship cannot continue due to conflicts in these aspects, it does not need to be too painful. You might as well think about it the other way around, if you just make do with it and it will lead to emotional discord in the future, what happiness can there be in love? Falling out of love is certainly not a blessing, but breaking up early without like-minded people and compatible personalities is not a bad thing. "It's a blessing in disguise."

Being broken up in love is first of all a kind of luck, and secondly, it is a misfortune.

Being broken in love proves that we have truly loved each other. If not. There is no such thing as lovelorn. You must know that in this world, there are many people who have never truly loved in their entire lives. Compared with these people, we have won an enviable point in life. Although it was later lost. But our lives have been enriched by it. The relationship becomes deeper. His temperament has become mature this time.

Falling in love is a completed choice, while falling in love is faced with the upcoming choices. In the days to come, as long as there is one person who can be close to your heart. We can look back to the years and say: Thank you, I am grateful for that broken love.

Don’t be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting not far away.

The best way to solve a broken love is to smile.

Smile, for yourself, others, and each other.

This is good for everyone.

I don’t agree with those who yell when they lose love.

Berate themselves and feel that they are the most helpless people in the world;

I don’t appreciate it either. Those people who abuse each other after falling out of love,

call the other person an imbecile without eyes.

These are all unwise and mindless people.

You must know that falling out of love has the same impact on both parties.

This can only increase the number of conflicts between yourself and your partner. The other party's unnecessary pain,

and it can't solve anything at all.

See yourself clearly and understand others.

Go your own way and don’t be discouraged; wish the other person good luck and don’t be resentful.

Don’t be a bear, be a real person!

The best way to solve a broken love is to forget.

Forget the joy and happiness in love,

Forget the loss and pain in love.

But don’t force yourself to forget.

The more you do this, the easier it will be to remember.

When you no longer think of him, you will no longer have any feelings of falling out of love.

At that time, you will face it calmly, and when you think of her:

You will sigh: "Oh, so I once loved her."

Broken love proves that he (she) is not the person you really want to be with in this life.

Try to be more open-minded!

What is not there will always be there.

Sometimes you can’t pursue something because it doesn’t belong to you.

On the contrary, sometimes a very good thing will come to you naturally,

Because it is your thing!

No matter what, I firmly believe it!