Have you ever had an emotional story with a woman older than yourself?

Let's share two experiences. The first one was when we first went to college. At that time, wechat was just emerging. People near WeChat met a young woman, about 30 years old. The first date was in a small park. Of course, she wore a long sweater and tight stockings. What impressed me most was that she put two band-AIDS (suspected strawberries) around her neck. At that time, she was sitting together chatting, and she was telling me some people and things around her. Two: She hates one of her male colleagues. He prefers to play in the shower. At that time, I just went to college (I don't know the meaning), and I have always been a listener, and I haven't had any other thoughts, including finally sending her home and being invited (it must be Liu Xiahui's reincarnation [covering her face]). Later, it was estimated that I was too ignorant of amorous feelings and soon hacked me. I regret it every time I think about it later, otherwise college life will add a little excitement.

The second experience: 18, I talked about a young woman I knew (39 years old, divorced for about 6 years). The first time we met was to go to the movies at night. I was a little excited when I saw her. To tell the truth, she is my favorite type, with a charming face (and some crow's feet), long waterfall hair and suspenders. She is a little cute and naughty, but it is hard to hide her beauty. We got along well for the first time, and then we met several times in a row. She felt a little dissatisfied [covering her face]. Every time we chat, she tells me about her ex-husband, colleagues, girlfriends, family and everything. I was full of negative energy and a little collapsed. To be honest, we don't agree. The development progress is in a KTV, and there are many appointments, cafes and cinemas in front. Just two people have an appointment to go to ktv to play. At that time, we also ordered several bottles of vo. She said she couldn't drink, so she didn't dare to order another wine. As a result, she really couldn't drink it. After a little drink, she was drunk, then she rested on my shoulder, and then her arms and legs developed further. What happened afterwards is self-evident. Finally, she can't stand her negative energy.

I met her online. After a period of online chatting and understanding, we naturally met and exchanged ideas.

Because we agreed to meet at McDonald's restaurant on the phone in advance, we went directly to McDonald's restaurant. When we got there, we ordered two sets of meals and then found an empty seat to sit down. I looked at the woman in front of me while eating the set meal. She has a beautiful face, and her hair falls like a waterfall on her slender shoulders. The deep dimples are charming, and her small eyes are even more touching, which makes the whole person look so charming.

In the process of chatting with each other, we all found that we have many common interests. This kind of conversation is more speculative, and we gradually speak freely and talk about everything. In this way, we don't know how long we talked. At this time, I looked at the screen of my mobile phone and thought, "It's getting late, it's time to go home." So, I don't know where I got the courage to take her home directly. I was about to kiss her when she cried. Suddenly, a sentence popped out of her mouth and asked, "Do you like me?" I suddenly stopped to think for a while. I replied, "well, I like you, but I know we can't have a result." In fact, I was so scared at that moment that I dared not kiss her again, so I decided to send her to the station for a ride home.

The next morning, my cell phone rang. As soon as I saw it was her mobile phone number, I answered it. It turned out that she asked me to go to the market to buy something to eat. She said she would make soup for me to drink and let me taste her cooking. After hearing the good news, I got up quickly, then went to the market to buy some vegetables, and then went to her house by car.

I felt very relaxed when I arrived at her home. Just when I was watching TV, she shouted from the kitchen, "It's time to eat." Hearing the cry, I replied, "coming!" " "So I walked from the living room to the table and sat down. At this time, she said, "The food is ready, but the chicken soup is not ready yet. You have to wait, you know? " I replied, "Well, I see. "At this moment, I was tasting the food she cooked for me, and she was busy in the kitchen. I went to the kitchen and saw her scoop a small spoonful of soup and taste it.

After a few minutes, she suddenly said, "The soup is ready." Then, she put a bowl of chicken soup in front of me, and she said let me try her cooking. Then put a spoonful of delicious soup in front of me into my mouth. At this moment, she asked me, "How about this bowl of soup? How does it taste? " I said, "It's delicious." When I finished this sentence, I saw that her face was full of happiness.

Once, I visited and exchanged ideas with her in a university. After a few hours of class, we were really bored, so we went out of the classroom and wanted to breathe fresh air in this beautiful campus.

When we took the elevator, just as the elevator door closed, we began to hug and kiss warmly.

I took many beautiful photos of her when I was walking on campus, and I asked her to send them to me. But she didn't send it to me for a long time, and I was a little impatient. Because she logged into her account with my mobile phone, I found her password through technical means. Unexpectedly, I found an email from a stranger in her mailbox, and the stranger actually sent me and her.

After a period of investigation, I found that the stranger turned out to be her online husband. When I told her everything I had done, what I didn't expect was the consequences. What I got was a scolding from her. I feel very wronged. I really wanted to find a place to vent. I really like her. I really don't know what to do. I would do anything for her.

I still remember one night, I didn't go straight home, but went straight to her house to find her. But when I called her, she said it was downstairs. She said she didn't believe it. A few minutes later, I knocked on her door. However, what I didn't expect was that I waited at her door for half an hour. After my repeated requests, she reluctantly opened the door.

That night, I admitted that we had an intimate relationship, but we didn't have sex. Because I love her, I dare not hurt her easily.

After about a week, she ignored me again. I found out that she blacklisted me. When I added her, I said, "Sister, I was wrong. Can you forgive me? " She said, "You are right, but the mistake is that you should not approach me."

Like is a feeling, love is a responsibility. I remember every word she said firmly, which made me feel very confused. I don't know how to face her.

Of course, I used to date a woman who was about 0/5 years older than me. Of course there is no result between me and her, because she has a family and I have an affair with her.

It is ambiguous, but in fact we still have feelings, not because I am empty and lonely and come out to find opportunities to indulge. We met online, talked for a few weeks, and met. We had sex the first time we met. What I thought afterwards was a one-night stand, and I may not come back and forth in the future. As a result, she still chats with me every day. After a long time, everyone has a sense of sustenance in each other's hearts. I always feel something is missing when I don't talk every day. So we got together again later and met as soon as we had time. Every time I go to see her, she lets me stay at his house. He does have a husband, but he is often away from home and works in other places. As long as her husband is away, she invites me to play there. I asked her, aren't you afraid that your husband or neighbors will find out? She said, "Anyway, you will find out and admit it" ... quite open.

In fact, my first consideration may only be that she has a bad relationship with her husband, and she is usually empty and lonely. She just wants me to solve her sexual needs. But later, she took the initiative to bring me to her circle of friends and made our relationship public. Even some of her relatives knew about it and helped us hide it for fear that her husband would know. The more so, the more scared I am. Because I can see that she really loves me, but I am younger than her after all, and I have never been married. No matter from secular or family reasons, I can't live with her. In order to prevent getting deeper and deeper, I thought about giving up and suggested it to her. She even cried and told me that she was willing to tell her husband about me, divorce him and stay with me forever ... but it scared me. At that time, I had no choice but to find her friends and let them persuade her. As a result, some of her friends were finally persuaded by her to persuade me to stay with her. ...

Because of this, I really couldn't help it later, and I really didn't want to hurt her, but the point is that at this time, she couldn't listen to anything, so I had to run. So later, I sent her a goodwill "declaration of breaking up" with my mobile phone, changed my mobile phone card immediately, and never contacted her again. ...

I don't know if it was right or wrong to do so at that time, but I know that feelings are like this sometimes, and the ups and downs are all in it. When I really can't convince each other face to face or face to face, the only thing I can do is run away. I don't know if this is irresponsible or irresponsible, but from the bottom of my heart, no matter where she is now, I hope she is happy. ...

I am 28 years old, single, and the story of a divorced woman four years older than me.

65438+came into my life in May 2007. Originally, it was just normal chatting and caring for each other. She always regarded herself as her sister, and I always regarded her as my sister. We tell each other many things. I don't ask about her past, and she doesn't ask about my family.

In mid-May, my mother was seriously ill, with little hope of recovery and needed a lot of money. I lost ten pounds that month, and my father's hair turned white. During that time, she always encouraged me and helped me raise money. At the end of June, my grandmother also fell to her death, which added insult to injury. The whole family fell apart because my grandmother was the cohesion of the family. During that time, my whole person seemed to have collapsed. Aunties at home are all fighting for inheritance, and chickens fly and dogs jump. She always comforted me and never wanted to leave. In August, after the treatment, my mother owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts and returned to her hometown.

On the same day, she invited me to her home for dinner. ...

I haven't been to her place. She bought a suite by herself. When I arrived, I found her room very simple. There is a bed, a computer desk, a mirror and a wardrobe in the bedroom, but it is very clean and tidy. In the living room, she peeled an apple for me and told me to sit casually, so she went to the kitchen to cook. At that time, my mood was still very low, and I had no appetite for dinner. Although the food she cooked was to my taste, I only ate a little, and she clearly saw it. She asked me to go to her room and watch the computer for a while. She went to wash the dishes. After a while, she came to the room and asked me what I didn't hear clearly. It was a trance. Suddenly she came and hugged me, and I hugged her without saying a word. She said that she didn't know how to comfort me, and she would feel distressed if I was unhappy. After a while, she said she would give me something. She showed herself completely in front of me and then put me down. ...

In fact, I have expressed my intention to be with her, but she doesn't agree, and she always says it's my sister, but I know my parents can't accept a divorced woman, and she always understands this truth. Later, she introduced some girls to me, but I didn't accept them.

Yes Speaking of which, I feel very guilty about my current girlfriend.

In college, my girlfriend and I fell in love in different cities. I met a senior who was eight years older than me. I 19 years old, and she is 27 years old, studying as a graduate student. Maybe it's all about going out to study far from home. Let's begin to appreciate each other.

One day, she told me that she liked me and she didn't know what to do. I know the senior. She also has her own boyfriend. She wants to be with me, but she won't give up her boyfriend. After all, her boyfriend has a considerable job and income.

I can't give up my girlfriend either. She is far from home, and often makes me be caring and attentive. How can I stand it? However, the seniors who are eight years older than me and I are still secretly together.

We promised to be together, just holding hands, not kissing, not having sex. However, such a senior who is nearly 30 years old is really attractive. Maybe I really like girls older than me.

Such a woman really made me uncontrollable, and then we broke our word. I know I am a scum, but what can I do when my feelings come?

Later, the seniors graduated and left the city. When she left, she said to me, thank me, this time has brought her a beautiful day, and she is going to marry her boyfriend.

In fact, people will encounter some episodes more or less in their lives, and it is normal to be uncontrollable. Later, I told my girlfriend about it. She was incredibly generous. She said that no matter what kind of temptation I met on the road, as long as I remember to go home.

I remember a few years ago, when I graduated from college as a salesman, I often went to the village in the city to develop my business. I don't know when I added a sister's WeChat. Call her Sister L for the time being! Because there is no business, we talk from time to time.

Once I had a drink with a friend, and it didn't end until after 10 in the evening. I go home by tram. I just walked near the village where Sister L is located, and the car ran out of power, so I went to charge the car. It took me half an hour to ride home, and I thought of Sister L during that time. I think this is the best time to invite her out for dinner. At first, she was surprised and asked me how I remembered to invite her to dinner. I told the truth why. Sister l said she wouldn't eat supper, but she could come out to meet and chat. Since then, whenever I am free, I will have dinner with each other, during which I obviously feel her change.

That summer night, we met again for dinner. Sister L said she wouldn't go to the restaurant this time, and she would come to my house to cook for you, not to mention her cooking is quite good. For me, who can't eat a few meals cooked by my mother all the year round, that night was the most delicious dinner I have eaten in recent years! During this period, we talked a lot. Sister l said that she was old and urged to get married at home. Actually, I know what she means. At that time, I had just graduated with no house, no car, no savings and even a heavy heart. I didn't even think about getting married. My ambiguity completely disappointed Sister L. Later I learned that her family introduced her to a boyfriend, and that dinner was her last chance. Three days later, Sister L sent me a message saying that she was waiting to go to Beijing at the railway station and didn't have to come to see me off. Take care of yourself. Since then, our contact has been broken. I wish Sister L a happy life here!

Alas, I haven't seen her for more than 20 years.

At that time, I just became a father and my wife lost her job. Business in the small county town of my hometown is difficult to do, so I have to take my wife and children to find my father-in-law who is doing business in Shanxi. After investigating various businesses, I finally chose to send gas tanks. Although tired, making money is simple and worry-free. After working for about half a year, my father-in-law once asked me to send him a can of gas in the wholesale store where he often takes cigarettes. After I went there gladly, the shopkeeper said that she wanted me to help her sister-in-law fill the bottle, and soon her sister-in-law came. Talking and laughing, neither fat nor thin, she is really a beautiful and virtuous young woman. Later, I learned through chatting that she was eight years older than me.

It turns out that her name is Feng Ying, and her husband is in the coal business and often travels abroad. She drives her children to school at home alone. Every time I help her fill the air, she always prepares all the tea, washes the fruit and treats me warmly. I have been in contact with many people for a long time, and I have chatted very well. I found that her eyes are always looking at me. Every time I go downstairs and look back at her window, she always stands at the window and smiles and waves at me, which makes me feel very uneasy ... To be honest, I like her very much, but I am afraid to think about the consequences!

One night at nine o'clock, she paged me (the pager I only used) and said that it seemed that the valve on the gas bottle was leaking a little, so she asked me to check it quickly. I went with doubts. After knocking at the door, she greeted me in almost transparent pajamas. I went to check it out, and there was no problem at all. But I bought her a new one. At that time, she was rubbing against me, and I felt that she was waiting for me to be brave ... but reason overcame impulse, and I still dared not. ...

I believe many boys have had it. So I am no exception! Especially after 85, because after 85 is a family planning generation, many families are only children. They are generally spoiled by their parents! Especially in boys' families now, there are no brothers. I grew up with my mother. Giving him consciousness is a dependence on mature women! I live in such a family, and there are two sisters on it, so that I like my sister-in-law's love from the mentality! Yearning for brotherhood! Like mature women. Girls who feel mature will be considerate and take care of others!

When I was a sophomore, I fell in love with one of my senior sisters! At first, I just had a crush! Because I don't know, I dare not go up and ask for the phone number! Every time I see her on campus, my heart beats! I was still too shy at that time. I always feel that I am doomed to fail. I didn't expect a friend of mine to know her classmates! Give me the phone number. We chat by SMS every day for a long time. Let's meet! Everyone has a good impression on each other. In this way, we contacted for a while.

To tell the truth, after contact. Not as good as I thought! I feel that she still has some material things, and she doesn't have the kind of care that seniors give to junior girls! When I am with her, I often ask her what she needs to buy. I will satisfy her at first. Later, because of a very small thing, I was bored directly. I refused to do it by myself because of a small matter. As long as I pay, her dormitory phone is broken, and I need to buy one for her! I feel that she treats me like a fool. Although it is a very small thing! If she really treats me as a boyfriend, will she be like this? Then I broke up on my own initiative!

Later, I graduated and took part in the work. I talked about a divorced man. She is older than me 10 years old! She has an 8-year-old daughter. Talking to her really makes me feel like brother and sister! With her, everything I do has her guidance! We are very open to each other! And she is very considerate of people's feelings! Never asked me to do anything for her. Then I took the initiative to buy her a set of cosmetics! She is so happy! In fact, she bought something for me before! Like clothes! And belts! She bought it from me without telling me! Later, we broke up, but it was actually my fault! Because I'm afraid others will gossip when they find out! I guess she saw it, too, and finally she stopped contacting!

Although my heart yearns for the love of brother and sister! Do not exclude brotherhood! It's just that I've never really met anyone who loves me in my life! My present wife is one year younger than me! We get along very well! Life is still natural! Don't pursue it deliberately! True love age is not a problem! A happy marriage still needs two people to pursue together!

At that time, I was working in a factory, and many people came and left. There are more boys than girls, and they are usually in a state of lack of people. Three people will be added today, and two will leave tomorrow. To me, everyone is a passer-by Let it go.

The first time I spoke to her was in the wardrobe area. When I got to my closet, I had to rummage through hers. That time, she didn't go to dinner immediately after changing clothes. When I passed by, I said, "Why didn't I go to dinner?" She said, "I'm waiting for my friends to have dinner together." After a while, I became familiar with it. My greeting was changed to "Let's go and eat." He also answered, but he ate in different places.

That was the first time we had dinner together. For work reasons, the meal was divided into two batches. She and her friends eat at different times, and she and I happen to be in the same group. "Go, eat." She said, "Go ahead."

He followed me to the place where I ate. From the chat, I know that she has worked here for two months, is married, has a daughter, has a large family expense, and also comes out to work. Later, I ate several times at a time, and they got along well. Until that day.

That day, I met one of her fellow villagers on the way to dinner. They communicate in dialect, I can't understand a word, and I can't get in a word. At that time, I found I was unhappy, jealous and angry. It turns out that I already like her. Later, I ate for two or three days in a row, and my fellow villagers always came. I was very uncomfortable. I decided not to eat together in the future, so as not to feel uncomfortable.

Later at dinner, I saw her go to dinner alone. I think, maybe her hometown is on the road, not disturbing. Never took the initiative to find her. In fact, I want to tell her that I like her and enjoy getting along with her, but the thought that she is a good wife and mother makes me feel ashamed of my thoughts.

We didn't talk for a few days, but we would inadvertently see each other, and then I found that she didn't look at me for a few days. On my side, of course, talking and laughing, unrestrained, turn a blind eye to me, should be turned a blind eye. I felt terrible at that moment.

The next day, while eating, I sent her a WeChat message, "Let's have dinner together", and she said "OK".

I have never had this experience, but a close friend has. This friend used to be an enviable national staff member. At that time, his salary was about three times higher than that of a private enterprise worker like me. On this holiday, the welfare benefits are excellent, and he can move freely during his work. This job is not difficult, and it is a beautiful job. That handsome boy is 25 years old, tall 178, talented and handsome, and is a hot commodity in the eyes of girls. It happened that this boy did the opposite, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and he fell in love with an aunt in the same factory four years ago. This girl is eight years older than the boy, which seems a bit out of place to outsiders.

My friend fell in love with her when she was working in the factory, but she was rejected by the old girl on the grounds of age. She refused to accept small 8's boyfriend and small 8's husband. Once the little fresh meat is married, because of the age problem, visitors are easy to philander and deteriorate one by one, so no matter how flattering he is, the girl is quietly and will not let go.

After my friend started a steady job here, she went back to the factory and asked the girl out again. After saying so many nice things and singing so many songs, the girl wants stars, and tomorrow night she will fly to the sky to pick them and give them to her. The girl wanted the Dragon King and promised to take them to the seaside tomorrow morning. Anyway, she gave everything she wanted, fell in love with her feet and fell at her feet. I swear, I don't want to be born on the same day, I just want to die at the same time. I'm determined to make my mouth water and foam at the mouth. Around this girl all day, under the fierce fire attack of friends' affection and love, the girl finally believed him and trusted small 8's boyfriend infinitely. I finally fell into my boyfriend's arms after dinner and had a wonderful wedding dream. In the end, I lost all the 38th parallel, and I surrendered to my boyfriend.

My friend cut the gordian knot, registered for a party and invited the children in the garden room at one breath. Three years later, my girlfriend became a wife, with no novelty, more housework and more trouble, and a feeling of hating my wife. I decided to forget my responsibilities before marriage. I don't want to be born on the same day. I just want to take an oath at the same time and fly to the sea. In the later period, the boy often stayed out at night and hung out with irresponsible women. Because of his sensitive work, he was reported to the unit by his wife and was finally warned. Meanwhile, the girl turned to her parents and brothers for help. One day, her brother and three other friends severely beat the boy. Do you think he is still a playboy? In the end, my friend succumbed to the fists of his uncle, brother-in-law and his friends and promised never to mention divorce again in his life.

From this perspective, the age gap between men and women should not be too big, otherwise happiness cannot be guaranteed!