What should my parents do if I 12 years old?

I am angry and funny, but I am helpless. I know this is my parents' concern for me. I can't resist, but I really can't afford it.

I am 22 years old, and I will be 23 soon. In my mother's eyes, I am only 12 years old. I always feel that I will be cheated wherever I go. Only she and my father can protect me, for fear that I will marry a foreign country. The field here refers to the place outside my small county-level city, because I will be beaten by my husband in the future (I also wonder why my parents always think I will be beaten by my husband. . . . ), neither she nor my father can afford me. Her ideal son-in-law was introduced to me by relatives and friends, and everyone said that she had a good personality. Everyone here refers to all kinds of three aunts and eight bitches. Anyway, as long as I find it myself, I am definitely a liar.

This year's Dragon Boat Festival, my boyfriend and I went to play. At that time, I didn't go home under the pretext of postgraduate entrance examination. I made a circle of friends that day, but I forgot my dad when I was blocked. Something happened, and my dad wanted to take me back and beat me up. I was supposed to stay at school for a long summer vacation to review, but I refused directly. As we all know, summer vacation is the golden age of review. If I don't catch it, it will get cold. I will go back, but I will take a small video on WeChat every day. Until today. My classmates who ate with me were surprised, but I was embarrassed and felt that I had no dignity.

I also called during the period. I told my mother seriously that I have grown up and I have confidence in myself. I know everything. I'm not an idiot. When I was sensible, my parents talked to me about their feelings. During this period, my parents obviously felt that I was in a bad state, so they eased up on me and said they supported me. God knows how happy I was, but when I recovered, they put pressure on me every day.

The moment my parents found out that they were in love, I felt their tone of voice and looked at me as if they had committed a heinous crime, killing people and selling drugs. I was depressed for a while. I thought about running away from home and committing suicide, because I just communicated with my parents not long ago. My classmates can go out for part-time jobs in winter and summer vacations to earn money and save money to travel by themselves, but I can't. My parents just want to imprison me at home, under their noses and the protection of so-called parents, even if I lie in bed and play with my mobile phone every day, as long as I don't go out, as long as they can't see me.

Ever since my mother found out that I was in love, she fantasized that my boyfriend was a boy who was five big and three thick, uneducated and easy to beat up women at home, and sent me all kinds of news that female college students were cheated into the ravine every day. I am so angry and funny. In fact, my boyfriend is a college student like me, studying law, and his ability in all aspects is better than mine. My parents are always so confident in me that others don't deserve me.

I told my mother seriously that I have grown up and you can't protect me all the time. To this end, I also told them the story of the eagle learning to fly. It started to get better for a few days, and it started again. If you want to stay in school during the summer vacation, you have to work for your mother two months in advance. At first, she cried and said that I had grown up and didn't want my parents. She also said that I was young and it was dangerous to be cheated outside alone.

I love my boyfriend very much now and want to marry him in the future. It is estimated that more storms are coming. Boyfriends are not only from other places, but also from other provinces. My boyfriend is the only daughter in my family, and his parents don't object to my staying in my city. I told my parents about it, but they didn't believe me and said my boyfriend was lying to me.

I just want to work hard and earn a lot of money now. Maybe only when I am financially independent will my parents think that I have really grown up.