Signs of husband and wife not being together (4 signs that the relationship between husband and wife is getting better and better)

Be able to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well

The most important relationship in the family is not mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not mother and daughter, but husband and wife. The most important thing in getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to treat each other with respect and not to make things difficult for each other.

The conflict between Huihui and her mother-in-law also started when she was pregnant and gave birth to a child, because Huihui has not eaten spicy food since she was a child, but her husband's family does not like spicy food.

When Huihui was pregnant, her mother-in-law said: "I can't cook dishes without pepper!"

After hearing this, Huihui's husband resigned from the company. He would learn to cook for Huihui%20 every day. If Huihui really didn’t want to eat, his husband would accompany Huihui to eat out. Every once in a while, if he had the opportunity, he would take Huihui to travel around the country.

Since then After Huihui gave birth to the child, her mother-in-law disliked the fact that the child was a girl. Before the confinement period, I talked to Huihui about having a second child every day, thinking that the next generation would have a boy. After Huihui's husband heard this, he scolded his mother. After that, the mother-in-law never dared to mention the second child or having a boy again.

Huihui’s baby is now nine months old. Because Huihui’s family of three has already lived separately from her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law comes to visit every now and then and goes back after having a meal. Occasionally, Huihui and her mother-in-law still have troubles. contradiction.

Now Huihui chooses to take care of the children and do housework by herself. Although Huihui feels very tired every day and sometimes is too busy to eat, Huihui does not ask her mother-in-law to help.

If the mother-in-law is bad, you can make do with it, but if the man is bad, you can't make do with it. The ancients said that it is not easy for a mother-in-law to cross paths with, and it is not easy for a man to cross paths with a knife. What I fear most is that my husband and I don't have the same mind. Huihui's husband decisively chose to side with Huihui, and finally protected the marriage. Understand each other and be considerate of each other

Many people will not understand until middle age that a husband and wife are not only about having children, but also about encouraging and perfecting each other.

Love is respect and understanding, not selfishness and bondage.

Ye Ye was a mother when Dabao was a child. Because her husband was busy with work, Ye Ye took care of the children and did the housework alone. At first, Ye Ye thought that her husband would be moved by Ye Ye's dedication.

But one day Ye Ye yelled at her child because she wanted her son to go to bed early so that she could do housework. At that time, Ye Ye complained to her husband very feebly: Your mother didn’t even help with the laundry. , then the husband said to Ye Ye: You don’t go to work, what can happen? Clothes can no longer be washed by yourself. At that time, Ye Ye was speechless on the spot and her heart was broken.

After that, Ye Ye had her second child. She no longer micromanaged everything, and often left the baby to her husband to take care of, giving herself some space to relax alone. Only then did Ye Ye’s husband realize what he had brought him. The baby had to deal with so many things, and Ye Ye never got up even once to change a diaper at night. Whenever the child cried, Ye Ye would kick her husband awake. Only then did Ye Ye's husband realize the hard work of raising a baby and began to understand Ye Ye.

Therefore, you must be willing to let the person you love experience it with you, otherwise there will be no empathy at all, which is unrealistic.

It is not easy for men to understand women, but women understand the suffering that men suffer outside.

Really good couples know how to give in, protect each other, understand each other, be considerate of each other, and will not deepen conflicts or embarrass each other. No matter who he is in front of, he will not talk about family affairs or talk about right and wrong.

A happy marriage is not maintained by money, but by the husband and wife working together, respecting and loving each other. Only in this way can the husband and wife grow old together and be inseparable! Good friendship

Many people originally wanted to find a man to protect them from the wind and rain, but in the end they found that the wind and rain were caused by the man next to them. This can be said to be the current situation of many Chinese women now.

Honghong’s husband is a very nice person, elegant and intellectual, but as long as he drinks, he seems to be a different person, chattering endlessly about old sesame seeds and rotten millet.

In the beginning, Honghong followed her husband to attend some gatherings among friends, but it didn’t take long before Honghong withdrew and quit because it was too annoying.

Several times, my husband drank too much and was helped home by his friends. After a lot of times, Honghonghong began to have a bad look at the friends who sent my husband home, and even blushed. I told my husband's friends: "If he drinks too much in the future, don't send him home. Send him where he should."

Slowly, Honghong attracted the drinking buddies around her husband. She was almost offended, and fewer and fewer people came to her husband to drink.

The more pampered a woman is, the more capable she becomes, while the more pampered a man is, the more he becomes a jerk. When Honghong realized that her husband was going further and further away from the "influence" of that group of friends, she decisively stopped this from happening again, thus preventing a greater tragedy from happening.

Once the husband is strong, one generation will be strong; once the woman is strong, three generations will be strong! Honghong can be said to be "a good wife of a generation", a prosperous family for three generations! Good money concepts

If a man is willing to spend money for you, he does not necessarily love you, but if he is unwilling to spend money for you, he definitely does not love you.

Sisi’s husband is a person who is willing to spend a lot of money for his family but is reluctant to spend a penny more for himself. As early as 10 years ago, when Sisi's husband's salary was only 3,000 yuan, he saved up for two months to buy Sisi a 1,500 yuan camera.

Now Sisi's husband has an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, but he is not willing to buy more than 300 yuan worth of clothes for himself, but he is never stingy with the consumption of Sisi and her family.

Sisi said: "I feel very happy to be lucky enough to marry such a man. We have been together for almost nine years and have been married for more than two years now. However, we just had a baby and our relationship is getting better and better." Just because of his kindness and carefulness, I rely on him more and more."

It can be seen that there are three types of men:

One is to hold back your lover but be generous to yourself, which means you definitely don’t love them anymore.

The other type is to hold on to everyone, including yourself and your lover, regardless of whether you love them or not. This type is a standard miser. The last one is one who only treats himself but is generous to his relatives and friends around him. This kind of man can be said to be a good man who can only be found but not found. All men know how to love their wives

Lingling and her husband have been married for four years, but Lingling has not even washed a pair of socks or done any housework. Her husband’s salary is stuck in Lingling’s hands, including her husband’s mobile phone Lingling's fingerprints are recorded on the fingerprint lock, and there will be a gift for Lingling on every holiday.

Lingling’s husband doesn’t smoke, drink less, and doesn’t play games. She never told Lingling about bad things and troubles. Whenever Lingling asked her husband, her husband would just respond lightly.

Lingling said to her husband that she likes boys with muscles. Since Lingling’s husband listened to Lingling’s appeal, he has been working out every day.

Later, Lingling said that she liked boys who played the piano. When her husband heard about it, he immediately went to learn piano. Later, she played the piano at a friend's wedding, and Lingling played the violin with her husband next to her.

When Lingling told her husband that she wanted to live with her parents, Lingling's husband moved in and lived with Lingling's parents and honored Lingling's parents every day.

The smartest man in marriage is to give women a sense of security, reduce disputes in life, and nip all bad things in the cradle.

A man who loves his wife well will not have a bad life! What a woman wants is a man’s heartache. In fact, women’s requirements are often not high. As long as they have their husband’s heartache, tolerance and care. , this is actually enough!