Your daughter-in-law will pick her up after confinement. What should she do when she meets such a mother-in-law

We are often enthusiastic and patient with outsiders, but sometimes we are harsh and impatient with our families. Leaving the best temper to outsiders may be a mistake that many people make.

Politeness and sincerity are the keys to getting along with people. Mutual understanding, mutual accommodation, mutual respect, we can harvest good interpersonal relationships. In fact, when we get along with our relatives, we should also reciprocate.

We are always used to enjoying the care of our relatives and family members, but seldom know how to repay them. Every fiery heart should be cared for and cherished. If you are wronged, your heart will get cold no matter how hot it is.

Under one roof, every family member should be grateful and kind, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You have to understand that mutual benefit can bring long-term harmony to this relationship.

Unlike many young girls, Zou Lin doesn't like noisy environment. When she is busy at work, she likes to go to the noodle restaurant downstairs to eat noodles. There, she met Xiao Bin, who also likes spaghetti.

Soon, the two established a love relationship. When in love, Zou Lin never wanted to take advantage of each other. Every time Xiao Bin spends money, she invites her partner back. "One thing for one, never owe each other" is her principle.

After contact, Lin Zou found that Xiao Bin had no opinion. But he was gentle and careful, so Lin Zou didn't think much. When engaged, she offered a bride price of 88,000 yuan, which was accepted by the other party. But near the wedding, the other party suddenly changed its mind.

When the bride price dropped to 38,000, Zou Lin was suddenly very unhappy. But after weighing the pros and cons, under the persuasion of Xiao Bin, she finally chose to accept it. Because I didn't buy a house, I lived with my mother-in-law for the time being.

02. Although I feel uncomfortable, Zou Lin feels that there is no need to be too clear at home. But after marriage, she took on all the housework. My mother-in-law always said, "Other people's daughters-in-law are hardworking, and it is only natural for girls to do housework."

Xiao Bin said that all his money was saved for buying a house, so Lin Zou was almost entirely responsible for the expenses at home. Since her mother-in-law has no income, Xiao Bin suggested that she pay a sum of money as alimony every month.

My mother-in-law is seldom at home. She spends most of her time traveling or playing cards. Even during Zou Lin's pregnancy, she seldom cooks. Sometimes, she will send Zou Lin away with a bowl of noodles: "I heard that you like noodles, which I made specially."

There is some unhappiness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but Xiao Bin has always criticized Zou Lin for not respecting her elders. Soon after, Lin Zou learned that Xiao Bin's income was not as much as he boasted, and most of his savings were used to pay off gambling debts.

03. Lin Zou was disheartened, but Xiao Bin argued: "The family lives well. What is the difference between buying a house and not buying a house? " My mother-in-law also sarcastically said, "If you want to buy a house, pay for it yourself."

Zou Lin had the idea of divorce, but for the sake of her children, she endured again and again. After the child was born, her mother-in-law made her three bowls of clear soup noodles on the first day: "Eat lightly after giving birth." Zou Lin was very wronged and went back to her family with anger.

However, Xiao Bin didn't meet her. He sent a message: "My mother said it was good to have a confinement at home. After all, your mother knows your taste. " Zou Lin was completely chilling and filed for divorce.

Zou Lin, who has always been gentle, did not give Xiao Bin any chance this time. No matter how to save it, she was unmoved. Soon after, my mother said to Xiao Bin, "Your daughter-in-law's month has passed, so take her home." Xiao Bin replied helplessly: "Mom, she filed for divorce."

If there are fraudulent marriages, most of them will have big problems; Love without understanding and respect is likely to be broken. At the same time, if you don't get the recognition and goodwill of the other party, you will be heartbroken in the end. Girls can be gentle and generous in love, but they must never show cowardice and incompetence.

A broken heart cannot be redeemed. Women are generally very soft-hearted and will not let go easily. But if she is tortured and cheated for a long time, and even can't get due consideration and care, then she will give up completely. At this time, it is too late to recover.

At first, every woman looked forward to a sweet and beautiful love. However, when the initial expectation turned into despair, when the initial enthusiasm turned into chilling, she had to say let go. Therefore, every man should be kind to his lover and give her enough warmth.

At the moment of entering the marriage hall, all girls believe that their lovers and in-laws will be good to them. If a woman can play the role of wife, daughter-in-law and mother, she must enjoy the corresponding treatment. Otherwise, her efforts will be meaningless.

People should have self-knowledge and conscience when doing things. In any interpersonal relationship, we should maintain good quality and assume corresponding responsibilities and obligations.

Husband and wife love each other and trust each other; Mutual understanding and respect between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important prerequisite for a big family to maintain harmony. I hope everyone can play their part.