When my brothers, sisters, mother and children go on a trip, do they still need to share the money for meals and drinks during the trip?

This situation needs to be treated separately. I think brothers and sisters need to share the expenses equally. My mother and children do not need to share the expenses equally. Of course, if this trip is unilaterally initiated by you, and the purpose is to let the whole family have fun, and you are not short of money, then you don’t need to consider sharing it equally. This is actually the case. This is one of the more difficult things to deal with in the world of people. Here I will briefly talk about my approach in different situations. I hope it can give the subject some reference.

In the first case, suppose I am the richest person in the family, and my economic level is far higher than that of other brothers and sisters. Then I choose a special day, such as a holiday when everyone is free on the eve of my mother’s birthday. Naturally, the reason is to celebrate her birthday and thank her for her hard work in raising her. The old man naturally likes the family to be lively and tidy. So bring your immediate siblings and children with you, and choose to cover all travel, accommodation, and food expenses during the trip.

At this time, the meaning of this trip is very different. Firstly, it is to repay my mother’s kindness in raising me, and secondly, it is to improve my family status. Naturally, I don’t care about sharing the drink money. Of course, when doing this, you still have to make sure that you have sufficient financial resources, and it is enough to arrange it once or twice in a lifetime.

In the second case, my brothers and sisters and I all come from the same well-off families. You can also discuss with your brothers and sisters at home to take your mother and children out for fun. At this time, you need to discuss the sharing of the trip expenses with everyone in advance before traveling. Not only The cost of meals and drinks, as well as travel expenses, accommodation expenses, catering expenses, shopping expenses, etc. all need to be agreed upon, so as not to go to the scenic spot and get confused and end up vomiting when you go home.

Please think carefully about whether this kind of situation happens a lot in life, because it is not easy for everyone to make money, and there is no need to do things beyond one’s consumption capacity just to save face, and some brothers and sisters still The kind who are not very conscious and want to continue to take advantage after taking advantage once.

So, in response to this problem, I think traveling is all about having fun. If you are willing to spend the money, then don’t care. If you don’t want to spend so much money, you need to reach an agreement with everyone before traveling. Show your knowledge and don't end up unhappy because of money.