During the trip, my girlfriend and I had some problems. She wants to stop traveling and break up with me. What should I do?

When this happens, first of all, don't think about who is right or wrong, but try to return to the original city with your girlfriend as soon as possible and give her to your family safely.

There are two reasons:

0 1. Personal safety is greater than all things. Girls and boys have different ways of thinking when dealing with things. For example, now two people are traveling and encounter unhappy things. For boys, they will not give up this trip easily, but try their best to calm their inner unhappiness. After all, they came out to relax, so why bother? In essence, this is the rational thinking peculiar to boys. Now that you have decided to do something, it won't affect you because of your mood. On the contrary, the more you do this, the more you can temper your will. One more thing, boys will rationally consider the manpower, financial resources and energy they have invested this time, and will weigh the pros and cons, not because they are stingy, but because they have been taught to solve things rationally since childhood, so many successful men are almost more rational than emotional.

In contrast, the way girls handle things is often more emotional. They are very emotional most of the time. For example, this trip, she will not consider how much time and preparation they have invested, nor how much money they have spent this time. As long as I feel unhappy, it doesn't matter if I give you the passage fee, as long as I vent it and feel comfortable.

Therefore, in the case of emotional instability, boys should not stimulate her. At the same time, you can't guarantee that if you coax her this time, you may start messing with you again tomorrow. The best way is to go home quickly. Emotional girls, it is easy to do unexpected things. If something goes wrong outside, no one can afford it. No matter what method is used, she will be coaxed home and handed over to her parents or relatives, and everything is waiting to be solved.

02. Rome wasn't built in a day. A girl can break up with you awkwardly during the trip, which shows that she is very immature. Maybe you came out this time to ease the contradiction between us. But in any case, I have to admit that it takes a fuse to detonate a bomb. This fuse between you has been lit a long time ago, but it burns slowly, or every time it burns, one of them will go out when necessary. But this line is getting shorter and shorter. If it is ignited again, it will definitely explode immediately. What you need to do now is not only to find a way to coax her home.

We should also seriously think about what problems have arisen between us, instead of just looking at the surface of things, we should go deep into the problems and see where the real reasons are. There are great differences between girls and boys in expressing problems. If a boy has a problem with a girl, he may tell her directly, I don't like what you do, and I hope you do what you should do. But girls are not like this. Most of them will hint or metaphor, and they will associate one thing with another or several things.

For example, she told you today that I think we are spending too much now. You said yes, but try to earn as much as possible! Can't spend money indiscriminately? She would say, do you think money is so easy to earn now? Never know to be prepared for danger in times of peace. You will be confused at the moment, saying that it is up to you to save it in the future. She would say, don't you agree with me? What's your attitude?

You must be in a state of despair, and she will still say, I haven't seen how motivated you are since I was with you. This life is really enough. See, this is a woman's way of thinking. She can give you the question of progress from the question of expenditure. In fact, to put it bluntly, she just wants to express her dissatisfaction with your current job. So you have to understand that a woman's speech is like peeling an onion, layer by layer, until she really wants to express something. Then when dealing with each other's problems, you will also know what she really thinks, and then you can decide whether the two will get along.