Why are some women accused of not caring about their families when they travel around after marriage?

Women's status in ancient times was very underground. They were required to look after their husbands and raise their children. Even when I go out, I have to ask my husband for his opinion, but it goes without saying that I go on a trip. Modern society has long since changed. It emphasizes equality between men and women. Women can do many things just like men. Once you have your own opinions, you don’t need to ask for anyone’s permission when you go out.

But what does it mean to travel? Do you often travel? When traveling, should you go with friends or with your husband? When we were young, we often traveled. Instead of scolding us, many adults would say that young people should walk around, see things, and broaden their horizons. But it is different after getting married. You are no longer a separate member, but a member of the family. Many things you do will be linked to the family by others. What we do should not only be considered for ourselves, but also for our families. Some people have conservative ideas and think that they should have children after getting married: If you travel all day long and don’t spend money, what will you do with your future life, the various expenses of the children, the family expenses, etc. Frequent travel means often not being at home, which is of course considered "disregarding family"

But everyone has their own lifestyle, and other people's opinions do not affect their own life. If you care about other people's opinions all day long, it will definitely be very hard, and other people's opinions may not be correct. Use your own money to live the life you want, without hurting anyone, and don't care about others. But we also need to reflect on whether it is really too much to go out for travel every now and then. After all, we are also married people. Family must be more important. But that doesn't mean that you are unimportant. You must have a balance between yourself and your family.