How to take the initiative to chat with girls

To take the initiative to chat with girls, you need to deliberately misinterpret, have a thick skin, push and pull words, and have a sense of humor.

1. Deliberate misinterpretation

First, let’s take a look at a set of conversations:

Female: Have you eaten?

Male: Originally, it was I ate, but seeing your chubby face, I’m hungry again

Female: Do you think my dress looks good today?

Male: Oh, if you like me, just tell me, you don’t need to wear a skirt to attract me

This is a typical way of deliberately misunderstanding a girl’s meaning in a chat, just like normal Flirting is the same. It can make a girl's emotions rise and fall in a good way during chatting. When you hint that she likes you regardless, the girl will also subconsciously feel that she is pursuing you. It's not you pursuing her.

2. Thick-skinned enough

Since ancient times, beauties love heroes, so when chatting with girls, we can also appropriately play ourselves into a shameless "hero" role. If you want to pursue a girl you like, you should be bold, careful, and thick-skinned. Next, let’s take a look at this conversation:

Female: Do you think I’m beautiful?

Male: Beautiful people never say they are beautiful, just like handsome me, never say I am handsome.

Female: Your clothes don’t fit well.

Male: I’m so handsome and my clothes fit me, so I won’t give other boys a way to survive.

Appropriate narcissism can help girls understand you better, and your handsome appearance can instantly attract girls' attention. After all, few boys can praise themselves so shamelessly, and girls will While I feel that you are special, I will also feel a sense of curiosity about you and want to know you better.

3. Push and pull techniques

If you want to enhance your relationship with the girl you like when chatting, you can try push and pull techniques. For example, don’t blindly please when chatting. , you can belittle girls appropriately.

For example, "The oil on your face can be used for cooking." At this time, the girl's mood will definitely hit the bottom immediately. Just when she wants to refute you, you have to stop the girl in time. Pull her back and say to her with a playful smile, "But it still doesn't affect your beauty." For such a naughty girl, the girl will definitely not know whether to laugh or cry, but what is certain is that your weight in her heart must be a lot heavier.

4. Sense of humor

Interesting souls are one in a million. The most important thing when chatting with the girl you like is to have a sense of humor. A humorous chat atmosphere can resolve many unnecessary conflicts. Even if it’s awkward, it can easily get through the cold scene.

So when chatting with the girl you like, be honest and prepare some funny jokes or emoticons, and use them in time when needed. This will make the girl think you are a humorous person. Of course There is no solution to using these skills all the time. The only long-term solution is to learn and grow at the same time, letting girls feel your humor and making her happy all the time.

Notes

1. Maintain a sense of mystery

Mystery is a necessary condition for maintaining a relationship, so when chatting with girls, you want to avoid chatting to death all the time. , we should maintain a sense of mystery when getting along with girls. Don't let girls understand you completely from the beginning, and don't let girls get too close to you. A distant relationship is the only condition for you to get closer.

2. When you ignore her

When a girl starts to like chatting with you, or she becomes more enthusiastic when you chat every day, it means that she has become accustomed to your existence. , if you want to make a girl’s impression of you more profound at this time.

Or when you are testing whether a girl likes you or not, you can appropriately ignore her when chatting, wait three to five minutes before returning when you reply, or occasionally try to show off to her. The way she looks anxious tells you how she feels about you.