Common troubles, contradictions and conflicts between children and parents during travel.

Common troubles, contradictions and conflicts between children and parents during travel.

1. Inconsistent time pace: Parents ask their children to keep a uniform pace, but the children are not cooperative enough.

Step 2 take pictures and be photographed

3, spend money to buy things or play

Adults ask children to learn knowledge and understand history and culture.

5. Children are energetic, adults are too tired and have a sense of sacrifice.

Many people feel that taking their children out is very tiring, and children are particularly disobedient.

Tourism is a highly concentrated life, and many life patterns will be revealed and stimulated during travel.

The first is high-frequency contact with children, which is basically 24 hours together. Besides, we have to face new environment, new people and many unexpected things.

A concentrated expression of whether the parent-child relationship between parents and children is harmonious in life;

Can parents control their children?

Is the parent-child relationship good? Are children willing to do what their parents ask?

Parents: Allow the child's rhythm and let go of control.

Adjustment of mentality and stability of parents' emotions

Children judge whether doing something is fun, whether the thing itself is fun, and whether they are in a good mood. These are the biggest motivations. If adults pollute this thing with emotions, it will not be fun.

For example, I don't think it's interesting to play a project in legoland and want to play a small train. I want to drag it to play with those big ones Children are not in the mood when they look at it. It is better to follow the rhythm of the child, because the child only wants to play that now, which is the most meaningful to him. With the satisfaction of playing this project, there is no problem at all. Parents can say, but children make their own choices. This process.

Second, the significance of travel lies in feeling and coping with the new environment, in exploring, not in instilling knowledge.

For example, children learn to check in, find luggage, and keep luggage, and parents encourage them in time.

The purpose of tourism is to be happy with themselves and their children, and to enhance the parent-child relationship. It is process-oriented rather than result-oriented, and it is the parents' own choice.

Regarding the feelings of travel notes and reflection, travel is to let children open all their senses, enjoy and experience. When they have fully experienced it, if they want to write something, they will naturally say and write. Even if he doesn't write when he comes back from a trip, he will still have something to write, because those feelings stay in his senses and can be called.

Third, children had better have a playmate.

For example, in Singapore, children play together, airports and buses.

Fourth, parents let go of their sense of scarcity: lack of money, lack of time and lack of opportunity.

Looking at the larger framework,

On New Year's Eve, I studied magic for two hours in genting highlands and bought a series of magic props.

PS。 The fun of taking pictures, let go of perfect control, is it more interesting to capture? For example, the fun of Merlion taking pictures.