I have been hanging out with my girlfriend, and she insists on an AA system. Should I agree?

My boyfriend is deeply influenced by Western education. His previous living environment was like this. He is more accustomed to the AA system. With different educational backgrounds, the two people naturally have different ways of thinking. What he thinks is normal for you Can't accept it. If this is the case, you must communicate more and eliminate the misunderstanding between the two of you, and you will be relieved about this matter. The woman seems to be interested in the man’s money! You can think that this is a fallacy! But is there a rule that when a boyfriend and girlfriend go out, the man must pay for it? This is just the so-called gentlemanly behavior! Masculinity! The so-called face is just causing trouble! I thought this was a fallacy! .

Relationships involve money and the interests of two people, which will cause a lot of unnecessary troubles. I hope you can make it clear to your boyfriend. Is he AA for some reason, not enough money, or whatever? It’s up to you to decide how to deal with it, but I suggest that girls should contribute an appropriate portion of the money when we go out to play in the future. It depends on what you mean. If it is you who proposes it, going out for fun, such as traveling abroad, will involve more funds. I think it is understandable that he requires AA, but generally it is also required for going shopping and watching movies. AA is a bit too fussy.

No matter when, a man will never have AA thoughts when he loves you. Just giving her love is not enough, holding her in your hands will hurt you. My nephew is also in a relationship now. He wants the best for his girlfriend. He takes great care of her and loves her. He never thinks about AA when he spends money. In fact, I don't think there is anything wrong with him. We are interested in him as a person. We go out to get to know each other better. It is not to the extent of talking about marriage or getting married. Why should people invest too much in you?

Thank you! By doing this, he is obviously on the same level as you. It mainly depends on whether your three views are suitable. I have nothing against AA. A girl can only be an enviable person if she is financially independent.