Can a woman really have a blue confidante? Will it affect your's love?

This question depends on how your blue face guides you. In real life, I have a confidante, but since dating him, I feel that my relationship with my husband is better. He saved my marriage!

That was a few years ago. At that time, my relationship with my husband was a little tense. I feel that he is not self-motivated, and sometimes the three views are inconsistent. Many times I don't want to communicate with him, and I don't want to talk to him.

At that time, the company arranged a business trip, and I was with Li Ge, which was the round trip that day. After that day's work, Li Ge treated me to a meal at noon and went to a local scenic spot together in the afternoon.

The scenery in the scenic spot is very good, so my eldest brother and I just walked around and watched the scenery and chatted all the way. Later, talking about children and family was the beginning of mutual understanding.

I went on a business trip several times, basically the same as the first time. Then after class, we went out to play together. I simply set up a tourist year card and visited almost all the scenic spots in the province in two years. From then on, my eldest brother and I talked about everything.

After knowing my family situation, my eldest brother began to persuade me that my partner was under too much pressure and let me understand him. He taught me many ways to communicate with my husband. Every time my husband and I get angry, I will tell him that he will help me analyze and solve it in a targeted way. Over time, I think I learned how to get along with my husband, and I gradually found that my husband is really not as useless as I thought.

Among them, there is a female friend. Her husband and wife have been quarrelling for more than 20 years, so I can only persuade them not to part. Don't interfere in their family conflicts. After all, it is difficult for honest officials to manage their affairs, and we are not honest officials! Lan Yan's confidant will definitely not talk about the word "love". That's what I do.

Up to now, my eldest brother and I have been very good friends. Although I go out to play less now (I have been to all the surrounding scenic spots), I still regard my eldest brother as my confidant. If I have something to say, I will always tell him that he can always help me find a solution. Brother will come to me if he has something, and all I can do is try my best to help. Thank you very much, big brother, for my blue confidante!