Investigation report on college students' love.

Investigation report on college students' love.

Reports play an important role in study, work and life, so we should pay attention to the rationality of logic when writing reports. So how should the report be written properly? The following is a survey report on college students' love. Welcome to read the collection.

Investigation report on college students' love 1 Love is an eternal topic. People do not hesitate to use the most beautiful language to describe the eternity and immortality of love. They think that love can bring spiritual encouragement, emotional pleasure and life enrichment. Life without love is pale, depressing and even meaningless. Some people are pessimistic about love because they see other people's misfortunes or experience their own. They think that beautiful love is only a deduction in literary works, and love in life brings more pain than pleasure.

The so-called love is a strong, pure and professional feeling between a man and a woman based on a certain social foundation and the ideal of living together, and they are eager for each other to become their lifelong partners. Sex, ideal and responsibility are the three basic elements of love.

Love can happen at any time. Love is not only a common problem in universities. The first question in our questionnaire: "Have you ever been in love?" The number of people who answered "yes" reached 43%. Obviously, although it has not reached 50%, the social status of "more men than women" in China shows that the proportion of 43% is already very high. In the follow-up question "If yes, when did you talk about it?" 87% people chose "University" and 93% people who have never been in love said they want to fall in love. Of course, this figure can't sum up everything, but it can already reflect many problems, indicating that the phenomenon of falling in love in college has become very common. Whether falling in love is correct or not is beyond our research scope, so we will not discuss it for the time being, but based on the above statistics, we can already discuss the problems existing in college love.

After discussion in our study group and online investigation, we know that there are two main aspects of college love, which are also the most important:

1. The benefits of college students falling in love

2. The disadvantages of college students falling in love

Therefore, we focus on the discussion and analysis from the above two aspects.

1. The benefits of college students falling in love

Improve students' communicative ability and language expression ability.

In the process of love, sweet words are essential, and before confirming a love, the most important thing is to build self-confidence and pursue the girl you like on the premise of having self-confidence. And in the process of communicating with the opposite sex, I constantly increase my communicative ability and language expression ability.

To effectively improve social skills, we can start from two aspects, one is the ability to distinguish social situations, and the other is to improve the ability to gain insight into the psychological state of others. The so-called ability to distinguish social situations is an important part of social ability. If a person can distinguish the subtle differences between situations, he can often master the changes of social environment and make appropriate behaviors to adapt to different and ever-changing environments. Insight into the psychological state of others is also an important part of social skills. Some people see other people's behavior and do things without trying to understand their own situation and feelings, and immediately judge what kind of person they are from other people's behavior. This orientation of emphasizing judgment over understanding is a major obstacle to the development of social ability. But in the process of falling in love, I found that these two keys can be fully exercised, because girls are the most elusive animals in the world.

You can learn to care about others from it.

As the saying goes, girls are born to be cared for, so if a girl is your girlfriend, don't you care more about her? We don't need to say too much about this.

Learn more about emotions, some of which can be exercised, so as not to be too emotional in the future. Emotions are two-sided. Even God can't clap one hand and fall in love with the other. First of all, it is a process. No matter what the result is, at least you have experienced it, because falling in love can definitely exercise people.

Second, the disadvantages of college students falling in love

(1) If you indulge in love excessively and neglect your studies, you will lose yourself and lose your purpose in life.

On this issue, we have a very simple case: a college student was in class, and suddenly his cell phone rang, and then he left school regardless of the rush of class and the teacher's leave. Later, I learned that his girlfriend asked him to accompany him and he had to accompany his girlfriend. In this case, we can easily find that the boy has been addicted to love and neglected his studies.

Waste of time and money.

Can't walk with your girlfriend every day? Therefore, the material demand for falling in love is very huge and necessary.

Spend too little time with friends.

Here we have a very vivid and humorous proverb: if you have a daughter-in-law, you forget your mother. Even the mother has forgotten, what else can't be forgotten? Although this is only the idea of a few people, this phenomenon certainly exists.

(4) Lack of experience may lead to illusion, easy injury, bad mood and affect mood.

As the saying goes: love can enjoy all the flavors of life, ups and downs, everything. There is sweetness and bitterness, so as long as there is love, there will be a bad mood!

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After the above analysis of the pros and cons of love, we can make an objective summary of college students' love. On the whole, contemporary college students can correctly understand and grasp love, and correctly handle the relationship between study, love and attitude towards life, as well as some problems in love, such as misunderstanding and lovelorn between lovers. College students should take a cautious attitude towards love and avoid improper handling. In love, we should objectively seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Our report is over, thank you.

Investigation report on college students' love 2 I. About love during college.

In this survey, 70% students think that college students' love is unreliable. Only 30% students are sure of the reliability of college students' love. It shows that the students have seriously thought about the problem of college love, and think that we are not mature enough in many aspects of college campus, can not maintain a stable relationship well, can not manage a marriage-oriented relationship well, and have no solid foundation to bear the responsibility to another person. So we think that college love is not very reliable. However, the survey results show that only 32% of students are against college students' love. And 15% students fully agree, another 7% students think that we should make the best use of the situation, and the remaining 30% students think that this problem should be left to its own devices. It shows that students are still full of expectations for college love, hoping to experience the happiness of love in college. Regarding the best age for love, 58% of the students think that college is the best time for love. Indeed, we are no longer naive in college, we also have our own emotional needs, and we also hope to have a special person to share our joys and sorrows. This idea is understandable, of course, but it should be based on not affecting our normal study and life.

Second, about the motivation and purpose of love.

Among the main motives of college students' love, 30% students are seeking spiritual sustenance, 36% students are getting rid of loneliness, 17% students are looking for a marriage partner, 7% students are looking for motivation to learn, and the rest 10% students are enjoying it. Students who fall in love in order to seek spiritual sustenance have not found their right direction in college. Students who pursue ideals will not put their spirit on love. Students who fall in love to get rid of loneliness are irresponsible to themselves and others. How to ensure the sincerity and purity of a relationship just because of loneliness? Only less than one-fifth of the students are looking for a marriage partner, which shows that college students' love is not aimed at marriage. There are many uncertainties and variables in the process of college students' love, so it is difficult to ensure that the love object in college is the future marriage object. Facts also tell us that few couples in universities can finally enter the marriage hall. For the purpose of college students' love, 34% students choose to meet their psychological needs, 465,438+0% students choose to enjoy the process, 4% students choose to meet their physiological needs, 65,438+03% students choose to establish a family after graduation, and the remaining 8% students choose to follow the crowd. From the survey results, it can be found that more than one tenth of the students are biased against the purpose of dating. Among them, the idea of choosing to meet physiological needs is recognized, which can easily lead to irresponsibility in love and hurt others. And because many students are in love, there is absolutely no need for me to join the decisive factor of love. If there is no suitable candidate, no foundation of true feelings, and you fall in love simply because you follow the crowd, you often can't appreciate the fun brought by love, and sometimes it is easy to break up, causing emotional harm to yourself and others.

Third, about premarital sex.

The survey results show that 30% of students resolutely oppose premarital sex, 5% agree, 20% think it should be allowed to develop, and the remaining 45% think it doesn't matter, but they won't do it themselves. The survey results of this topic are still optimistic. It shows that most college students disapprove of premarital sex and advocate pure love relationship. This result shows that college students, especially girls, are responsible for themselves and know how to protect themselves. This also shows that most college students are relatively mature in thought, and will not be carried away by feelings and do things that they may regret later. For college students' premarital sex, 28% students think it is caused by impulse, 40% students think it is due to strong physical and psychological needs, and 32% students think it is the inevitable result of deepening feelings.

Fourth, about the influence of love on life.

1, academic aspect

Different people have different views on whether love will affect their studies. 85% students think that the influence of college students' love on their studies is uncertain. It may be that lovers encourage each other and promote the progress of both sides. But it is also possible that both parties are too immersed in the feelings of love, spend too much time in the sweetness of "two people", and can't complete the learning task well, thus delaying their studies. Another 12% students think that love has no bad influence on their studies. There are also 3% students who think that love can promote after-school study. The influence of love on school is inconclusive, and the results vary from person to person. Students who can balance love and study well can arrange their time and energy reasonably, enjoy love and ensure the excellent completion of their studies.

2. As far as cost is concerned

In love, there must be some unnecessary expenses when you are single, such as eating together, watching movies, traveling and so on. On the question of spending in love, 47% students think that spending in love will increase, only 12% students think that spending will decrease, and the remaining 4 1% students think that it varies from person to person. The problem of spending in love is also more prominent. General expenses will increase, which will have a certain impact on the personal living standards of college students. Some students have been frugal for a long time in order to buy gifts for their boyfriends and boyfriends. However, it has a greater impact on students from richer families.

3. Love and friendship

Students who are immersed in the joy of love often ignore the communication with classmates and friends. "Alone" takes up too much time, which inevitably leads to very little time with friends. University is a good place to develop friendship and interpersonal relationships. It is not a very regrettable thing for students who neglect friendship cultivation because of love.

4. After falling out of love

Losing love is a great blow to a person. After paying a lot of feelings for a person, it is certainly sad to find that that person has gradually left us. In the investigation on the problem of lovelorn, 47% of the students felt very painful after choosing lovelorn, 3 1% chose indifferent, 4% chose revenge, and 18% chose to study harder. It can be seen that the failure of college love is a great blow to a person, and it will also hurt the feelings of classmates. Seriously affected the students' confidence in life, and they were depressed from then on. However, some students have good endurance and can handle emotional problems well, which will not seriously affect their normal life and study.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) Suggestions and measures

1, straighten your position and correctly handle the relationship between love and school.

After all, college students are students, and their primary task is to study. The university campus not only teaches us a lot of knowledge, but also shoulders the responsibility of cultivating our various abilities to adapt to society. Love can be regarded as an optional course in our college life, and it is not that important. Therefore, as a college student, we should grasp our own direction, always think about our ideals and save strength for them. You can't abandon your studies and ideals because of love. When you are in love, you should also pay attention to communication with your classmates and friends. Good interpersonal relationship will certainly be beneficial to the future society. So, you might as well fall in love, but don't forget to care and help your friends.

2. Do what you can and establish a correct view of consumption.

Speaking of the price of love, I think it is wise to do what you can. There is no need to compare and choose extravagant expenses for vanity. Love is more spiritual and emotional fit and pleasure, and has no direct connection with material enjoyment. Therefore, pay attention to the spirit, matter is only a thing outside the body, and only emotion can last for a long time.

A summary of the investigation report on college students love;

Love, the eternal topic of mankind. Based on the college students' love view and questionnaire survey, this paper analyzes the characteristics of college students' love with real data, and discusses the main factors affecting their love psychology and behavior. The purpose of this survey is to let us know our love view, so as to guide college students to establish a scientific and reasonable love view.

Key words:

College students; Love concept; survey

Love, what a beautiful creature. There are endless chants and sighs everywhere in the world, from my fair lady and a gentleman to the so-called Iraqis, on the water side, from talented writers to romantic poets. And college students are in their youth, and they are always full of yearning for beautiful love. However, different college students will have different views on love, that is, different views on love. The concept of love is the concept of mutual admiration and cultivation of love between the opposite sex under the interaction of physiological, psychological and environmental factors. In today's universities, love has become a very normal phenomenon. Moreover, China no longer requires college students to get married, which makes college students' love more legal. Through questionnaire survey, this paper discusses the characteristics of college students' love view, as well as the causes and influences. And guide college students to objectively, calmly and correctly examine their love situation, establish a positive and healthy view of love, and urge college students to establish a correct view of love and life.

First, research methods and research objects

1. Research methods. This survey adopts the self-made Questionnaire of Contemporary College Students' Views on Love, covering the main contents of college students' views on love and their attitudes towards love, trying to understand college students' views on love objectively, comprehensively and scientifically through this questionnaire.

2. Research object. This survey selected junior and senior high school students for random sampling survey. A total of 40 questionnaires were distributed in this survey, and 39 questionnaires were recovered, with an effective rate of 97.5%.

3. The investigation time is 20xx February.

Second, the analysis of the survey results

It is not difficult to see that with the growth of age, the expansion of knowledge and the increase of social experience, college students' concept of love is gradually becoming mature and realistic. Freshman love is full of fantasy and expectation, and many things are idealized. In their sophomore year, they began to feel that love also has a bitter taste, but they still lacked mature and rational thinking and were more emotional. After entering the junior year, the junior students' love view is more mature, and finally the senior students are more rational about love, and their love view tends to be mature.

Third, college students' love view and existing problems

(A) psychological characteristics of college students in love

1. Curiosity about sex. It is formed by sexual impulses and sexual intimacy requirements caused by physical maturity.

2. The possessive mentality of wanting to succeed. It is directly related to the special crowd atmosphere where talents, manners and beautiful women gather in colleges and universities. Some male college students stubbornly believe that girls who have no boyfriends after graduation are all left behind by others.

3. Dependence psychology. It is caused by the loneliness of the only child and the habit of others' care and care. It belongs to the emotional sustenance type of love motivation, lacks independent consciousness and self-reliance ability, and is easy to be frustrated.

4. Psychological compensation. It is caused by utilitarian love motivation, that is, I hope to get social status and economic compensation from the person I love.

5. Dance Academy Psychology. Their love motives are: satisfying the desire to communicate with the opposite sex, seeking excitement, filling spiritual emptiness, and even having premarital sex. They love each other, play with each other and lose each other, which is a kind of enjoyment and consumption outside marriage.

As a special social group, college students' future life will be turbulent, and their graduation distribution and employment are still unknown. Even if you get true love, you may be far apart after graduation. Therefore, it is natural for college students to have a love mentality that they don't want to last forever and only care about having it.

(B) the problems of contemporary college students' love view

Due to the immaturity of sexual psychology, college students also have inappropriate views on love in love. Showing ideological fluctuation, exclusiveness, impulsiveness and fantasy; At the same time, college students are also influenced by the external environment.

1. Love for emptiness. The survey shows that 6.7% of college students choose to fall in love because of their inner emptiness. After intense study in high school, college students have entered a brand-new environment and their own dream institutions of higher learning, and they have shown muddling along in college. Some students think that after entering the university, they are very negative, aimless and listless all day. Life seems meaningless, their minds are blank, they lose their goals and motivation, and their hearts are depressed. College students who lack learning motivation and goals turn to talk.

2. The motive of mate selection is impure. According to analysis, 2% of college students have impure love motives. When choosing an object, contemporary college students often consider whether the other person is suitable for them or not, whether it is for true love, but whether the other person can help them in study, life, future employment and development. If it is found to be useful, it will take all means to attack. When they get what they want by hook or by crook, some college students use their family and social status to find love, and some college students associate with multiple members of the opposite sex at the same time without establishing relationships.

3. curiosity is heavy. Contemporary college students are in the late adolescence, their physiological functions are basically mature, their psychological functions tend to be mature, they are full of energy, and they are eager for heterosexual communication. In middle school, the pressure of study is great, which is not fully manifested. Now that the subjective consciousness has developed, personal development will inevitably be reflected in personal life. The desire for the opposite sex makes him psychologically curious. I want to try to explore the secrets between the opposite sex and show an irresponsible attitude towards love. I just stay in the curiosity and desire on the surface of love, without thinking about the consequences and future development after love.

4. Pay no attention to the consequences of love. Most contemporary college students have the idea that it is good for two people to have a happy day together, and only care about what they once had, not eternity. Many teenagers hold this mentality and heterosexual contacts, and regard love as the first experience of love and enrich college life, not for the formation of marriage and family in the future. What two people think together is how to spend every day romantically, so it is normal to break up together on graduation day. However, the two sides also showed great calm, which is a new concept of love for college students, caring about the process of love and despising the ending of love, thus reflecting the irresponsibility of contemporary college students to love.

5. Morality has been diluted. For a long time, China's traditional morality has had a far-reaching impact on college students. However, with the introduction of western ideas, college students accept new ideas very quickly, and open ideas have an impact on college students' sex and marriage problems. Under the influence of this new idea, college students are in the whirlpool of rational and emotional contradictions, and their sexual concepts are gradually opening up, ignoring results and morality. Coupled with physical and psychological reasons, that is, there have been curious and bold sexual attempts, but after trying, they often face embarrassment and endless regrets.

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