My proposal to travel on a blind date was rejected angrily. Why is it difficult to get married if you love traveling?

The main reason for being rejected by dating friends is that traveling means a lot of expenses. Food, drink, entertainment and hotel accommodation are already a huge expense, which will inevitably make many men on blind dates I was frightened and worried that I couldn't afford it, so I could only refuse. Another thing is that what some girls say about their love of traveling is just eating, drinking, having fun and shopping, rather than enjoying themselves spiritually through traveling. "Travel" is just a nice word that makes people sound elegant, and they love to travel. It will also make some more pragmatic dating men think that the girl on the blind date loves to play and enjoy herself, rather than taking special care of her family. This will discourage the dating men and they can only refuse. Of course, it cannot be said that girls who love traveling just like to enjoy themselves and don’t like to be restrained and like to spend money, but such stereotypes do exist in blind dates. Actually, I think it’s okay. If a girl says she loves traveling, she can continue to get along with men who can accept her. If she can’t accept her, she can reject her. That’s fine. This can also help both parties select the right people to continue getting along with.

If a girl really likes traveling, regards traveling as a part of her life, and hopes her partner also likes traveling, then there is no need to worry about telling her during a blind date. If you don't like it, just say goodbye. It's just that you can't use your "love of travel" as a "fig leaf" for yourself, as a reason why you like to enjoy yourself, don't want to work, don't want to be bound by family, etc. This will only stigmatize your "love of travel". There are a lot of things to pay attention to in blind dates, and blind dates should not be casual. Just like "love to travel", it is easy for the blind date to be biased. Since it is a blind date, then you should work hard to show your best self, but don't deliberately hide some of your shortcomings or some quirks, otherwise even if you succeed, you will also be confused in the future relationship between the two. Exposed one by one, it affects the relationship that was finally established. Therefore, dating requires a lot of thought and sincerity.