The Life of Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan

? In October 23, Yang Zhenning's first wife, Du Zhili, passed away.

When Weng Fan was still in college, she had face-to-face contact with Yang Zhenning and Du Zhili. This girl, born in Chaozhou in 1976, is the third daughter of her family. His father, Weng Yunguang, was the head of a travel agency before he retired. Because my father has always been fond of literature and ancient poetry, his three daughters have also been influenced in the process of growing up in Zhu Zhechi.

At the age of 18, Weng Fan was admitted to the Foreign Languages Department of Shantou University. Not only did she get excellent grades, but she also received many well-known scholars of various types during her school days. When Weng Fan was 19 years old, Shantou University held the first physics conference. Yang Zhenning and his wife Du Zhili are both on the invited list. Weng Fan, as the receptionist of the school, accompanied Yang Zhenning and his wife all the time. At this time, Yang Zhenning was 73 years old. He also encouraged Weng Fan to study hard and go to the United States for further study.

This acquaintance has laid the foundation for their next communication. It is said that since then, Weng Fan has been writing to Yang Zhenning and his wife. However, after graduating from college, Weng Fan did not pursue further studies as Yang Zhenning said. As she studied a foreign language, she soon found a job as a translator in a local enterprise in her hometown. But somehow, after only working for more than a month, Weng Fan resigned and went to Shenzhen. After coming to Shenzhen, Weng Fan worked as an interpreter in a golf club. At the age of 26, Weng Fan decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination. And in that year, she was successfully admitted to the Translation Department of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies.

During graduate school, Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning, whose wife died, became in frequent contact. But it is also said that Weng Fan had previously interrupted contact with Yang Zhenning. And during the graduate school, for the sake of future planning, Weng Fan, including Yang Zhenning, resumed contact with the scholars he had received in those years. The reason why she did this is obvious. After graduating from master's degree, she may be able to get a better platform or plan through these well-known scholars.

In February 24, Weng Fan received a phone call from Yang Zhenning. Yang Zhenning told her to meet at Sun Yat-sen University. It should be that two people met again after meeting nine years ago. It was then that Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan fell in love.

Someone once compared the photos of Weng Fan with those of Du Zhili when she was young. Although they are separated by time and space, two completely different women look somewhat similar. So the outside world has been speculating that after Du Zhili's death, Yang Zhenning saw the shadow of Du Zhili when he was young from Weng Fan.

In the association with Yang Zhenning, Weng Fan once wrote a poem to express his love to Yang Zhenning. A poem written in September of that year was like this: I love without regrets, but I am glad, and I intend to escape, and my heart has fallen into ... touching your forehead, the breath blows your hand, and silence wins. This poem, written for Yang Zhenning, was not only mailed to him, but was later revised by Yang Zhenning and mailed to Weng Fan. Weng Fan later posted this poem in his blog. Because the university majored in foreign literature, Weng Fan often had the impulse to write poems. Every time I write it, I will send it to Yang Zhenning by email. Some poems will be revised by Yang Zhenning and then passed on to Weng Fan. In this way, the two people gradually got to know each other.

During the National Day holiday, accompanied by Weng Fan, they also traveled to Beihai together. Knowing that Weng Fan likes taking pictures, Yang Zhenning also gave her a digital camera. In this way, the interaction between the two people went from shallow to deep, not only gradually understanding each other's personality, but also understanding their family situation. Later, it was Yang Zhenning who volunteered to Weng Fan. The proposal was made on the phone. Yang Zhenning expressed his thoughts, and Weng Fan agreed without hesitation.

Both of them agreed, and the next thing to face is Weng Fan's parents. However, just after the love affair between Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan was made public in the society, her father, Weng Yunguang, once said that his daughter had actually mentioned the affair with Yang Zhenning to him before. In Weng Yunguang's view, although this incident has caused a great sensation in society, her daughter is old, and her family will not deliberately interfere with any choice she makes. In the face of media interviews, Weng Fan's father also praised Yang Zhenning. Moreover, he also revealed that the graduate students in Weng Fan at that time had not graduated. The main work in the future will be to help Professor Yang Zhenning sort out a lot of academic materials. Weng Yunguang also said that he and his wife will go to Beijing for the wedding of his daughter and Yang Zhenning. In this way, at the end of 24, 82-year-old Yang Zhenning and 28-year-old Weng Fan officially registered to get married.

? Don't say that 18 years ago, even today, the combination of Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan is still the focus of public attention. After all, most of the famous people who know about their love for the New Year are basically historical figures who have long since passed away, but in today's society, most people are uncomfortable in their hearts after being fortunate enough to really see this couple. For the sake of Weng Fan's future, they didn't have any more children. And Yang Zhenning's property has long been settled for three children, and Weng Fan only has the right to live in tsinghua campus Villa.

? Since the moment Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan got married, their daily actions have attracted great attention. However, this does not prevent two people from decorating their new home together. Although Yang Zhenning had passed his octogenarian at that time, he and Weng Fan had visited many furniture cities in order to buy a suitable living room sofa. Weng Fan even said that after her marriage, her life was more regular. Although every time there is an open activity, it will attract attention, and many people secretly take photos, but Weng Fan feels that the people he meets in reality have never bothered them.

? In life, Yang Zhenning, who is older, will think about Weng Fan everywhere. Once when two people went to Sanya, it happened that Weng Fan was ill. Yang Zhenning not only takes food for his wife personally, but also feeds her. Yang Zhenning woke up early in the morning. He wanted to look through the newspaper and didn't want to disturb his wife who was still sleeping, so he went to the bathroom to read it alone. In Weng Fan's eyes, Yang Zhenning created an ivory tower life for her. She and her husband can live in the academic world and enjoy the purity and freedom.

Of course, the outside world, especially on the Internet, will always have the voice of teasing and mocking Weng Fan. However, judging from Yang Zhenning's health, he is really in good health. In 21, Yang Zhenning said in an interview that he was in good health, and after he married Weng Fan, his wife took good care of him.

Yang Guangnuo is Yang Zhenning's eldest son. He especially thanks his stepmother. He once said, "Thank her for taking care of my father so that our children can develop their own careers." Life in Shu Tai, Yang Zhenning even admitted that he wanted to live to be 18 years old. Indeed, at that time, Yang Zhenning's thinking was clear and keen. For the sake of her husband's health, Weng Fan has been going to bed early for 18 years. At the end of September last year, accompanied by his wife Weng Fan, Yang Zhenning was still in Tsinghua University, attending an academic seminar to celebrate his centenary birthday. At that time, Yang Zhenning still spoke clearly and looked energetic.

? Weng Fan once said that when you admire a man, you can't help falling in love with him. However, the man Weng Fan loves has brought her great controversy. Weng Fan likes an English poem The Road Not Taken. The last two sentences are: I chose the less traveled one, which made my life so different from then on. It can be said that this is the most true portrayal of Weng Fan's marriage to Yang Zhenning for 18 years. From the point of view of the public, because of the long-standing convention, no matter what people do, they will not be too "out of line". As far as marriage is concerned, if the age difference is 1 years, people will whisper to each other; if the age difference is 2 years, people may talk about it openly; if the age difference is 5 years, they will become Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning. Because the parties did this, they broke the routine and inertia. Even if it does not violate the law, public order and good customs, it is bound to make the parties become the target of public opinion. Moreover, the higher the popularity of the parties, the greater the concern of the incident itself. After all, the practice of differentiation challenges most people's cognition. Although many people will strongly object to the parties, they are only limited to verbal discussion or ridicule. From the perspective of society, similar situations are often only cases, and there is no universality. As for the parties themselves, their life of being watched and discussed is only a mirror image in information mimicry, and it is an unreal state that has been blurred. Their real life is self-knowledge in the personal field.