How to chat with strangers

People who don't know how to chat can only recite routines, but they don't know that routines are applicable. Doesn't mean that anything can be used on any sister paper. Many people just do it foolishly, and the result can be imagined.

If you want to learn to chat, you must first understand the difference between men and women.

There is a great difference in thinking patterns between girls and boys. Men and women are different not only in communication, but also in thinking, feeling, perception, reaction, reaction, showing love and appreciation.

Men and women seem to come from different planets, speak different languages and absorb different nutrients.

Therefore, picking up girls first attacks a woman's heart, so that she can really enjoy chatting with you from the heart, and gradually rely on you and fall in love with you.

Next, I will give you excellent knowledge of picking up girls and chatting skills. Let's study together!

For women, their thoughts and concerns are more emotional, so they are willing to put more energy into things or people who can stimulate their curiosity.

Men may not pay so much attention to this problem, so they will not say it. Understand? It is very important to stimulate women's curiosity and let them have emotions in chatting.

Chatting with girls is about topic extension, otherwise everything will be useless. Where did I know these things before? When I was studying love, I also read an e-book about courting girls-The Secret of Love by Zhuge. From there, I really realized that picking up girls is really a technical job, and there are many skills and methods to master. After that, I did direct combat according to what I learned in the book. When chatting, I basically won. Meeting and dating are all straight to the point. Now I'm too busy to make an appointment. For the brothers who have not taken off the bill, they can go to school or find e-books directly on the Internet. My sister always likes to pick up girls, not straight cancer.

Chatting psychological warfare:

First, the emotional climax is suddenly interrupted.

In the early days of chasing girls, many boys will have a desperate attitude of pleasing, pestering girls to talk all the time, unwilling and afraid to end the topic until they fall asleep.

Actually, this is a very wrong thinking. "When the water is full, it will overflow, and when the moon is full, it will lose money." Don't feed the girl at first, let her feel unfinished, and brake in time at the climax of the chat.

In the process of your chat, you can choose to stop suddenly when the chat is very high and say, "Excuse me, a friend has something urgent to see me. Let me help him deal with it. " Or simply: "I have some important work to deal with. Go to bed early and talk to you tomorrow."

At this time, girls will suddenly pull away because they are still immersed in the excitement just now, which will make the other party feel "unfinished".

However, your withdrawal is polite and reasonable. Her temporary dissatisfaction will make her expect more from you and talk to you more.

When you give her a feeling of wanting more, she will miss your chat, so she may reply to your chat record.

But to do this, you need not only self-confidence and self-control, but also the mentality of being willing to leave and a certain degree of discretion.

Misuse:

When the WeChat chat is over, say "Yes" to the girl, then stop replying and turn off the phone to sleep.

There are many similar routines, such as "I have something to tell you" and "I'll tell you a secret" ......

Some people say that this practice can make girls forget you. The instructor can only say that this is the idea brought by the steel straight man himself. If this happens once or twice occasionally, it may be effective. It works every time. My sister just wants to hack you.

Second, ignite the imagination of girls

You can constantly provide girls with what they expect, but don't rush to give it to her and let her enlarge this vision infinitely.

A woman is a fantasy animal. As long as you light up her world, she will walk around in your world and can no longer control her uncontrollable imagination like a runaway wild horse.

For example, you talk about a singer she likes, and then there is a song she has never heard. You know, but you said, "Well, I'll look for it tomorrow and send it to you when I find it!" "

Procrastination, give her a sense of being delayed, so that she will be full of expectations for you.

Or if you ask her out, just say, "I'll take you to a particularly interesting place, hehe, I won't tell you the location until I get out."

Let her imagine where you are taking her, and let her look forward to her next trip.

Third, and most importantly, don't talk about things.

Let girls' mood fluctuate.

Many brothers and sisters can chat steadily and continuously, but why can't they upgrade their relationship?

Don't talk about this topic.

If this can win the hearts of girls, then such girls must have other plans for this brother.

The fact that this elder brother can share trivial things with his sister shows that he is not a hopeless "wooden head", but his sister may be drooling at the other end of the screen, so this elder brother ate it himself. If you are a big A tutor, you may say, "I'll let you share my happiness next time." Or simply be a pragmatist. "Send it to me, and I will send you luxury takeout, hahaha."