I hate being alone, but I can't take revenge. I am tortured by hatred every day. How can I put it down?

Haha, this question, you hate a person but can't take revenge? You are so stupid! Do you think revenge can only be done with knives, fists and swearing? Wrong, whoever retaliates by these methods, unless you report your dead thoughts, otherwise ... I tell you, the best way to retaliate against a person you hate very much is to try to upgrade your gfd, vitality, temperament, taste, wisdom, foresight and reality from the inside out to a fixed habit, keep humor, be free and easy, and put yourself in reality. You just need to hang the person you hate on the balcony as an empty hanger and let him stare at you all your life. This is the most malicious revenge for someone you hate very much! I hope I can help you.

The most poisonous person in this world is hatred. Choosing to forgive, in fact, forgiving others is forgiving yourself.

Some people feel unhappy, and the situation is not bad at ordinary times, but they keep some people and things in their hearts, so as to torture themselves and someone in my heart repeatedly, which greatly reduces my own happiness.

Different insights, knowledge and achievements between people lead to different views on things and different ways to deal with problems, so there are frictions and contradictions, which are always regarded as scars. And the scars in my heart remind me from time to time and make my teeth itch from time to time.

The most poisonous person in this world is hatred. If you are occupied by hatred, you are doomed to live a very painful life. Forgiveness is an act, a cultivation and a lubricant of mutual understanding; Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself.

Close your eyes and let your mirror. Let bygones be bygones.

In this life, you will inevitably meet some people who bring you pain, perhaps past lovers, perhaps relatives and friends, or just passers-by. No matter whether the other person hurts you intentionally or unintentionally, you will bear pain and deep hatred.

People who hate always have a knot in their hearts, and eventually suffer and hurt themselves. They live with this kind of hatred, make their lives fall into darkness and lose their minds. Life is very tired. If you don't know how to treat your soul well and spend a holiday for your soul, you will only suffer.

In life, we will inevitably meet enemies. Sometimes, we can face them and fight to the end. Sometimes we can ignore each other and not be friends with each other. It's easy to glare at the enemy, but it takes courage to smile at the chaotic crowd and dissolve hatred.

However, once people can communicate with each other with an open mind, they can understand the benefits of tolerance. A philosopher once said: hatred can never solve hatred, and only love can completely solve hatred.

Living in a peaceful and stable environment, most of us will not experience the sadness of losing our loved ones in the war. However, even if there are no ups and downs, it is inevitable that there will be mixed feelings of sadness and joy, as well as interest disputes.

No matter what happens, you need not lose your temper. Sometimes, a kind understanding and tolerance can make you reflect and correct. Tolerance can not only save others, but also achieve everything.

Life is too short, why do you always remember other people's mistakes? It is better to come out and feel the sunshine outside than to lament in the cave of hatred. No enemies, no grudges, you can live freely and easily.

. Everyone's life experience will meet people like this, even people they hate very much, and they will be hurt, insulted and humiliated. You seem to have lost half your life because of this man, but for various reasons, you can't take him at the moment, and you can't calm the heart that has been hurt to death.

Life is ultimately living your own life. If fate makes you meet such an unbearable person and kill each other, and there is nothing you can do, then you can only swallow this evil spirit abruptly, and you can't solve it, but you must force yourself to solve it in various ways.

You must resolutely stay away from this person, even if you are unwilling, you will never look back. After these things, I believe that your mentality will change qualitatively: you are strong, you don't cry easily, and you don't talk to anyone. At this time, you should be the best yourself and enrich your strength. Because you only belong to yourself, if you look back in a few days, you are not yourself, and the person who once hurt you and brought you endless pain is not the person who used to be bossy, you will find that you don't hate that person anymore.

You are in a very dangerous situation, just like others and yourself. Once the contradiction intensifies that day, it is easy to get out of control and lead to bad consequences. Some emotions need to be vented and released in time. Therefore, it is suggested, if possible, to stay away from the environment that may worsen contradictions, including people and things, or to travel alone, to divert the current state of mind and attention, to read more classic books of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, to cultivate one's mind, to understand and learn the practice methods of surrendering to obsession, and to become attached to good dharma. It can play the role of psychological counseling and adjustment.

Through a period of effective adjustment and the release of bad emotions, under the condition of good personal condition, we can rearrange, look directly at what we hated in the past, allow emotions to exist, but let them develop, see what causes and effects the pain comes from, find our own problems first, see the objective reasons, and then face it and solve it.

Forgiving those who have caused them deep pain is a purification of their souls and a redemption of their own souls, because only a tolerant heart can bring more peace and tranquility to the human world, and hatred will always exist, love will hate, and hatred will naturally disappear. In the face of other people's injuries, we should repay them with good deeds and always remind ourselves that hatred is destructive and will only intensify contradictions and plunge each other into the abyss of pain. If hatred is put into action, it will cause immeasurable situation. Sometimes, the cruelty and blood of reality can't be expressed in words and words. A tolerant heart can easily dissolve hatred and hidden dangers, and make tense atmosphere and dangerous situation warm and tender. In fact, tolerating others is also our own liberation and redemption. We forgive others' mistakes, and we don't forget to forgive ourselves for being targeted and concerned about people or things. Our hearts are no longer dominated by resentment.

What is man's greatest pain? It means "I can't stop" and "I want to die." I think there are two channels to solve your resentment.

1) Be tolerant of small things and make more concessions.

Take a step back, forget the resentment and go into battle easily, and your life will have sunshine.

2) Do more important things, seek some help, and turn resentment into rights and interests.

First, hate small things and learn to discard them.

Now I know that I can't take revenge, but I can't let go of my hatred for him. This tangled pain becomes "pain".

"forbearance" means stabbing in the heart. How painful is it? Short-term pain is better than long-term pain. Let go of resentment and become a Buddha.

"Hate" may come from a small matter, from a sentence. I believe that everyone has this experience, because of small things and "hate", pure broken is our mentality of asking for it. The hated person may not realize it. For yourself, it's not worth it at all.

Second, hate major events and safeguard rights and interests through proper channels.

If the other party violates your human rights, property rights, financial rights, etc. You can ask for help. For example, ask for help from units, communities, relatives and friends, and even law enforcement departments to safeguard their rights and realize their own interests.

When we fill our hearts with "hate", you will find that you can't go far. Because the more memories, the greater the damage.

The more detailed the memory you keep, the easier it is to throw off the cage of thinking and get deeper and deeper.

If you want to change, start by throwing away the past.

The world is big and the scenery is beautiful. It is better to experience life with a happy heart than to see the world with a resentful heart. It is better to live with a grateful heart than to see the world with a cursed heart. The world is big and the scenery is beautiful. It is better to experience life with a happy heart than with resentment. Living with a grateful heart is better than living with a cursed heart.

He who can tolerate insults, slanders and bullying of others with joy, without resentment and resentment, is a truly powerful benevolent. Being able to endure insults, slanders and bullying of others happily, without complaining, is a truly powerful benevolent.

We should take time to love those who love us, not to hate those who hate us. We should make full use of time to love those who love us, not to hate those who don't like us.

Five rules of happiness: don't hate, don't worry, live a simple life, pay more and expect less.

The five rules of happiness keep your heart away from hatred. Free your mind from worry. A simple life. Pay more. Expect less.

People should live like the Monkey King,

Crazy, struggling, successful,

Have failed, tried, hated,

Glory, struggle, regret,

But I have never been afraid.

Life is a process of constant experience,

Please always remember your ideal.

Stick to your dreams,

Constantly sublimate your thoughts.

People should live, be crazy, struggle, succeed, fail, try, hate, glory, struggle and regret like the Monkey King, but never be afraid. Life is a continuous process, please always remember your ideal, stick to your dream and constantly sublimate your thoughts.

Since you all know that you can't take revenge, why don't you try to let go of your hatred? You're not torturing him, you're torturing yourself.

Stay away from him and never meet again!

Life must be tolerant so that hatred can be erased.

That's because people consume their blessings to help you eliminate karma. If you think so, you won't hate it. It's not easy to live. Pity others. You're the one who got rid of them. Believe that good is rewarded with good. ...

First of all, you are tired and annoying all day.

What can be called "hatred" is not a small contradiction. If the other person has done something wrong to you or your relatives, you can ignore those trivial mistakes. If the other party has done harm to the world, he can appeal to the court. You must never act rashly. Punishing each other and preventing yourself from committing crimes is the best policy.