What should we do with our personalities such as paranoia, arrogance, suspicion, sensitivity, timidity, low self-esteem, fear, irritability, arrogance, vanity, entanglement, random thoughts, and love

What should we do with our personalities such as paranoia, arrogance, suspicion, sensitivity, timidity, low self-esteem, fear, irritability, arrogance, vanity, entanglement, random thoughts, and love for others?

You can sort out so many character flaws on your own. Zheng Ying's mind is relatively mature and she dares to recognize her own shortcomings. This is a kind of progress and the first step towards success. In fact, it can be divided into several categories. One category is you, willful, stubborn, and paranoid, and the other category is about self-confidence. Any kind of change, any kind of transformation, is painful. Before transformation, you have to go through painful struggle and change before you can become perfect. For example, inferiority complex, timidity, cowardice, fear, etc., these are all rain, and self-confidence is not enough, then you need to cultivate your own self-confidence, learn more, contact more people, enrich yourself, and become stronger, you go out You won’t be afraid of what you say or do. You dare to speak and do what you say. So when it comes to things like paranoia and willfulness, you really have to think twice before you act. Think more before you speak, and don’t be too free of your own temper. , people will become more and more perfect if they change slowly bit by bit. Of course, you can't eat a big fat man in one bite. You have to conquer one goal in a while and change one time at a time.

When a change is successful, choose the one that is easiest for you to change, and then slowly plan to work towards the goal. In this way, with the sense of accomplishment achieved, you will be more confident in changing each of the things you mentioned later that you feel inadequate. place, wish you success