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The older girl who broke up at the age of 30: "After seven years of dating, he had a flash marriage with a girl he had known for three months."

Author: Chi Yu

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Seven years and three months, which is lighter? , clear at a glance. But reality is so easy to hit people hard, some things have no rules, and the changes in the world are nothing compared to the coldness of people's hearts.

Human hearts, across the belly, sometimes you think the person in front of you is your sweetheart. Sweethearts should be connected and honest with each other. If you think this way, you are wrong. It is possible that your sweetheart is not his sweetheart.

Everything you thought was indestructible is actually weak. You don’t even know which link made the mistake, and everything was reshuffled, and you were caught off guard. , without warning.

What Mumu was most proud of was her love. She met him when she was 23 years old. When she was traveling, he picked up Mu Mu's cell phone and called her to return it. As soon as she answered the call, Mu Mu was fascinated by his voice.

She said excitedly: "Intuitively, I think this must be the person I like." With this idea in mind, she lied that she was far away and delayed the return of the phone for two days. When I was young, I went home specially to put on makeup before going out to see him.

Mu Mu’s feeling was correct. When he appeared, Mu Mu felt that her heartbeat slowed down a beat. His clothes were in line with Mu Mu’s aesthetics and were simply based on her requirements. Custom made.

Mumu had already planned it. When they met, she would get his contact information. She would chat with him that night and learned that he was attending college in the city and was not in a relationship. My own plan to catch up.

She pursued Mumu without leaving a trace, and teased her to the point where she wanted to. It didn’t take long before he began to pursue Mumu. Even for many years afterwards, he always thought that he was the one who took the initiative. To chase.

To be honest, in terms of appearance and height, Mu Mu is not worthy of standing next to him. He is much more dazzling than Mu Mu. But he said it didn't matter, what he liked was Mu Mu's interesting heart.

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The year they met, they were both seniors. He was Mu Mu’s first love, but Mu Mu was not his first love. People around him didn't think highly of them at first, because based on their appearance alone, he didn't seem that reassuring. Many people thought that Mu Mu couldn't win his heart for a long time.

But later, they went to college, and after graduation, they persisted in being apart for a year without breaking up.

Their love still seemed very sweet. Mumu liked to share her happiness at that time, sometimes it was the chat history of the two of them, sometimes it was photos of them going out for fun.

When two people stand together, the gap feels inexplicably smaller. Some people say: It is said that if two people are together for a long time, they will become more and more like a couple. It seems like this it is true.

Whenever Mu Mu heard such words, she would tease him: "Look, what they mean is that after you are with me, you will grow uglier and uglier. What should you do?" He also laughed: "I think if you follow me, the longer you are, the more beautiful you will be."

At that time, they were really in love, and everyone could see it.

Therefore, when the love between the two came all the way, everyone had nothing but blessings for them. After all, there were many couples who were together in college, but after graduation they fell apart and separated many people in different places, but it was rare for them to persevere.

No one said that they were unworthy, and the two of them even became a love fairy tale in their circle of friends. Some people say that if Mu Mu and him can break up, then they will no longer believe in love.

But in fact, Mu Mu has always had her own uneasiness.

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That is, he refuses to marry himself.

At the age of 28, after the two had been in love for five years, Mu Mu proposed getting married for the first time. He said: "My career is currently in the start-up stage and is not yet stable. Can you wait for me for another two years?"

Mu Mu felt a little unhappy, but she still agreed. Two years ago, Mu Mu expressed his desire to get married. At that time, he said that he had not bought a house yet, and he did not want Mu Mu to follow him without a home. Can Mu Mu wait for him for another two years?

His family conditions were not good. After graduating from college, he and Mu Mu stayed in this city to work hard, and had to rely on himself for everything. At that time, he said: "If Mu Mu is not willing to endure hardship with him, He accepted Mu Mu's proposal to break up. "

Mu Mu was moved by his honesty. When he said this, she did not hesitate: "No matter what, I am willing to be with you. I am not afraid of hardship. " < /p>

At that time, the promise he made was that he would marry Mumu after the two of them established themselves in this city. Mu Mu didn't care about this before, all she cared about was that he liked her.

But later, as she grew older, Mumu sometimes worried that she had spent her youth in the wrong way.

She once had no doubt about their relationship, and Mu Mu also knew that he loved her. Once he woke up in the middle of the night, suddenly sat up in panic, and touched his side with his hand, Mu Mu When asked what happened to him, he said: "I just dreamed that you left me. It scared me to death."

When he was 30 years old, he got married to a girl he had just known for three months. Not Mumu.

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After seven years of long-distance love, just when Mu Mu thought that they should become a habit in each other's lives and couldn't live without each other, he left without hesitation. , and another girl got a marriage certificate and started a new seven years.

"After seven years of dating, he had a flash marriage with a girl he had known for three months." Mu Mu said: "When we broke up at the age of 30, I realized that as time went by, he no longer wanted to get married."

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Why did he choose to break up with Mu Mu?

No one knows the real reason. Mu Mu himself guessed: probably the two people have been together for a long time and are no longer interesting to each other. He thought of living like this for the rest of his life and felt bored and monotonous. So you don’t want to go through with it, right?

Or maybe he just likes the new and hates the old?

But no matter which one it is, this is a love that is willing to admit defeat after all. Mumu did not argue or make trouble. She watched him quickly enter a marriage and healed alone for a long time. .

She often said something like this later: "Don't stay with someone for too long. It's best to get married after the love period is over, and then use the responsibilities of marriage to bind each other. In this way, it's also It’s not easy to get separated easily.”

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