What psychological changes will men have after breaking up? What psychology is dating after breaking up?

A girl who has tried to save her boyfriend will want to know what her predecessor is thinking after breaking up, right? You need to know his feelings and thoughts after breaking up. I wonder if he will miss you, right? What psychology is dating after breaking up?

"A week after breaking up with my boyfriend, I took the initiative to find him, and he added my mobile phone WeChat. I don't know why he deleted me, nor did he express it. After adding it back last night, he said he would give it back to me and that he would miss me. Today, he deleted it in a rage without looking for me first. I want to ask him what he thinks? "

This is also a helper's narrative, and I am curious about my predecessor's views and psychological state. Why did you delete her? Why miss her but don't take the initiative?

I haven't experienced many breakups, and the most unforgettable one is 7 years. Now that we have been separated for four years, I still remember that I spent a lot of time thinking about the mistakes I made in this relationship and how to solve the problem of breaking up.

I finally chose to end with her. Why? There are many reasons. But interestingly, I wasn't really ready to break up at first.

When everyone's relationship is about to be completed, there have been quarrels and disputes. Maybe ordinary people need to quarrel every day, and the most important thing is to quarrel closely around the same situation. What psychology is dating after breaking up?

I feel uneasy about her chatting with other boys. She will do some personal behaviors that I don't think she can trust. Every time I call her, both of them are pushing and bargaining.

Although there has never been shoving, language wars often occur. I still remember the uncomfortable feeling that this method completely consumed my vitality.

I still remember that one day I needed to get up early, and everyone quarreled before going to bed the day before. So that at 5 o'clock the next morning, this good friend came to see me and set off for a holiday trip. My eyes are bright red.

The reason for the quarrel is that she doesn't like me going with this friend, but she told me about it before.

When I was walking on the road the next day, I still remember thinking: Do you want to send her a WeChat? I don't think it's necessary to separate from her? Will she take the initiative to apologize to me

Because some of us always have to give in first, but we are stubborn people.

After that, I took the initiative to send her a WeChat, but I didn't feel a little regret from her content. She was angry, and then because I was angry, the two men had an argument on WeChat again.

I still remember sending her "I've had enough", and then the phone died. I didn't even know that I had broken up with her on WeChat.

When I arrived at the station, I followed my friend's advice and put my mobile phone in the room. But in the case of playing, there is always one thing in my mind.

Want to know what she is doing? What is she thinking? Will you apologize to me? Will you be attacked by an apology message at first?

But every time I see the news, frankly, I am very chilling. Because I always expected her to come to me first, but she didn't.

After that, I will send her a WeChat, such as "Hi". Then she was in a bad mood and said to me, "why do you need to find me?" Didn't you break up with me? "

This is also a misunderstanding. I thought it was just a quarrel as before, and she realized that she was going to break up. I thought I would make it clear to her, but in fact I didn't.

I remember that every communication would end in a quarrel. And I think after breaking up, our life pressure will be less and less. So I didn't respond. My brother and I had a good life, and she never looked for me again.

After breaking up, there seems to be a treacherous villain urging me to send her a WeChat. It seems that this matter has already become an international practice in life. In the past, people sent messages every day, which made it a habit.

At that time, because I did take out my mobile phone, I wrote a short message in the chat box, ready to push it in advance. But I finally held my breath because I felt it necessary for her to come to me first.

This was also the idea at that time. Stubborn boys generally have such a psychological state. Some girls will ask, why didn't my ex call me? I think he should send a text message to miss me.

If your ex-boyfriend is like me, he will think that you have done nothing worth asking him out on your own initiative. He will judge that you will be the positive one, because that will realize his vanity.

The society * * * knows that boys must take the initiative, take the initiative to chat, take the initiative to confess, and propose romantically. But at that time, I thought I had broken up with her, and it was not easy to send her WeChat on my own initiative.

If she really wants to chat with me, she must take the initiative to come to me. Can I understand her dynamics? Naturally want to know. Do I want her to go home at that moment? Frankly speaking, no.

This was my most practical idea at that time, and I only felt that I had unloaded a heavy responsibility.

Only after that, my mind changed slightly. Although chatting with friends of the opposite sex is relaxing and interesting, I will gradually miss all areas of our relationship.

She is my first love, the first woman who must learn to communicate. Although everyone was not perfect at that time and often quarreled, I was used to chatting with her and gradually wanted to talk to her.

I really miss her, but I am persistent. I feel that my feelings are not easy to break down, and I stubbornly ask her to talk to me first. So if you have a persistent ex-boyfriend, not asking you out doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you.

On the seventh day of breaking up, I still clearly remember that she took the initiative to find me, and I was very excited. I think I won the battle.

But I was not friendly to her at first, but I became more and more arrogant and mean. I forgot what I said, except that I was mean and did it on purpose to hurt her.

Why? Because I feel like a victim.

After all, breaking up has made our lives more and more chaotic. At that time, every small talk was a quarrel, which made me feel angry and uneasy. And what her relatives did to me when we broke up also harmed my mind.

Do I want her to go home at that moment? No, I just want to enjoy her chasing me.

Only I realize that I often think of the happy times in our relationship. She was my first girlfriend, so we had many firsts.

According to the current situation, I think she should make good use of these "firsts" to enhance my memory of them. This will make me miss her more and want her to go home more.

But because of my vitriol, she got cold feet and tried to catch what I was thinking. Remember when she asked her best friend to call and want to know what I thought? How about mastering our country?

I told her that my best friend was doing well and talked with her for three hours. It happened on the first15th day after the breakup, and she wanted to use her best friend to inquire about me.

I knew that she would report to her after chatting with her best friend, so I tried to stay relaxed for those three hours, trying to make her happy and laugh. I will continue to tease her best friend to make her jealous.

I want her to realize what she will lose, but I really want her to go home. I did that to make her feel scared, because she helped me to hurt.

It seems strange logic. After all, I am the one who broke up. Although it was a misunderstanding, on the surface, I really broke up. Then why am I dissatisfied with her?

This is the victim's idea, and he feels that he has played the role of a victim in the association.

At that time, I thought she wanted me to be wronged, and it was her fault that everyone often quarreled. I didn't promise to take responsibility for myself at that time. I thought everything I did was right and everything she did was wrong.

So do your best to annoy her, make her realize that she made a mistake, and then she will want to go back. If she misses me, she must feel and feel comfortable.

If she wants to go back, I refuse her and want me to have a kind of revenge happiness. So I can blame her, because I am in pain.

But sadly, after that, I missed her more and more, and I wanted her to go home. So I gradually took the initiative to find her, and she wanted to find me. We communicated by telephone, but ended in a quarrel.

This communication made me choose to abandon her, because everyone is making mistakes again and again. Even if we get together again, even if this connection has always existed, this encounter will always exist.

This is also an area where everyone is very contradictory. I think I'm right, and she thinks she's right. In fact, it is difficult for everyone to communicate normally.

What I want to give up completely is that I have concrete and direct evidence to prove that she is infatuated with others when she is with me.

She talks to him more than to me. He's more like a boyfriend. I know they're having an affair. She is fascinated by him and wants to be with him. She was with him soon after that correspondence.

Here I feel that further strict implementation and breaking up is the right choice for me. I gradually spend time thinking about my future, and I gradually take the initiative to do things, only expecting the pain to subside as soon as possible.

I feel very healthy, so I gradually began to play basketball. I always feel shy when meeting other girls, because I am chatting with girls. So I want to attend many parties. But in fact, I have no intimate personal behavior with them, and I do have a super-friendship relationship with them.

Although it is boring for me, I can at least go there and do something, and I am not allowed to stay at home and think. I wasn't crushed by the breakup. I want to be the one who overcomes the breakup.

Because I try to meet many friends, I spend more time with men who really care about me.

What I really need to learn to let go is that once when I was at my best friend's house, she called them. She said that she was angry and dissatisfied with her boyfriend at work.

She also told me that my boyfriend didn't love him. She also said that he didn't have his own standards and norms like me.

This made me happy, because she finally realized what she had lost. But I never wanted her back. I feel that single men and women are very happy.

I have never enjoyed these experiences before. After all, who likes to recall their grief-stricken time?

What changes from me can be applied to your situation?

First of all, even if it seems impossible to be together again, even if he is bored, he must have experienced a period of psychological change. But you must use this time flexibly and interact with him in another way to change his mind.

Who knows what it will be like to chat comfortably? If you are tempted again, does it mean that you can still love each other? What if you are all silently caring about each other? What if we meet in a romantic atmosphere?

I have no doubt that if this happens, your compound type may be very large.

Sometimes I think, if she seizes the opportunity that I take the initiative to find her, we can talk seriously and maybe get back together. But the objective facts led to a quarrel, which made me realize that we were not suitable.

What psychology is dating after breaking up? There are few opportunities to stay. When you have the opportunity to go out, you need to understand and grasp it. If you don't seize the opportunity, it means that you didn't try it according to his ideas, so there may not be another opportunity. So you must seize the opportunity to make your retention more effective.