The "bear parents" who forcefully drag peacock feathers to their "naughty children" should reflect

The "bear parents" who forcibly pull peacock feathers for their "naughty children" should reflect

A few nights ago, some netizens posted a video on social platforms saying that in Yansai, Qinhuangdao, Hebei In the lake scenic area, a female tourist with her child pulled off a peacock feather while watching a peacock. The peacock in the picture was obviously very frightened. The female tourist then handed the feather to her child.

Since kindergarten, both parents and teachers have been teaching children how to care for small animals. How come this parent "says one thing and does another" in front of the child? Behind the ferment of public opinion, netizens seem to be condemning parents' inappropriate behavior, but in fact they are worried that parents' inappropriate behavior will set a bad example for their children, and unknowingly imitate their parents' behavior, and then step by step become the next " Naughty kid".

Such parents are the "bear parents" standing behind the "bear children". In a sense, it is the existence of "bear parents" that contributes to the formation and proliferation of "bear children". Through the actions of "naughty children", we should see clearly the parents behind the children and clearly identify the children of "naughty children" who grow up in the pile of "naughty parents".

This is because although children are simple, their perception is far sharper than adults think. Children see and remember everything their parents say and do.

"Bear children" are a headache and disgusting, but "bear parents" are the "culprits". Everyone is afraid to avoid "naughty children" when they see them, but behind these "naughty children" are unreasonable "naughty parents". If passing an exam is required to qualify as a parent, parents who pluck peacock feathers must be unqualified.

As we all know, children are underage and have immature minds. Their "three views", namely world view, outlook on life, and values, are gradually established as they grow.

Children are not born with certain personality traits. They just explore the bottom line they can touch through constant testing of words and deeds. Some children make a small mistake, and their parents will severely criticize them. You know, your parents don't allow you to do this, so don't do it again next time.

But some children, even if they cause great trouble to the people around them, are not controlled by their parents on the grounds that "the children are still young", or they just make symbolic remarks, then The children will know that I can do it even if their parents don't care about it. Gradually, you will increase your "bear" level, and even reach the point where your parents can't control it.

The "bear parents" who forcefully pull peacock feathers to "bear children" should reflect. Not only can we not be "bear parents", but while leading by example, we should also correct the bad behavior of "bear children" and tell the children which rules cannot be violated. If they are violated, parents must follow the rules established in advance. Use punishment to let children establish the causal relationship between "bad behavior" and "punishment".

Laughing Uranium

2021,7,23.