What should I do if my relatives live with me?

01. Relatives should respect each other and cherish their affection

After all, relatives are people who are blood related to you or your family. They should maintain due courtesy and kindness in their daily interactions. Respect, thank you for your care, and be less resentful. Just make it easier by reaching out when you need help. If family conditions permit and the relatives really have this need, I think it is okay to stay overnight for two or three times.

02. Love is relative. If you encounter "ignorant" relatives, you must learn to deal with them tactfully

In this world, you should respect me and I will respect you. One foot. If we are kind and considerate, but our relatives are ungrateful and even push themselves too far, I think we can handle it tactfully.

As in the landlord's case, you don't have to confront them head-on. You can politely take them to a nearby hotel, book a room for them, pay the room fee, and let them live in peace of mind. In this way, you can not only retain your private space, but also handle it carefully and thoughtfully in front of relatives and husband. At the same time, it is also a hint of action: Dear relatives, I would rather pay for the room than have you come to live in my house!

Of course, some netizens said, what if those relatives are very shameless and ask us to pay for the room every time? Lao Gong believes that everything should be done in three ways. When faced with a weirdo who deliberately takes advantage, I don't think there is any need to take into account human feelings and just flip the table!

03. It is not advisable for couples to put "money" on the table because of trivial matters, as it can easily hurt their feelings

Although the poster did not directly argue with her husband about the allocation of house funds, the post The first paragraph directly puts the house payment on the table, which proves that the landlord still cares: Most of the money comes from my family, so it is right for me not to let your relatives live there! Lao Gong understands that the host does not want his private life to be disturbed, but if he is unwilling to let relatives stay overnight because of the superiority of the house payment, I think this will hurt the relationship between the couple.

In short, if it is really necessary, I don’t think it matters if relatives come to stay two or three times. Once it becomes a habit, you should use actions to hint and let them retreat.