Help me look at this man, isn't it love rat?

We should chat normally and express our feelings. There is nothing wrong with telling the truth. We should not judge love rat, but from a certain point of view, every man is love rat! A person's time and resources are limited. If he gives you more, he will naturally give less to others. Even if he is warm to you, it shows that he is very scum to others. For example, if he spends more time with you, he will spend less time with his parents; He gave more money to other women, but less money to you ~ ~

On the other hand, every man is not love rat! People are selfish, but to varying degrees. He spends all his money on gambling and all his time on games. That is his own money and time, and he has the right to control his own time and resources. You think he should spend more time with his wife or give her more money. That's just your way of being a man, not his. It's just bad luck to meet him.

To sum up, I think the so-called love rat means that this man's behavior style is too contrary to human common sense, which makes most people think that he is too scum, such as drinking and beating his wife all day ~ ~ But most of these things can't be seen before he has a wife. The general practice is to pay more attention to how he treats his parents and friends; How to treat those who are better than him, and how to treat those who are weaker than him ~ ~ Be clear in your mind, regardless of how beautiful his speech is, but just look at what he has done, and then score according to your own criteria ~ ~ ~