Is "love at first sight" destined to be short-lived?

Love at first sight is destined to last a long time. Xiaonan and Afeng are such a pair. Xiaonan and Afeng have similar family conditions. What’s more, they fell in love with each other at the first sight. The development of their relationship with each other was beyond the expectations of their family and friends.

In less than half a month after they met, they did everything a lover could do, whether it was dating, traveling together, or even going to each other's house for dinner. When Xiaonan and Afeng had known each other for less than a month, Afeng proposed to Xiaonan, and Xiaonan actually agreed. What was even more surprising was that they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get their marriage certificate a few days later.

Later, many people asked Xiaonan that Afeng was not very romantic and did not give her much surprise. Moreover, you had known each other for less than a month, so you didn’t fully understand each other yet, but You guys got married so quickly, why did you agree to him so quickly? What if he is playing with your feelings? It will be too late to regret it by then!

Xiao Nan said that although A Feng did not give her so many surprises and romances, she felt that being with him was very practical, stable and full of life. When she saw A Feng for the first time She just felt that he was the man she wanted. She believed that Afeng felt the same way, and believed that Afeng would definitely not treat marriage as a child's play.

She felt that everything was destined, and they would definitely have a perfect love story. After seeking the consent of her parents, Xiao Nan decided to enter the wedding hall with Afeng. The marriage ended very quickly, but what made people worried was their life after marriage. There were even some people with ill intentions waiting to see their jokes.

They are not optimistic about Xiaonan and Afeng's marriage, thinking that they will divorce soon. Sure enough, there are many disadvantages to a love-at-first-sight marriage. After getting married, they did not adapt quickly, and they had many conflicts. In order to live a good married life together, they made a lot of compromises and concessions.

Because they really loved each other after all, with their painstaking efforts, their love-at-first-sight married life gradually improved, and finally they began their happy married life.

Later Xiaonan summed up the secret of marriage in one sentence, that is, communication and frankness can make a marriage last long. Two people who truly love each other must learn to tolerate and understand if they want to reap a perfect love. . Only in this way will the feelings gradually deepen until they are deeply rooted.

The two have been married for more than two years now, and their lives are still very happy. The comments by onlookers that they had a flash marriage and divorce are obviously self-defeating on their part.