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Why do you have an inexplicable dependence on people you are familiar with?

A person's sense of dependence comes from trust and admiration for that person. People you know are people you trust. They helped you when you were in trouble, comforted you when you were frustrated, encouraged you when you were frustrated, and helped you when you were helpless. Then you will naturally feel dependent on him.

When I went to Tibet a few years ago, I was full of strangeness about this upcoming journey. Tibet has also given me too much mystery, but I am extremely dependent on my companions and master. They prepared butter tea for me when I was most uncomfortable, wiped my face with warm water when I was rebellious, and then fed me medicine.

When we first met on the first day of our trip, we didn't know each other at all. But after Namco experienced the rebellion, they took care of me and cared about me. I found that they were the most familiar strangers in this trip. Naturally, I had a trust in them, and my guard was slowly lowered.

Along the way, we also talked and laughed about our experiences. The master is a native of Sichuan. He used to be the owner of a garage. He said that he took the Sichuan-Tibet route purely out of interest. He just likes to take this thrilling road. He just likes to make friends with these people who love to travel.

He also said that during the Wenchuan earthquake, the drivers of the Sichuan-Tibet line were the first volunteers in charge of transportation at the front line of disaster relief. He said that at that time, he really felt that this was what he should do, and he called all his brothers to do it without much thought, which is also the most worthwhile thing he felt in his life.

Xiao Dong is a Beijing girl born in 1990. She said she was spoiled, but this time she came to Sichuan and Tibet and ran out alone. She said that this was the first time that she traveled alone and mixed with a group of people we didn't know at all, but she said that she didn't have any fear.

Uncle Liu, he is an old man in his sixties, but he says he just wants to see the world and has been collecting money. Finally, when he had enough money, he asked Master to take him along the Sichuan-Tibet line. He said that he used to be the big boss of a private enterprise, but in the past few years, he felt that the business was getting bigger and bigger and more boring, so he transferred the factory to others. He has started his intermittent journey.

In this way, after three or four days' journey together, a group of strangers all over the world became the most trusted friends. When I experienced the rebellion in Namco and Mount Everest, I didn't have so much fear in my heart. I know I can rely on people around me, and they will take care of me.