Women's psychology of looking back (analyzing women's psychology after cheating)

Women cheat, either can't resist the temptation of "early", or can't stand the status quo and want to find another way out. In short, cheating will not be for no reason, nor for desires or interests, but for yourself forever.

Some people cheat and leave their families. Some people cheated, but they came to their senses and completely lost contact with their lover. The former probably found what he wanted, while the latter probably failed to get what he wanted.

So, why do women choose to turn around completely after cheating? Is there any convincing reason, or have you really changed your mind?

0 1. Favorable psychology, this kind of woman who chose to be more beneficial to herself in comparison may not like her lover or husband very much, but she made a decisive choice for a better life. Most of these women will keep secrets when they cheat, and try not to let their husbands and family know. Most of them cheat in pursuit of a better life, or let themselves try other stimuli. If the lover will make them better off and give them enough promises, they will definitely choose to leave their original family.

On the contrary, they will decisively leave their lovers and return to their families. When they find that their lover can't give them so much, when they find that the quality of life with their lover is not as good as before, and when they find that the pressure with their lover is too great, the so-called "destiny takes a hand's love" will disappear and they will return to the original track.

Such a woman is more rational than emotional, so when faced with a choice, she can decisively choose the one that is more beneficial to her. After the failed attempt, they stopped thinking and didn't continue.

02. I was forced to be abandoned by my lover in an extramarital affair and didn't want to be hurt again, so I kept myself calm completely and lived my life honestly. There are passionate people in the world, and naturally there are fickle people. Most of those "playboys" have a glib tongue, and it is easy to hook up with unconscious women. When they are interested, play with them, make them happy, coax them, follow them, make them feel sincere to them, and even let them love themselves wholeheartedly.

When they lose interest, they abandon these women. I didn't reply to the message, didn't answer the phone, and he couldn't find anyone at home. The woman who has been coquetry in the sky suddenly seems to have fallen to the ground. The huge gap almost made them fall.

Until then, they didn't think of their family background, only thinking about this escape route that they ignored. After being badly hurt, they are afraid and unwilling to try again easily, so they just let go of those messy thoughts and let themselves live a stable life.

03. It may be rare to be moved by her husband, and she is willing to change her mind and live a stable life. After all, few men will easily forgive their wives for cheating. If a woman chooses to cheat because she has no feelings for her husband, she still has some nostalgia in her heart. If the husband insists on breaking up with her, if he chooses to forgive her and is willing to make corresponding efforts to save her, then the woman is likely to choose to return to the right track.

After all, cheating is not a positive thing, and it will damage a person's reputation more or less. If this man really wants her to change her mind and even correct some of her shortcomings, why insist on being with her lover? After all, extramarital affairs are invisible and intolerable to the public. Why not choose the original feelings that you can love openly and honestly?

Of course, there are still a few husbands who can be so generous and care about themselves. If you don't have to, stick to your bottom line and don't pursue so-called stimulation.

In any case, one must have a basic moral bottom line. If you can't do something, you should not do it. After all, not everything can be turned back.

It is lucky for a woman to turn back after an affair. It is a blessing for a husband not to discover the truth, or to be willing to forgive and accept himself sincerely.

However, not everyone has such luck. When one of the spouses has an accident, most of them end in divorce, or even die of old age. Therefore, we advise you not to go the wrong way, and try your best to stick to the bottom line anyway.

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