Is it too much to ask your boyfriend to sleep in separate rooms when traveling?

Not too much, you are not wrong. The idea is that you are conservative. There are two reasons for this conservatism: first, you still attach too much importance to sex, in other words, you still subconsciously think chastity and chastity are the necessary prerequisite labels for a so-called self-disciplined woman. Second, you are really wary of your boyfriend, which stems from your uncertainty about whether you really love him or whether he really loves you.

There are two reasons to say that you are right: first, any woman and man have the right to refuse sex, and any coercion belongs to rape, whether before or during marriage. Second, everyone has their own views and ideas about sexual intercourse. Kinsey's sexology report says: Any weird frequency of sexual release comes from and meets the physiological needs of sex, so no one can criticize you even if you are conservative.

However, you should also understand that your boyfriend is right. No matter whether he really loves you, wants to have the closest contact with you, or just wants to fuck you, as long as he doesn't come strong when you refuse, he is not wrong. He can respect your ideas, but he has no obligation to understand them. So you can't force him to completely compromise, or even smile and support it.

Only in this way can you be equal. Otherwise, you just subconsciously put yourself in the position of the weak while habitually demanding equal rights. Therefore, if you must give a definite suggestion, I think no one can give it, because after all, the development of feelings is only clear to the parties themselves.

I can only say: if this refusal lasts for a while, he will break up because of it. Don't think that he is sorry for you, or accuse him of being an animal with lower body thinking. He is responsible for the future of you two animals with different ideas. If you find out that you have sex with him and you are married, then everyone will be happy.

But if you break up later, don't cry, because you figured it out yourself, and blaming, complaining and feeling sorry for yourself will only make you look incompetent and immature.