Why do couples break up easily after traveling together?

There is a Japanese word called "Narita Break Up", which says that many newlyweds broke up on the spot at Narita Airport in Tokyo after returning from their honeymoon trip.

1 First of all, travel is an occasion where one can fully expose one's values and living habits. If you date this person for three hours three times a week, you will only touch the tip of the iceberg. It is possible for him to show you all his gentleness, decency and upbringing in these three hours.

But if you travel with him, you will find:

How does he treat money?

What does he think of this trip?

What kind of mentality did he use to deal with the difficulties in the journey?

Does he care about you more than himself?

These problems will be exposed. Some people think that since the trip was so unpleasant, they can't imagine living together for a lifetime, so they broke up after coming back.

Second, travel is an environment that will face all kinds of novel shocks. For example, when you are at home, you will feel that such an affordable object is already very suitable for you. But when you travel far away, you will find that there are so many different lifestyles and so many interesting people in the world. Suddenly, I was unwilling. I don't want to be with an economically applicable object. There is no passionate love in life. You want to let your body and soul fly more freely, so maybe you will choose to break up.

Third, many people will suddenly figure out some difficult problems in life when traveling, which may be incompatible with the other half. Go to the pure snowy plateau, or go to the ancient cultural city with a thousand years of precipitation, and you will suddenly find a new angle to break through the problem, and you will have a different world view. You may suddenly find that you are with your partner only because of habit, not because of real fit, so limited, and you will make a decision to break up when you come back.