My wife came back from traveling with a male leader and never let him touch it.

Oral: The four seasons are like songs.

I am a middle-aged man, 45 years old. My wife is one year older than me. She works for a sports car insurance company. Last year125, she and her colleagues accompanied two male leaders of their unit to travel (two men and two women didn't know there were only four of them at that time). During the cleaning at home, I found a box next to the bedside table. When I opened it, it was a pair of underwear and a bra. There was a bad feeling at that time, because the underwear was too small to cover the private parts, and the side was only three centimeters. Lace underwear is absolutely uncomfortable. That set is 480 yuan. I asked her, and she said it was a lesbian. Actually, I don't believe that she didn't want to share a room with me when she came back from that trip, and I don't want to make her unhappy. Forget it. But after a long time, I feel very bad. She's my wife, and she has a responsibility to have sex. So, when she refused me again, I rushed up desperately. That time, she reluctantly agreed, but after touching it again, she said that she wanted to sleep, so she stopped moving. After N times, I lost my sexual interest.

Now I want to know if she cheated, because once she called the leader in front of me to show concern. When her leader got off work, she told him to drive slowly. I'm uncomfortable, and she's a little embarrassed. Is this a sign of cheating? Ask the teacher for advice.

Yaqing replied:

Judging from what you said, your wife's concern for the leader has gone beyond the scope of keeping by subordinates for superiors. Besides, she came back from a business trip and behaved abnormally. But if you want to find out the truth, you'd better communicate with her more. She always has an explanation for her abnormal behavior and won't refuse you without knowing it. You can ask her what she is dissatisfied with you and this family, what needs to be improved, and whether you have done anything wrong to make her unhappy. If she can't find any reason, she shouldn't refuse you again. If so, then you may need to improve. In a word, you can tell her your doubts frankly, which shows that you are worried about her behavior. If she is still attached to you and this family, she should know what to do. If she doesn't stop, you can take some measures.

Oral: Gollum

My husband is a very selfish person, extremely single-minded and loves to go to extremes. In life, he is almost like a single man, who loves to smoke and drink at home, has no sense of responsibility and has a bad temper. And my own mother, who loves herself more than anything else and thinks she is Dong Fangbubai. Everyone should worship her, like verbal attacks, which make you feel ashamed and have no dignity. The bottom line of extremely challenging others includes me and my son. Now I want a divorce. I have been alone in Hangzhou for almost a month. The reason is because I can't get along with them anymore, and I'm afraid I'll kill myself. I have lost all hope. Now my mother has found a police station in her hometown and asked my uncle to call me and let me go home. Today, my colleague in Hangzhou said that a policeman came to me and said that my husband had called the police, but only if I had contact with them. Well, I can only escape from what they did, which means there is no third party at home. Alas, I wanted to discuss a peaceful divorce with my husband. Originally, it was unified, but later, because my mother said I wouldn't go home, it added chaos to his family. Now he wants to take me back to my hometown. I can't go back. If I go back, I will definitely not come back. Now I'm dragging my feet. I'm going crazy. I just want to live a happy life alone. They won't let me go. They all need me, but they won't love me. They are all selfish. Now I'm selfish, too I've been paying, but now I'm black and blue. Don't go back in time. Never. Please help me. I am 22 years old, but my colleagues and friends think I am 28.

Yaqing replied:

Can procrastination solve the problem? Even if you hide for a lifetime, what can you get? The best way is to go home and solve the problem quickly. Only in this way can you be free for a long time. As it is now, it is not good for you, your family and your husband. If you want a divorce, you have to go through the formalities. Instead of running out and making people worry about you. Despite their shortcomings, they are still your lovers and relatives. Hurry home and solve the problem. This is the only thing you should do at present.