Why can't I touch the pillow behind a Japanese woman?

When you travel to Japan, if you catch up with some more formal festivals, you can see that Japanese girls always wear formal Mr. Kimono, and the biggest feature of Kimono is that there is a pillow-like thing behind it, some with different shapes, some with bows and different colors, which makes people look pleasing to the eye, but this pillow-like thing is not accessible to anyone, especially boys.

Early customs are deeply rooted. If we understand the history of Japan, we can easily find that Japanese men are basically male chauvinism, and feel that after marriage, women belong to their own accessories and things, and cannot be desecrated by outsiders at will. Therefore, whenever men want to go out, they will put on complicated kimonos for girls and give them a special belt. If this belt becomes messy after coming back, they will suspect that their wife has misbehaved.

Touching the small pillow at the back is in trouble, and the upper body is in big trouble. Therefore, when we travel abroad and meet girls wearing kimonos, we must never touch other people's kimonos, let alone touch the pillow-like decorations behind them. Otherwise, it will get people into trouble! I will be misunderstood by others! Originally, the social status and family status of Japanese girls were very low, so it would be difficult to survive if they were misunderstood!

Out of courtesy, don't touch the small pillow behind the Japanese women's kimono at will! Travel abroad, don't touch it out of curiosity. Don't reach out, you will be caught. With the continuous development of the times and the opening of people's minds, the status of Japanese women has also improved a lot, and they will no longer be supervised and misunderstood by innocent people, but we still have to be polite and don't lay hands on other people's clothes casually.