A letter to my daughter.

"The best care is not to care." Looking at Liu Zhenyun's letter to his daughter, I really feel the same way. Because he said what I thought. He did turn particularity into universality. I suddenly found that my love for you is so normal and so popular. My heart is very calm.

In fact, I wanted to write to you for a long time, long before you went abroad. I didn't write it because I was always worried that I couldn't fully express this feeling. If not, I would rather let my daughter discover, feel and explore by herself. The result should be a wonderful experience!

Dong Qing said: When parents become cautious about you, don't interpret it as fear, it's love. Daughter, we love you. Maybe it's because this love is covered with worship and a little rusty. My baby, growing up, has never caused us any trouble, so that sometimes he is a little scared in retrospect. My daughter, when did you grow up? What did I do in those days when you were growing up? I am very afraid and regret. Well, let going abroad be your new life. I am willing to pay attention to your new footprints and the new steps you have taken. I am willing to grow up with you.

Now that I think about it, it is so natural for you to go abroad. The world is big and we are small, but your big mind doesn't want to be so small, so you set off, and your journey is more like destiny takes a hand. I have a little regret that you left the airport boldly and resolutely. But it's more like a relief. My daughter has grown up. You tell me with a firm back: the world is mine, don't miss me.

After you left, we earnestly adhered to the principle of "I don't miss you, you'd better not miss home". Of course, you are homesick because you can't stand eating western food for less than a month, so it's not easy for us to really miss you. We don't have to nag and worry. We can only spy on everything about you. Your words, a photo, an expression in a circle of friends, or even a tired yawn during the video will make us worry-is the child under too much pressure? Of course, in the end, I can only comfort myself helplessly. That's her business. She'll take care of it herself.

So far, everything is going well for you. What makes us most gratified is your hobby. Reading and traveling. It is your heart that has found a place to put it. I think this is more important than anything else. Mai Jia said: reading is going home. Yes, peace of mind means going home happily. Children's happiness is doubled in the eyes of parents. Your fitness decision, your 17 reading goal, your exquisite diary, especially your travel notes, your reading notes, your five-year growth diary and so on. I secretly sent Weibo behind your back. I'm the only one who knows about that Weibo, and I don't know much about it, and I don't have many fans. I just want to find a secret exit to vent my inner inconvenience and show my pride. That kind of happiness is beyond your comprehension. Travel brochures are all written in traditional Chinese characters, which you say is very China. How can you write? You said look it up in the dictionary. Daughter, mom is really proud of you. Imagine what a childlike feeling it is when you look up the traditional Chinese characters in China in the dictionary and write them one by one! We are very touched by your persistence and enthusiastic persistence in your hobbies. You are so kind to every ordinary day, and it is undoubtedly the best gift for your parents to live a full and beautiful life without your parents.

Daughter, you are the best gift from God. It is used to thank parents for their love for many years, for our persistence in beauty for many years, and for our firm belief in happiness. One day, God will also thank you heavily, because you have paid no regrets in your youth, because you are persistent in your struggle. Daughter, mother can foresee that if you keep the world in your heart, the world will certainly give you brilliant prosperity. Bless you, my dear daughter.

Mom, on the morning of April 25th.