How important is it to have the right traveling companion when traveling?

The novelty brought by strange traveling companions

Early travel was a world of group travel. At that time, independent travel and self-guided tours were not so popular. Most people would sign up for a tour group and choose a certain few days. In this case it is not possible to select team members.

If you happen to meet a ridiculous travel companion, it will turn a happy trip into a depressing one. When traveling in a group, the people you are most afraid of encountering are those who don’t consider other people’s feelings and hold the group back. Travel friend Guoguo once met an unusual girl when she signed up for a trip to Huangshan. She actually wore high heels and planned to go up the mountain. She often fell behind, making the whole team dumbfounded.

With the development of independent travel, people begin to look for travel companions online, and have the opportunity to meet friends from all over the country and even the world. The mutual unfamiliarity adds a bit of fun to the trip. Travel friend Lili searched for travel companions online when she first traveled to Tibet. "Traveling with strangers will bring unexpected rewards. That time we had a Mr. Bean to entertain everyone." This Mr. Bean is from Singapore and is in his 30s and has no fixed position. As for career, I tried working at a gas station and as a clerk. When I earned money, I went backpacking. There was also a Chanel salesperson who looked so pampered, but she didn’t expect that she continued to walk even though she had blisters on her feet, and even sang while walking.

Unfamiliar travel companions naturally have their shortcomings. Traveling with strangers without understanding their physical strength, personality, and budget can lead to conflicts. Feiyu once made an appointment with two Israelis while traveling in Sichuan. In order to accommodate their budget, the three of them spent a lot of time finding accommodation. "The spicy hot pot meal of 60 yuan per meal is still considered expensive by Israelis," Sisi said. The temperament of your traveling companions is also important. When she traveled to Yunnan, she shared a car ride with a girl twice. After spending one night, they ended up hastily and parted ways. "I like to walk aimlessly and don't like to rush for time. But her journey has an end and a purpose, so she thinks I'm slow." But even if it's unpleasant, we won't see each other after the trip anyway, and she's not afraid of the future. Awkward.

There are risks in traveling with lovers

Considering safety, more girls are willing to choose familiar people as travel companions, and traveling with their lovers is the first choice. Some people say: If you can travel with your boyfriend and be happy together, you have a good chance of being together for a long time. Countless histories of blood and tears prove that this statement is reliable! Because travel can make or break a pair of travel companions.

"If you want to know whether you can spend a lifetime with the person you love, I suggest you go backpacking in India for a month, because there you will experience countless setbacks and tests, a bit like Tang Monk seeking Buddhist scriptures. If You are still together after returning from India, which shows that you have greater confidence to face various challenges in your future marriage. A girl and her fiancé just came back from India, and they broke up when they came back. It’s so embarrassing.” It has been retweeted more than 1,000 times, showing the couple's lack of confidence when facing unknown trials.

Travel friend Angelling and her boyfriend are on a six-month long trip. The initial sweetness disappeared in less than a month. The two had the idea of ??breaking up more than ten times. The most terrifying time was when Angelling threw her passport at her boyfriend and shouted, "You walk on your single-plank bridge, and I'll cross mine." Yangguan Road, travel separately." However, in the end, the two did not separate, but learned how to get along with each other through frictions large and small. Summing up her experience, Angelling said that among traveling companions in a couple group, it is extremely important for women to control their emotions. Never treat the other person as your emotional trash can, no matter how close the other person is to you.

Too many uncertain factors during the journey can reveal each other’s potential characters and highlight values ????for the first time. Facing an unfamiliar environment and differences of opinion, if each other tolerates and helps each other, and gives each other space in a timely manner, such a journey will be beautiful and worth remembering.