What is it like to travel with the opposite sex?

Not only did I travel with the opposite sex, I also slept in the same room and the same bed with the opposite sex. This incident sounds like the plot in a movie. To this day, I still feel that the hotel front desk tricked me.

It was a hot summer day. I thought that there were no classes on the weekend and there was nothing to do. I felt that staying in the dormitory was a waste of time, so I posted a post in the forum, looking for a weekend to go together. Friends to play in Yangshuo are of both genders.

After the post was posted, a person added me soon after. She was from the same school. After a while of chatting, I decided it was her. At that time, I didn't know she was a girl. Even if I knew she was a girl, I didn't have any idea. I just wanted someone to hang out with.

On Saturday morning, when we arrived at the appointed place, we found out that she was a girl, good-looking and cheerful. We were already chatting happily while riding in the car, and found that the two of us still had a lot in common. After a day of playing, everyone was very happy. She is not a weak girl. She has said before that she has a good personality and is very good at taking care of others.

Because I had never booked a hotel on my mobile phone before, I went directly to the hotel front desk to book it in the evening. When I arrived at the front desk, I said I wanted to book two rooms. The guy told me that there were no rooms left, and there was only one double room left. When he said this, I seemed to see a look of success in his eyes. I really wanted to tell him, "Brother, we are not a couple. We only knew her on the first day."

After hearing what he said that there was only one big bed room, I pulled the girl and wanted to leave. The girl said it was too late, and she was too tired to find a hotel, so this was it. Bar. Since the girls have said this, I can’t say anything else. If you continue to say this, it seems like I have some evil intentions, so just stay here.

It was quite awkward when the two of us arrived in the room. I never thought that I would be living in the same room with a girl I had only known for a day. After entering the room, I immediately told her that she would sleep on the bed and I would sleep on the sofa, but the girl didn't say anything. After washing up, I lay down on the sofa. After the two chatted for a while, the girl asked me to sleep on the bed. To be honest, I also want to sleep on the bed, because the sofa is too small and I don’t even have anywhere to put my feet, and I will fall off if I turn over.

After receiving the instruction, I immediately climbed into bed happily. Don't get me wrong, I really want to sleep on the bed, and I have absolutely no intention of doing so. In the end, everyone slept together with their clothes on, and everything was fine. When I returned to school two days later, I never contacted him again because I felt that that night was too embarrassing and I was too embarrassed to contact him again.

The experience of traveling with the opposite sex is that I will never travel with the opposite sex again next time! ! !

Last summer vacation, Lao Ma, who is well-known in the local outdoor circle, was invited by a friend to go on a self-driving trip to Tibet because he could not save face, and if Lao Ma was the leader, he would not have to share the expenses. The offer of a free self-driving trip to Tibet was very tempting, so Lao Ma arranged the time and agreed to be their tour leader.

There were 7 people in one *** and two SUVs participating in this self-driving tour, 3 of whom were women. These three women have basically zero experience in outdoor independent travel.

On the morning of the first day, the vehicle picked up Lao Ma. Lao Ma looked at the trunk and back seat and found all kinds of food in any available space, and then said: "This line has been It’s very mature, and all kinds of supplies are very convenient. There is no need to bring so many instant noodles, which take up too much space.” As Lao Ma said, the food prepared in advance was not eaten when we returned.

Lao Ma is an outdoor enthusiast, especially enjoying the feeling of living in the open air and traveling in a dusty environment. The other team members who were traveling at that time, especially the female team members, could not understand it at all.

On the day the car arrived in Litang, it was still relatively early. Lao Ma suggested: "I brought a stove. We can cook a road meal outside the hotel and digest the food in the car. ." Several lesbians disagreed: "It's not like there's no hotel. It's so comfortable to be in the hotel next door!" Lao Ma asked them to go to a restaurant and cook a meal on the stove he brought with him.

After leaving the hotel the next morning and driving for about an hour, a female team member suddenly found that her ID card was missing. She suspected that she had left her in the hotel. It is impossible to have an ID card in Tibetan areas. Then After discussion, the decision was made: The car in which the female team member was traveling returned to the hotel to find her ID card, while the other team member slowed down and waited at the next accommodation point. As a result, today's trip was delayed due to the return trip to find the ID card, and it was almost midnight when we arrived at the hotel. This situation is understandable to Lao Ma.

What made Lao Ma intensify his complaints was the Milk Sea in Aden. The gate of the scenic spot in Milk Sea was some distance away. Everyone walked for a while, but when they saw the Milk Sea, the female team member said she couldn’t go up. When he was about to return to the car, Lao Ma suddenly became a little annoyed: "We have come all the way here. The Milk Sea is a famous scenic spot. Keep at it, it will be there soon. Are you willing to go back like this?!" In the end, Lao Ma was still alone. After going to the Milk Sea, the others returned to the car to rest and wait.

When the team reached Medog, Lao Ma proposed to enter Medog. The reason was that it was not easy, and the road conditions in Medog were much better at present, and the SUV could completely drive. The other teammates disagreed. To go to Medog, you have to go straight to Lhasa. Finally, we decided that Lao Ma and the person who invited Lao Ma would drive into Medog, while the others would use another car to go straight to Lhasa.

The two cars arrived in Lhasa. After they met, Lao Ma proposed: I have brought you to Lhasa safely. Since we have different travel concepts, I will not go with you next time. You will share equally. I'll pay the fee and leave the team! In the end, the person who invited Lao Ma to be the team leader shared the cost equally with the team leader fee as agreed before, and Lao Ma left the team alone.

After Lao Ma wandered around Lhasa for a few days, he called the inviter and asked: "Where are you now?"

The other party said: "At home. ”

Lao Ma was surprised: “Are you home so soon? ”

It turned out that the six people in the two cars returned home all the way from Lhasa.

After Lao Ma came back, he kept complaining for a few days: I worked hard to prepare the road book and wanted them to see the most beautiful scenery in Sichuan and Tibet, but they didn’t care at all.

I will never travel with a woman again, especially a pretentious woman who has never been out for a long time. I will never travel with them again. I am so angry!

It happened once, many years ago!

I once went out with a girl for half a month!

At that time, a leader was given half a month's leave because of his confrontational attitude!

I felt a little irritable, so I posted a status on Moments, saying I wanted to go out and play!

Finally, a girl saw it and replied to me, asking to go out and play together!

I thought it was a joke and didn’t reply. Unexpectedly, the girl called me directly to confirm that it was true!

So we made an appointment to go to a tourist city halfway between us!

Because it was off-season, I left as soon as I could and didn’t book a room!

After arriving, I found out that the girl had booked a room, and it was still a room!

Don’t get carried away, it’s a suite with two bedrooms and one living room. She lives in it and I live outside!

It’s rainy in Jiangnan cities!

The two of us often get wet in the rain when we go out to play!

Although I was holding an umbrella, I was cautious by nature. As soon as she came closer to me, I felt that she was caught in the rain, so I moved the umbrella towards her...

We Not very familiar, but it feels a bit like first love!

We lived together for half a month and visited every corner and every bar in that city!

When I left on the last day, I didn’t send anyone a gift!

Afraid of being sad!

A very strange feeling

Not lovers

But a little excited!

Even though they live together, nothing happened!

Later, when I drank too much and talked about it with my friends,

My friend said that she was probably waiting for me to confess!

I am a typical science and engineering man

I always let myself go and don’t know what to say at critical moments!

It was also her in college

After the freshman military training, we went out to visit the school at night

She said she was cold, and I said run away You won’t feel cold if you run!

When she was a sophomore, she went to the new campus

She called me and told me that there were many people chasing her

I said that in our school’s science and engineering school, there were more girls than boys. No matter how few women there are, there will always be at least twenty men chasing after them

During our junior year, we all went to the new campus

We rode to scenic spots and family members were allowed

She said that if she wanted to follow her, she could pretend to be a family member

I said we were all in the same dormitory, so why would you follow her?

We graduated when we were seniors

She said she was going to work in the north and asked me to go with her

She said it would be convenient to take care of her in a city

I went to Guangzhou!

Look

I always let myself go at critical moments!

So, do I deserve to be single until now?

That’s not right, I also have a dog!

I am very happy to answer this question. In my previous self-driving or cycling trips, I have been fortunate enough to travel with three people of the opposite sex. The experiences of these three times were different, but Every trip is so happy, enjoyable and unforgettable!

The three people of the opposite sex who traveled with me also have different relationships with me. The first is a girlfriend of the opposite sex with whom I have a very good relationship, the second is someone I met during an outdoor activity, and the third is a girlfriend with whom I have a very good relationship. It was a female cyclist who rode together on National Highway 318!

I once met a Shanghai girl in Shanghai. They admired and admired each other. As time went by, they finally couldn't bear the fire of love for each other, so they made an appointment to go on a trip together, and the two joined hands. We have traveled to many places together, and it was during this trip that we became true lovers. This feeling is sweet and unforgettable! Everywhere we go, it feels like there are only two of us in the whole world. The days of traveling with her will eventually become unforgettable memories in this life. However, we are destined to be together but not tolerated by the world, so we have to part ways!

The second time was during an outdoor activity organized by a friend, and we all went to Dishui Lake in the suburbs of Shanghai. We were camping with a group of four, two boys and two girls. I had never seen the two girls before, but they were very familiar with my friends. Everyone rode more than 60 kilometers from the city to Dishui Lake, where they barbecued, drank and chatted in the evening, and naturally became familiar with it.

Neither of the girls brought a tent that day, so my friend joked that it was either one or two, and they decided by punching each other, and they both agreed. In the end, the girl named Zoe and I were assigned to a tent. My tent itself was for single people, and now It was a bit crowded for two people to sleep. They slept in the same clothes, listening to the sound of the waves of Dishui Lake lapping on the shore. They chatted together until late, and finally fell asleep in a daze. When she woke up early in the morning, she I am still in my dream, with a smile on my quiet face, so beautiful!

The third time happened during the 318 ride. Not long after Kangding, when I collapsed on the climb, I saw a girl resting on the side of the road and raised her eyebrows at me from a distance. Thumbs up, cheering me on loudly, and stopped when I rode next to her. We chatted together for a long time, and we became more and more like each other. So we rode together for a few days on the next journey, and we opened the bidding when we stayed. There was a room for one person and one bed for each person, so she didn’t feel any inconvenience. She rode alone from Kangding to Daocheng Yading. After arriving in Litang, we had a meal and then went our separate ways. Later, we accidentally communicated on WeChat There is a connection, maybe a few years later, you may still remember these experiences!

In this life, people will meet many people and experience many things. Some people just pass by, and some people will remember them forever. Thank you for these three different trips, and thank you for these three people who appeared in My friends of the opposite sex in my journey of life, it is you who make my journey more three-dimensional and give my life more color!

Although I have also traveled, I have only traveled alone with the opposite sex once. That was when I was studying in Shanghai one year, and I traveled to Suzhou with a classmate of my class. , of course, it was just a day and I didn’t spend the night there. I returned to Shanghai that night. After all, the transportation was very convenient. It gave me a good feeling to be with the opposite sex. Women have their own unique meticulousness and considerate issues. They are not like some people. As dirty as I thought, I wrote a travelogue afterwards, and I’ll post it here for everyone to enjoy!

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At the end of 1993, my father-in-law went to Shanghai to study. When he came, he heard that "there is heaven above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below". Its beautiful I don’t know how many literati have been fascinated by the scenery. Now that we are so close to Suzhou and Hangzhou, how can I not want to see it with my own eyes? However, my study schedule is very tight and I cannot come back on the day I go to Hangzhou, so I have never been able to go. One of my regrets, but I was lucky enough to go to Suzhou and witness the scenery there.

It was a Sunday morning. I made an appointment with a few classmates from other places who were studying together and took the train to Suzhou together. Suzhou does not look like a modern city with tall buildings and bustling crowds. Instead, it looks small and exquisite everywhere, a typical Jiangnan town model. The buildings in the city are generally not high, and many of them are ancient buildings. Even though it is winter, you can still see green in the trees beside the road. In addition, there are many rivers in the city and the unique small bridges on the rivers. It is even more... Looks antique. What’s even more interesting is that the characters used on various signboards here are generally traditional Chinese characters. I can’t recognize many of the characters. This is the only thing I have seen in all the cities I have been to. Even Suzhou Station is written in "Suzhou Station", when I walked on the street, I really felt like I had walked into ancient times. Since there are fewer tall buildings, I feel that the sky here is particularly open, and there is no sense of oppression like in ordinary cities. My mood is also very comfortable, and even my breathing feels particularly fresh.

In Suzhou, garden art is world-famous. It is said that Suzhou gardens are unique in the world. In Suzhou, I went to the Lion Garden, the Lingering Garden and other scenic spots. In fact, their area is also It's not big. I heard from the tour guide that this is a private garden left by a wealthy family in the past. The garden has pavilions and pavilions, surrounded by clear water and green mountains [rockery], towering trees, and several false walls with moon gates. The combination is so ingenious and seamless. Although it is the off-season for tourism, there are not many tourists, and the park seems a bit quiet and deserted, but I am still very interested. It is really comfortable and happy to sit by the pavilion and watch the mountains and rivers.

Another unique thing about Suzhou is the way the vendors sell their products. After we came out of the scenic spot, several vendors displayed their handicrafts in front of us. He asked us if we wanted to buy it and didn't say anything. He just kept following him for a long time. We were very curious and finally bought it. I think this may be a characteristic of Suzhou people doing business.

I usually have a hobby of writing poems. On the way back to Shanghai, I had a sudden idea, so I wrote the following travel note. Although I am not a poet, I can't write decent poems. Come, but I am still willing to keep these few words that I cannot use as a harvest or souvenir from my trip to Suzhou.

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Lead the beautiful scenery of Jiangnan

Beautiful gardens

Si Rui Township

Dotted with historic sites and pavilions

Improvisation I am a male. A few years ago, my company organized a trip. There were only a few people in our department, and we went to Hainan. It was actually my first time to go there, and it was quite fun.

I booked a double bed room with a sea view. It was the peak tourist season. A girl didn’t get a room and asked me to give it a try. She didn’t mind me. Of course I didn’t mind, so we lived together. Since there was no fixed itinerary, we were free to move around. Basically, no one wanted to run far away, so this girl and I basically moved around at the same time and went downstairs to swim in the swimming pool together. She wasn't very good at it, so I held her chin and taught her.

The two of them had breakfast together, went back for a nap at noon, and went to the surrounding beaches in the afternoon. In the evening, they went to the nearby seafood market to buy some seafood, which was not expensive. They then went to a restaurant to process it, which was more troublesome, but Much cheaper than eating directly.

In the evening, colleagues drank together, enjoyed the sea breeze, played cards, and then went back to their rooms to sleep.

Of course my sister and I sleep in the same bed. The bed is very big and wide, facing the sea view... Of course, I am still a little afraid of being seen outside at night, so I can only sleep with the curtains closed. She likes to rest on my arm when sleeping. I often wake up in the middle of the night with numbness in my arms.

Then there is a big bathtub, which cannot be wasted. The two of them can take a dip together, rub each other's backs, squeeze shoulders and so on. It tastes good.

I really don’t know why people like to go abroad now. Hainan is really good and it has been quite safe in recent years. You can go there if you have free time.

I almost forgot to mention, this girl is my girlfriend.

Hahahaha.

In 2017, I just started my business. I often go out to study with my friends, and most of them are women. I am only a man. We basically eat/sleep/travel together. Once, my partners and I went to Sanya for training. There were three girls + me and a boy. In order to save money, we booked a large room with two beds. Two of the women slept in one room, and I shared a bed with another woman. Because we are all on the same team and are very familiar with each other, no one has any special taboos. We all have families, and we don’t have any inappropriate thoughts. In the middle of the night, my partner sleeping next to me shouted softly. When I woke up, I realized that my hand was on her. I swear I really didn't mean it. I put my hands down in a daze and continued to sleep. The next morning, my flight was earlier than theirs, so I got up very early to catch the flight. Until now, our entire team has a very good relationship and we have always kept in touch.

The first time I met her was on the train from Beijing to Xi'an. I was afraid of missing the scenery outside the window, so I sat by the window while she sat next to me.

She poked her head and asked me how long it would take to arrive. I told her it would take about two hours.

Later, she fell asleep again and was reminded to wake her up when she reached her destination.

The second time I met you was at the tourist attraction Hukou Waterfall. It was raining lightly at that time, and the waterfall looked very spectacular. I went up to say hello and said, what a coincidence, I met you again and looked at it. She was thinly dressed, so I gave her the coat I carried in my bag.

Next, we visited this scenic spot together, then got in the car, and when we got to the city, we separated. She wanted to go have dinner with her classmates, while I wanted to see the ancient capital at night. Beautiful views. We also made an appointment to go to the Qin Shihuang Mausoleum Museum tomorrow and return my coat then.

On the third day, I met her outside the museum. At this time, she was no longer alone, and there was someone accompanying her. Her classmates know a lot. They took us to visit and explain along the way, and we learned a lot of knowledge. Her classmate had something to do at night and could not accompany her. We all feel that fate has brought us together so many times. After leaving this time, we don’t know if we will have the chance to see each other again in this life.

We had dinner together in the evening. Through getting to know each other, we learned that she had encountered difficulties at work and wanted to relax and temporarily forget about her uneasy state. I say, just work hard at anything and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. As the scenery she saw became more and more beautiful, she slowly figured it out.

I have booked a flight ticket for that night. She is going to Huashan tomorrow, so we will say goodbye. Thank you for your company.

And then-...?

"What is it like to travel with the opposite sex?" 》

I remember it was a long National Day holiday, and I signed up for a self-driving tour group through the Internet.

In the early morning, when I drove my BMW 330 car to the designated place to report, there were already four cars waiting there, including me and ten people, half men and women. The team leader divided the work into five groups, and each group was composed of men and women.

That evening, the team held its first collective dinner at a hotel passing by. A few hours later, the man and woman, who were strangers when they arrived and were very reserved in speaking to each other, began to treat each other as brother and sister, as if they were old friends reunited. The team leader announced: "Give the men a task to take care of the ladies around you. We are not forcing men to mate, we are voluntarily forming a team."

The next arrangement is quite sentimental: everyone has their share of meals. Together, we gather for lunch, breakfast and dinner in groups; activities are also divided into groups. The focus of self-driving tours is outdoor experience, mostly touring mountains and rivers, eating and sleeping in the wild, and temporarily setting up double tents in the habitat, in groups of two. While the ladies in my group were still hesitating about how to sleep at night, one group entered the tent first amid the laughter of everyone.

I saw her still standing there in a daze. Then he said to her: "Isn't it time to relax when you come out? Don't think too much." After that, he started to put the bedding in the tent. I lay outside and she lay inside, with the door open, and both of them slept with their clothes on.

Every day, I rush all the way to welcome the morning glow, and set up camp under the darkness of night. I visit seven or eight scenic spots in one day. Although it is a bit of a quick tour, it still satisfies my inner goal of viewing the mountains and scenery.

The week-long self-driving trip came to an end soon. The happy trip always made everyone feel reluctant to leave each other when they broke up. Especially the female teammates, who have always been cared for by their male compatriots. They were all moved to tears and suggested organizing such activities in the future, which was unanimously approved by all the teammates. Because it was the first time for everyone to have this kind of personal experience of traveling by car with opposite sex, everyone felt very happy and nostalgic.

Last year, the company organized a trip to Yunnan, and the air tickets were all booked. However, due to postponement of company affairs, I changed my ticket and flew to Dali by myself. At first I played alone in Dali, then I rented a car and drove to Lugu Lake. I went out at 4 o'clock in the morning to watch the sunrise. There was no one outside. Then I met a girl. She took the initiative to strike up a conversation with me. When she learned that I was driving alone, she asked to play with me! Oh my god! How can I not agree to someone's request? It was dark and cold at that time, and everyone was wrapped up tightly. I didn't see the girl's face clearly, but she was not tall. At dawn, I discovered that I had picked up a big treasure, a Xiaojiabiyu-type girl. So I played happily with her for a day, during which I also took a lot of photos. When I posted them to Moments, my colleagues in the company went crazy! The male colleagues worshiped me. But I didn't go with my girl at night. Although my girl said she wanted to treat me to dinner, I had to rush back to Dali to catch a plane. Now think about it, what would really happen if I really didn’t leave that day? I am almost 40 years old, but I look young. The girl thought I was only in my early thirties. The photos below are real. Those who have been to Lugu Lake should know the scenery.

I hope that girl doesn’t mind if she sees it