I often travel with my girlfriend. How should I allocate my money?

I think many people who travel with me have encountered this incident, whether they are girlfriends or confidants, they are important partners in our lives and deserve to be cherished and maintained. However, due to people's different personalities, values and world views, disharmony and contradictions abound in communication. To treat friends, on the one hand, we should treat each other sincerely and help each other with all our strength; On the other hand, we should also stick to the bottom line of principle and have moderate exchanges.

Therefore, for your understanding of this situation, you are a warm-hearted person who cherishes friendship, but you are soft-hearted, but you can't bear to expose the selfishness and meanness of your best friend, fearing that friendship will never exist.

I think friendship is mutual, and both sides should add luster to friendship. Once it becomes a unilateral act, it is doomed to be short-lived. I suggest that you have a heart-to-heart communication with your best friend, find out her financial situation, analyze her behavior motives and explain your thoughts in private. True friendship can stand any test. If we can't reach an agreement, we can't talk about true friendship. Give up and give up. There is nothing to cherish.

Travel with your best friend, no matter who takes the initiative, you should make a good plan before you travel. The two can reach an agreement on the route, accommodation, catering and cost ratio during the tour, and the two brothers should settle accounts clearly. It's best to set a good consumption standard, you can AA on the spot, or you can take your clothes first, keep a good account of your expenses, and settle the bill after the tour. Of course, it is important to know which expenses are the same and which are personal expenses.

Also, in most cases, good friends go out to play, as long as the consumption is not too complicated, it is not clear. Both parties take turns to pay. Have you observed that quite a few people are scrambling to pay the bill when they are spending? As we all know, the cost difference between the two parties will not be too big in the end. After all, there will be no absolute fairness. Of course, different people, different friends can take different methods.

Thank you, I hope I can bring you some help.

Men also have this kind of situation, so I will say a few words before answering you.

Because girlfriends, like friends, often eat together. If you are really rich, it is easy for you to come back. It is enough to have a golden hill at home. If the conditions are similar, you must settle accounts according to your good friends.

Are there any sensible people among my friends? Sometimes they tell me in advance that it's my treat and they all come. I don't know who checked out early after dinner. I am unhappy. They have another reason: we work for more money than you. Maybe next time. Often, lovely young man.

The cost should be discussed in advance. Before you travel, discuss the travel expenses with your girlfriends in advance, make a simple plan and have a rough economic budget. Consider submitting a travel fund to one of them for safekeeping.

This fund belongs to the expenses of * * *, including round-trip transportation (air tickets, train tickets, boat tickets), tickets for scenic spots, hotel accommodation and meals for three meals a day.

In fact, it is particularly important to do a good job of bookkeeping. Doing a good job of bookkeeping can make peers trust you and make the cost output of travel clearer. Download the mobile APP to keep accounts and keep accounts every day. Don't feel trouble. In fact, it is easy to take action. Take out 5- 10 minutes before going to bed every day and record it. At the same time, you can also sort out the remaining funds to see if you want to supplement the same funds.

Travel costs a little money, everyone's preferences and habits are different, and the pursuit of food and souvenirs is different. Except for three meals a day, all the food, snacks and handwritten letters you want to buy on the way are paid by individuals without using the same fund.

If you choose to pay personally, it may also be the other party's treat. But at least it won't be like the problem of the owner, a person has been paying continuously.

It's not only the scenery that matters, but also like-minded travelers. Sometimes, the destination may not satisfy you, but having a like-minded traveling companion can add a lot of fun and good memories to the journey. As a girl, I seldom get up the courage to walk around in the distance alone and always travel with different people. Negotiating the travel expenses in advance and keeping accounts during the trip are all prerequisite measures to make the trip less troublesome.

Travel more, over time, you don't need the complicated planning in the past, and these concepts will be integrated into your itinerary and become a habit you can pick up at will.

Now that you mention the word best friend, I think you know her very well. If you really don't take the initiative to pay every time, it may be that you are poor, or you just have no money at this stage and are spoiled by people around you. You have no sense of paying independently. The worst case is that you lose your normal thinking and cognition. I think girlfriends are the kind of people who talk about everything. You can tell her your unhappiness and communicate with each other. When two people talk about friendship, it's not just about money. If she can accompany me when I am most sad, or help me stand up when I am bullied, I think spiritual contribution is more precious than money, so. If it's really a best friend, I don't mind giving some money!

This should be the simplest question. AA system is the best, which involves neither economy nor human feelings. More is to travel frequently, and no one should spend more money for anyone. No matter how good the relationship is, once money is involved, it will become stale. As the saying goes, a brother has a clear account, but a friend with the best situation. If you want a long-term relationship, you must settle your accounts [yeah] [yeah] [yeah]

A: It's best to travel with your girlfriends.

Why do you spend so much money? Because only in this way can we play well and get along better with our friends. Everyone is traveling, so we must spend our own money, so that we can feel at ease, and friends can take care of each other if they don't owe each other, so that we can have a heart-to-heart relationship.

Why do you have to pay for food and food when your best friend wants to eat? Feeling is what you want. Why not let your best friend buy it himself? What kind of friends are your best friends? Since you want to buy it, don't talk about it later, so it is easy for others to misunderstand that you are a best friend!

You said your best friend wanted to eat, but you didn't, and then your best friend stopped eating. This seems to be a very normal thing. Why do you say your best friend? None of you spent money, and none of you suffered.

When I travel with my friends, we all go Dutch, and we can eat in AA system, so that everyone is more lively. Never mind such a trivial matter as buying a bottle of water for a friend. If you care about these friends, it's hard to find them. I think you took the initiative to pay the bill, and you feel wronged. You'd better make it clear when you spend money, so that your best friend knows that the money you spend for him is to be repaid, or that you didn't invite you to dinner. Everyone is AA, so it's better to make it clear. Because no one's money is blown by the wind, but hard-earned money, so don't spend money indiscriminately and try to be filial to your parents.

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I often travel with my best friends and have a good friendship. We don't care about each other, but we still use AA system.

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1, provided that:

Choose a small partner who travels together, get along happily, travel in a planned way and divide the work, and the other party has certain autonomy. Before traveling, carefully plan and budget the expenses, fully discuss and communicate with the other party, avoid shirking and solve problems when encountering difficulties, and reduce misunderstandings and frictions.

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2, cost sharing: generally AA system, APP Caizhi AA account or manual small account book, daily expenses are recorded and divided in time, which is very convenient.

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3. In case of unexpected expenses, we should discuss and communicate well, which will also reduce misunderstanding and friction.

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4, a good attitude, friends traveling together is a touchstone, help each other, take the initiative to attack, share happiness, patronize their own selfish behavior, next time others dare not ask you out.

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So my unforgettable trip is related to the people you travel with, such as empathy, tolerance, beautiful scenery, beautiful heart and better travel experience.

Honey, I often travel with my best friend. We are AA system, which can guarantee that everyone can go out to play often. Of course, you can't haggle over every ounce in the process, and sometimes you should be kind to each other. Rules and feelings complement each other, and sisterhood is always yi tooth.

Let me answer this question.

Very simple, let me tell you:

First, maybe you have good financial conditions. Your best friend thinks that she is as deep as her sister and that it is normal for you to spend money, regardless of you and me. A hedge between keeps friendship green.

Second, since you have raised a question, no matter what your own conditions are, it means that you are not satisfied and you can avoid it. Don't take the initiative to pay for consumption. After a long time, people will have self-knowledge, and girlfriends will naturally understand and wake up and won't let you spend it alone. How to associate with her, I will decide for myself.

Third, if girlfriends are as always, it shows that they are greedy and cheap, and they love money and are stingy. It's up to you whether to communicate or not.

Fourth, be frank and outspoken, say what you think, or AA system, girlfriends will understand how to do things and how to be a person.

Fourth, if she is still indifferent and you are willing, you can continue like this. If you don't want to, you can go your separate ways, and your girlfriends are like passers-by.

For your reference! I hope I can help you.

thank you

"Brothers settle accounts clearly", you are not even brothers and sisters.

You often travel with your girlfriend. How should you allocate your money? I have always adhered to the principle that only two rich people can get along for a long time.

Traveling abroad, in particular, is not ordinary small money, not as simple as a meal or some snacks.

No matter how strong the other party's economic strength is, it should never be a reason for the other party to spend more money.

Judging from the subject's question, you are not satisfied with this kind of consumption, but in order to maintain friendship, you would rather endure it yourself, but how long can you endure it?

As you can see from the way you describe your best friend, she often does. But you are unhappy at the same time, and you complain about this effort. Do you think this is a good idea? There is something wrong with your personality, too! Hesitate.

You're embarrassed to say it. What are you afraid of? Afraid of losing this friendship? You don't have to worry about losing her at all, because you two are not fit to be friends.

According to the comments, some people say that you should talk to your best friend and help her analyze her current situation, whether it is because of economic tension or other reasons.

I want to say, not talk, but tell. What is there to analyze? You two have different ideas.

If she is financially nervous, she can't travel with you at all. If you are going on a business trip and don't have that much money, she can explain it to you orally. I believe that if she tells you that she doesn't have much money now, you will be willing to invite her to dinner and drink.

What people are most afraid of is that they can't even say good things without action.

Who does she think she is and needs the whole world to spoil her?

For example, if someone invites me out for dinner, I will explain the payment method in advance, whether it is AA or someone else's treat.

If someone treats us, we will give gifts according to the purpose of the other party's treat, such as birthday. If there is no purpose, it is a simple party, and we will entertain you one by one next time.

We are friends who are often together, and no one should break anyone's heart. Don't eat if you can't afford it, but if you always eat other people's food, it's a pattern problem.

Therefore, our most recommended consumption method is AA system, so no one can afford it. I saved my turn to treat, but I happened to have something to do, and I also lost my reputation of avoiding death.

I often travel with my friends. Every time we reach an agreement in advance, when we go to eat a kind of food together, even if we settle the amount of money that everyone should pay, we will settle the bill by ourselves, and it will not be delayed until that night. The account of the day is settled on the same day, so everyone can relax.

Sometimes, a friend doesn't care about dozens of dollars, but I will definitely transfer my share to her, and my attitude is very firm.

In fact, when my friends accept my money, their burdens will be gone, and they will look up to me. When we are away from home, we are all scrambling to save money, so to speak, because after saving money, everyone will consciously transfer their share to the payer.

I haven't offended anyone because of money for so many years. By spending money, you can also judge whether a person is worth socializing with.

A friend who always wants to take advantage of petty gain, you'd better stay away from him!