What do you think when one spouse goes on vacation and the other spouse is alone at home?

This is normal. Marriage is not a shackle. It connects two people all day. Marriage needs some air, busy work and career, and social and personal circles. Marriage is when two independent people come together. Although there are ways to get along, don't get bored with each other every day.

Love is nothing more than an attraction, mutual appreciation and pursuit between two people. When two people are together for a long time, without independent space, they lose all kinds of attraction. Both sides lost their curiosity, knew everything about each other like the back of their hands, lost their freshness, and stopped appreciating and pursuing.

Marriage is a process of mutual adaptation, which has its advantages and disadvantages, and it also needs a process of acceptance. In this process, it is necessary to maintain a certain sense of distance, so that both sides can always maintain that freshness. Hedgehog rule: if you are too close, you will be stung, and if you are too far away, you will be cold and uncomfortable. Neither too far nor too close is the best.

Marriage is not a shackle. It connects two people all day. Marriage needs some air, busy work and career, and social and personal circles. Marriage is when two independent people come together. Although there are ways to get along, don't get bored with each other every day.

Do you need a separate space in marriage? My personal view on this issue is that marriage certainly needs its own independent space, and no one can take the other half everywhere. We should give them space to think independently and give them space to be alone. Marriage that is tired of being together all day is the most disgusting.

Marriage is a compulsory course. People who are married want to come out, while people who are not married expect it. This contrast is very great, but marriage does not need to be bound. They are busy with their own affairs and keep interacting at any time. This state is very good. So in marriage, we need to give each other independent space, let each other be quiet, don't disturb each other, have something to say, and do your own thing as if nothing had happened.