63-year-old man: I signed up for a senior tour group. I originally wanted to relax, but I didn’t expect that my 8,000 pension was not enough.

I believe that every elderly person has his or her own hobbies and fun after retirement. Some people like to square dance, some people like to play Tai Chi, and some elderly people like to go out and enjoy the beautiful mountains and rivers of the motherland. When I was young, I had to work all the time and had no time to travel. Now that I have time to retire and have a monthly pension, I can sign up for a senior tour group and go out more, and my mood will feel much better.

There is nothing wrong with this activity for the elderly who want to travel. It is just that this hobby is a bit expensive, and some irresponsible tour guides will deceive consumers and induce tourists to buy something. If not If you buy them, you will have no performance, or even lose your temper directly. I believe you have seen a lot of this kind of news on the Internet.

There is also a type of old people who met many people of the same age while traveling. During the trip, everyone played together, ate and lived together, and played team-building games together. In the end, they were different from the opposite sex. Just like the case mentioned this time, 63-year-old Uncle Liu signed up for a senior tour group. He was originally in a bad mood and wanted to go out to relax, but he didn't want to meet his "true love" during this trip, causing him to be alone. The monthly pension of 8,000 is not enough! What exactly happened? Let's look down together.

I have retired for three years. Originally, my wife and I had agreed to travel together after retirement. But I didn’t expect that my wife passed away just two years after I retired. My relationship with my wife Not particularly good. When we were young, she had a very strong personality. Every time I went against her ideas, she would say that I was useless. Moreover, she always liked to compare me with others and talk about her sisters. How much does my husband cost per month? When I was young, my salary was low, so she always complained that she married a pauper. It was only when she got older that her temper became much calmer.

After my wife passed away, I felt very depressed. In addition, my two children also worked out of town and had no time to take care of me. After a friend’s introduction, I decided to go out. I just went ahead with the idea of ??traveling. The next day I went to the travel agency to sign up for a seven-day trip to Yunnan. They also said that after paying the money, food and accommodation would be included and I could just go with the group. I didn’t need to worry about it at all. .

On the day of the trip, I was waiting for the bus at the agreed place. I saw a big girl waiting here. When I asked, I found out that she was also a member of the seven-day Yunnan tour. At that time, I thought it was a coincidence, and I We both live in the same place, and we have someone to take care of us along the way.

After we got in the car, we sat together and chatted a few words with each other. It turned out that her surname was Wang and she was eight years younger than me. Since her divorce in middle age, she had been traveling around and visited many places. There are really too many. She has been to Shanghai, Beijing, and many big cities in Tibet. I admired her in my heart at that time, because she is really strong when traveling alone as a woman, and she travels everywhere. It's so carefree.

We rode in the car and rested several times along the way. Xiao Wang and I got to know each other better and better. We even felt like we had met so late. Xiao Wang told me many interesting things about the trip. , and also told me how to easily be deceived by tour guides during travel. I was stunned for a while, and I admired her even more.

Finally arrived at the destination. There were about 20 people in the group this time. We began to allocate places to stay. Xiao Wang and I lived very close to each other. This seven-day tour in Yunnan During the trip, we saw a lot of beautiful scenery and got to know Xiaoyu better. We went out to play together during the day, and the tour guide taught us some small games. We had a lot of fun. We went back to the hotel together in the evening. After these few days, we all We have also become familiar with each other.

Xiao Wang is gentle, generous, well-spoken, and very elegant. Many people of the same age like to come to show courtesy to Xiao Wang, but Xiao Wang may think that we are fellow villagers, so she is only more enthusiastic towards me. , she looked at me with very gentle eyes, which made me feel very proud, and I also felt a sense of pride in my heart. My feelings for Xiao Wang are no longer just a fellow countryman.

After this period of travel, we played a lot of games and took photos with many beautiful scenery. I would help Xiao Wang take a lot of photos. Xiao Wang praised me for my good photography skills and praised her. The photo looked like a fairy, and she also said that whoever marries me in the future will be very lucky. We also left each other's phone numbers and agreed to continue to contact each other and be friends when we go back.

Although Xiao Wang and I didn’t talk about being boyfriend and girlfriend, I felt that Xiao Wang also had a crush on me. Otherwise, why would she be so nice to me alone if so many people were fawning over her? And if she is really lucky to marry me, she must be interested in me.

Once the tour guide recommended a local restaurant, saying that it was a specialty here and you would never forget it once you eat there.

Although the tour we signed up for included food and accommodation, except for the dinner, everything else we wanted to eat had to be paid for by ourselves. At that time, I just wanted to leave a good impression on Xiao Wang, so I said, "Let's go, Liu." Brother, I’ll treat you to something delicious, and eat it openly. The most important thing when you come out to play is to have fun!”

Although the meal cost me more than 800 yuan, looking at Xiaoyu’s happy and satisfied face, I felt like it! Everything was worth it. From then on, I took the initiative to pay for every day's consumption. This was equivalent to setting a precedent, and there was no possibility of going back. There were always many stalls on the road, and the tour guide deliberately took us shopping. In just a few days, seven or eight thousand were gone. However, my generosity also made Xiao Wang more enthusiastic towards me. Every time we went out to play, she always held my arm. Those accompanying teammates thought we were a couple!

Once when passing by a jade shop, Xiao Wang reluctantly held a jade pendant and kept stroking it, reluctant to let go. Xiao Wang said: "Brother Liu, do you think it's strange or not? I saw it at first sight. This piece of jade feels like I have carried it in my previous life. I really like this piece of jade!"

Can I still not understand what Xiao Wang means when he says this? She just wanted me to help her pay for it. I asked the boss how much this piece of jade cost. The boss lion said that this piece of jade was 38,000 yuan. Xiao Wang burst into tears when she heard the price. She said it was not that much money, but she just liked this piece of jade. Finally, Xiao Wang said: "Brother Liu, how about you Lend me 20,000 yuan first, and I will return the money to you when we return to my hometown. Anyway, you also have my contact information, and we are both in the same place. Don't worry, I will go and get the money when we go back. Take it out and give it back to you!"

Although I had doubts at the time, after all, although Xiao Wang and I were in love, we had only known each other for a short time, so it was indeed difficult to borrow such a high amount of money from others. I will also be worried, but my biggest shortcoming is my good face. At that time, many teammates were looking at me from behind, and they were too embarrassed to refuse, so they directly said: "We fellow villagers said this, it's a shame. This money I’ll pay you in advance, and we’ll still be friends when we get back, and we’ll see each other more often in the future!”

Finally, I transferred all the money of 38,000 to the merchant, and Xiao Wang happily asked me to help her put on the jade! , I felt a little regretful after I paid the money. She wouldn’t cheat me out of my money, would she? But I think Xiao Wang looks kind and gentle, and he shouldn’t be a liar. Since you’ve given me the money, just keep it in your heart!

Happy time is always short. The time traveling with Xiao Wang was really happy and enjoyable. Although this trip cost me a lot of money, even this month’s pension After all the money was used up, the money I spent to buy the jade pendant for Xiao Wang was still my old capital, but I always believed that Xiao Wang would return the money to me when I got home.

We got on the bus home. Xiao Wang said that he lived in a certain community. As soon as I heard that this place was very close to my home, she got out of the car first, and I took a shower after returning home. I took a bath and slept comfortably. When I got up and wanted to contact Xiao Wang to have a meal together, I didn’t expect that she had blocked my WeChat account. I quickly called Xiao Wang again. Unexpectedly, the phone could not be connected and was turned off! I was confused at the time. I never thought that Xiao Wang was really a liar. Maybe she was in the same group with the jade seller, or maybe she was just an emotional liar.

I quickly took a taxi to the community and asked the security guard if he knew Wang Shumei. Unexpectedly, the security guard directly said that this person's name did not exist here! Only then did I realize that Xiao Wang might have waited for a while and then changed directions after getting off the car. This was not the community where she lived at all. I was not even sure whether she was from this city or not!

Now that I am in this situation, I can only blame me for trusting people too easily. Unexpectedly, after a trip, my monthly pension of 8,000 yuan was not enough, and I also spent all my old savings. In the end, the money was gone and no one was left behind. I can only blame me for being obsessed at the time and believing her words. But now it’s too late to say anything. I can’t even find her person, and I haven’t asked Xiao Wang to write an IOU! Now that I think about it, I feel really regretful!

It’s not a bad thing for Uncle Liu to travel, but he shouldn’t trust outsiders so easily. Although they are very chatty, after all, they just met, how can he buy such an expensive one? Gifts, and what some scammers are best at is chatting with people. They are good at deception and acting. Inexperienced people can only be fooled around.

There is nothing wrong with Uncle Liu wanting to find a wife, but Uncle Liu doesn’t know the details of the other person, let alone what kind of character he is. Just by being together for a few days, Just give your sincerity, it’s really too casual. After all, our sincerity is also limited. We must give our sincerity to the people who deserve it, instead of giving it just once when we meet someone. No matter how hot the heart is, the number of times it will be hurt will If you have too much, you will no longer have the ability to love others. Sincerity is really precious. Don't let others trample on it. Leave it to the people who are truly worthy, so that you won't get hurt.

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