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Materials of deeds of respecting the elderly

Deeds of Respect for the Elderly (5 articles in common)

In ordinary daily life, deeds are the most unfamiliar to everyone. From the formation and connotation of advanced objects, deeds can be divided into materials of advanced deeds formed in a long time and materials of advanced deeds generated by unexpected events at one time. How should we draw up deeds and materials? The following are the deeds of respecting the elderly that I collected for you (5 articles in general). Welcome to share.

materials on deeds of respecting the elderly 1

Peng lujin, female, Han nationality, born in September 1986, is a villager in Yapulong Village Group of Yapulong Village Committee, and is now the deputy director of Yapulong Village Committee. Since childhood, her father died of illness, and her mother remarried, and she was raised close to her grandmother and provided for her to go to school. These hardships made her form a charitable, caring for the elderly and caring for the young, straightforward, warm and cheerful personality. In the eyes of villagers, she is a good child, and in the eyes of grandma, she is a good granddaughter; Among friends and relatives, there is no one who does not give a thumbs up, and there is no one who does not respect. She is indeed a good example for us to respect the elderly and filial piety and live in harmony with our neighbors.

1. She is a kind-hearted young man.

Since she was a child, Peng Lujin was attracted by many parents in the village because of her excellent academic performance. She asked her to help her children with their lessons. Every time, she took pains to tell them what she had learned and taught them her learning experience and skills one by one. Many children have made great progress as a result.

After graduating from college, because she majored in English, many children asked her to help them with their English. No matter how busy Peng Lujin was, whenever she had time, she would go to the children's home to help them, never charging a penny.

Aunt Miao, a villager, was heartbroken because her husband was paralyzed and her children failed to support her, and she wanted to commit suicide many times. When she heard about this, she hurried to their house to learn about the situation. While doing the ideological work for her children, she enlightened Aunt Miao, and took her own food and money to Aunt Miao for emergency, helping Aunt Miao with laundry, cooking and cleaning. It was not until her children offered to take care of their parents' daily life that she put down her mind.

Kong Derong, a villager in the village next door, has a poor family and suffers from indirect mental illness. His parents are old and weak, and his daughter is young. His wife has tried to run away from home many times for this reason. When she heard about this, while doing his wife's ideological work, she quickly reflected to the village group and responded to the villagers' donations to help them treat their diseases and help their family tide over the difficulties.

Second, she is a dutiful daughter.

Since childhood, her father was paralyzed in bed because of illness, and her mother also suffered from indirect mental illness. Besides studying hard, she cooked and massaged her father when she got home. When the weather was fine, she took her father to the yard to bask in the sun. Every weekend, as long as conditions permit, in addition to finishing her homework and washing her clothes, she massages her father whenever she has time, finds delicious wild vegetables to eat for her father, and gives them to her father as soon as she can, hoping to alleviate his pain. Especially during his father's serious illness, he almost squeezed out all his study time to chat with his father, picked up some things that can be sold for money and bought nutritional supplements for his father. Especially in his last days, fortunately, during the holidays, she spent all her time and energy with his father, never leaving, feeding, scrubbing, massaging, washing feet, accompanying the bed, and looking for Chinese herbal medicines to stew for his father when he was asleep. Unfortunately, my father was finally killed by illness. At that time, my father was only 37 years old and she was only 9 years old. She was weak and young and eventually became an orphan. She also grieved for it for a long time, but finally chose to face it bravely. Fortunately, grandma resolutely shouldered the burden of raising her and continuing to provide him with education. Since then, she has been determined to study hard and repay her grandmother in the future.

After graduating from college, she gave up the excellent job treatment in other places, and decided to go home and start a business, so as to take care of her elderly grandmother. Because her grandmother went to work in the fields in her freshman year and accidentally fell down from the hillside, her face, waist and legs were seriously injured. She stayed in bed for nearly two months, but fortunately she had a holiday. When she learned of this, she gave up the opportunity to work in the city and rushed home to take her grandmother for infusion and feeding. Help grandma massage, under her careful care, grandma gradually recovered to health, but because of old age, the waist injury can't be cured. As long as the weather changes, grandma feels unbearable pain. For this reason, she specially bought a massager to help grandma massage. She wouldn't let her do heavy work or dirty work. As long as she could, she tried her best to keep her grandmother out of it. She wanted to do her best to let her enjoy her old age.

Third, she is a good cadre who works with care.

In 213, she was lucky enough to be elected as the deputy director of the village committee, which was a challenging job for her. Facing all kinds of villagers who came to work, she had to study while studying, and from time to time asked her elders for advice on how to handle things to the satisfaction of the villagers and follow the principles. Whenever she has time, she looks for information, reads relevant books and constantly updates herself to meet the needs of more people.

Yapulong Village Committee has 12 groups under its jurisdiction, and several villages have high mountains and long roads, with extremely inconvenient transportation and harsh natural conditions. In order to do a good job, she is not afraid of the long way. Whenever she has time, she goes down to the village, visits the villagers, understands the actual situation of the villagers, and immediately reports to her superiors when she encounters practical difficulties, so as to help the villagers seek more and better help. At the same time, the information and policies about farmers' livelihood and helping rich farmers are distributed to farmers one by one, so as to drive villagers to be down-to-earth and help them to get rich.

due to the large number of migrant workers in the village, the vast floating area, long time out and frequent information changes, it has brought many difficulties and inconveniences to the work. Comrade Peng Lujin always tries his best to get information about people going out, and keeps in touch frequently. In order to pay attention to more left-behind children and the elderly, in addition to doing the tasks and work assigned by superiors, Comrade Peng Lujin also sent the warmth and care of being a grassroots village cadre to the needy people, doing practical things for the people and being a caring person of the people. She often visits those low-income households and five-income households, giving them money and things, and sending medicines to doctors has become a common practice. Chen Yongyun and Miao Guoliang, low-income households, are the objects she helped the most. Miao Guoliang, an old man with mobility difficulties, often takes care of things like chopping meat and shopping for free and sends them home out of trust.

It is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation to honor parents and respect the elderly, and it is the cornerstone of our country's ethics. China has a very long tradition of filial piety. In the profound Chinese traditional culture, filial piety culture is a core concept and spirit, and it is an important part. "Filial piety comes first in all the virtues", "I am old and old, and I am young and young" are all the essence. Comrade Peng Lujin has thrived under the influence of Chinese filial piety culture, and is a representative of the typical filial piety. Comrade Peng Lujin respects the old and filial piety, and can achieve "the old and the old, the young and the young, and the young". She treats the villagers with a smile, is charitable, gets along well with her family, cares for people around her with sincere heart, and helps people around her with enthusiasm. She has touched many people with practical actions, and has also infected and educated many people. She has become a model for respecting the old and filial piety in ten miles and eight townships, and has driven one party to respect the old and filial piety. 2

My mother, Zhao Qiongzhi, was born in 1947 and is 64 years old. She is a villager in Lubiao Village, Lubiao Town, Anning City, Kunming City, Yunnan Province.

her family was poor, her father died in her early years, her husband was away, and she had six children. When the children were very young, her mother was old. Since the rural household was contracted, the farm work was heavy, but she got up early every day, dragged her children and raised the elderly. After her hard work, her life got better day by day. However, in 199, grandma was unfortunately ill. Although she was treated, her legs were paralyzed, and she has been in bed since then. She is now 99 years old. Day after day, for 2 years, my mother has always guarded her grandmother with filial piety, and faced life calmly with tenacious perseverance. For 2 years, she carried her to the sun in winter, served rice and water every day, poured excrement and urine, and regularly wiped her with a towel, wholeheartedly stayed beside her, carefully cared for her, took care of her diet and daily life, and did heavy farm work to maintain her family. But no matter how hard and tired, caring for the elderly is a must-do housework for her every day.

when grandma can't take care of herself, my mother feeds her every meal like a child, and feeds her with water bite by bite. With the careful care of her mother, grandma gradually gets better and can eat with a spoon by herself. Later, grandma was encouraged to try to walk and helped her move step by step. Because of her age, grandma couldn't walk with crutches, and tried to walk with a light four-legged stool. In order to prevent the stool from slipping, she wrapped her four feet with old cloth. Grandma was finally able to move gently by herself, but there was a little bit of silver hair on her head, her back was severely deformed, her lumbar spine was prominent, and there was hyperosteogeny.

Nothing bothers my mother more than the busy farming season and the dead of night. Perhaps it's because my grandmother is old and has insufficient control over her nervous system. She talks to herself inexplicably late at night, and sometimes moans incessantly. My mother thinks her grandmother is ill, so she doesn't care about her own fatigue. She quickly gets up to say hello and is relieved to see that nothing is wrong.

As the saying goes, "There is no dutiful son before a long hospital bed", but my mother has achieved it. In recent years, with grandma getting older, her ears are hard to hear, her eyes are bad, and she occasionally has a little trouble. But under her careful care, she is in good spirits. Neighbors say, "Without her sincere filial piety and love, how can the old people live this happy old age?" Mother used her virtue of filial piety and respect for the elderly, which made people say things on their lips and cast a life style for themselves.

As the saying goes, "It is filial to be obedient". It is common for old people to talk too much when they are old. At this time, my mother always persuades my family not to dispute with the elderly. It is our traditional virtue to respect the elderly. Although some words make people feel uncomfortable, they are not malicious. We should listen patiently and explain after listening, which will resolve some misunderstandings. Under the careful management of the mother, the family has been getting along very well. Now the children are all adults. Although the six brothers and sisters have not separated from each other, they have their own families. They hold a family reunion every month, presided over by their mother. Whenever the family has something or difficulties, they will discuss it together. Over the years, the relationship between younger siblings and sisters can be handled well. It is the mother's style of being upright and virtuous, which makes this big family harmonious and happy, envied by the villagers and praised by everyone. Mothers often tell their children: "Filial piety is not only the responsibility of children, but also an important way to educate future generations. Only by doing it yourself can we truly achieve the goal of educating children and set a good example for them.

It is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation to support the elderly. "Under her long-term example, the children also learned the truth of filial piety and respect for the elderly, and let grandma enjoy whatever is delicious and useful first. In the eyes of her mother, she is a filial daughter; In the eyes of her husband, she is a virtuous wife; In the eyes of her children, she is a kind and wise mother.

In daily life, while taking good care of her own elderly people, my mother also gives enthusiastic help to her neighbors who are in trouble. No matter who needs help in the village, my mother will not hesitate to lend a helping hand. Over the years, everyone has been guided by the principle of peace and mutual respect, and the neighbors have been well handled with the support of more than one family in need. Once, at home, I vaguely heard a groan of pain coming from the neighbor's house next door. She pushed the door and went in. I saw Aunt Yang lying on the sofa. It turned out that her old habit was repeated, and then she quickly helped her get dressed and sent her to the hospital. The next day, she delivered water and meals for her. If there are any small contradictions in the neighborhood, they also take the initiative to mediate and dredge them. Mother is such a warm-hearted, helpful, filial piety and respect for the elderly, and is in harmony with the villagers.

a harmonious society cannot live without the word "filial piety". As a social citizen, in the process of building a harmonious socialist society, harmony among people is the most important feature of a harmonious society. If everyone in today's society takes filial piety first, society will become more harmonious. 3

There is an old saying that "filial piety comes first in all the virtues", which means that filial piety plays an important role in virtue, and even occupies the first place. If a person doesn't even respect his parents, how can we believe that he will love the people and the motherland? How can anyone really make friends with them? The "first filial piety" in Disciples' Rules requires us to be filial to our parents. Parents call it, emergency response; If you have something to explain, you should leave immediately, listen respectfully to your parents' instructions and so on.

Some people can't help wondering: What is filial piety? Isn't it just a word? What else can it mean? No! The so-called filial piety is a combination of "Lao" and "Zi", with "Lao" above and "Zi" below. The well-meaning of this word has already told us that filial piety should be the first thing to do. In history, there are many touching stories about filial piety, among which "Wendi personally tasted soup and medicine" was so touching that I don't know how many people were moved by it. In 22 BC, Liu Bang established the Western Han regime. Liu Heng, the fourth son of Liu Bang, the later Emperor Wen of Han Dynasty, was a famous filial son. Liu Heng is filial to his mother and never neglects her. On one occasion, his mother was seriously ill, which made Liu Heng sleepless. His mother was ill for three years and was bedridden. Liu Heng left the complicated government affairs and personally cooked medicine soup for his mother. When feeding my mother medicine, I always taste it first to see if the soup is bitter and hot. I think it's almost enough before I give it to my mother carefully. For his mother's early recovery, he guarded her bed day and night. Every time I see my mother asleep, I just lie on my mother's bed and sleep peacefully for a little while.

"It's warm in winter, clear in summer, economical in the morning, and calm when you are sleepy." His filial piety, which we all see in our eyes, has become an eternal story. The sky is big, filial piety comes first, and filial piety is a long-standing culture and traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. Parents give us life and give us a complete skin. Give us eyes and let us discover beauty; Give us feet and let us travel all over the motherland; Give us thoughts and let us learn "filial piety". Shouldn't we imitate the "filial piety" of our ancestors to repay our parents?

However, now we see scenes that make us feel chilling. The precious wealth of history has not been recognized by modern people, and some people even want their parents to "honor" them. In their hearts, only their parents take it for granted to raise them and even make them cattle and horses. They have no idea of repaying their parents. As long as they are happy and carefree, they always ignore their parents' sufferings. Especially those children from single-parent families, have you ever thought about the suffering of a person who is both a father and a mother? Parents won't tell us this, because parents never don't think of you! But what about you? Not only inconsiderate, but also wrangle with them, you