There is a kind of chicken flying a dog jumping, called traveling with a baby.

Not long ago, Hannah Quinlivan took a photo of traveling with her children. In the photo, Hannah Quinlivan is dressed casually, her daughter is wearing a blue princess dress, and her son is wearing a cool black suit. The three of them walked hand in hand on the avenue covered with fallen leaves.

Hannah Quinlivan smiled at the camera and said, "Hot mom Mabel, the years are quiet!" !

Everyone expressed envy: Jay Chou is responsible for making money to support his family, and Hannah Quinlivan is responsible for taking the baby around the world. By the way, she is beautiful, and she is a winner in life!

Equally enviable is Alyssa Chia, who took her daughter to Saipan for a holiday. In the photo, the mother and daughter are bathed in the sunshine of the Pacific island, playing with the sea and sightseeing by helicopter, which exudes a healthy and happy atmosphere.

However, many treasure moms regret that the vision is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. ...

Taking care of the baby by others is a warm journey, and traveling with the baby by yourself is a large-scale collapse scene.

We summed up the four illusions of traveling with a baby to see if there is any shadow of you!

Illusion 1: Four illusions about traveling with your baby.

Ideal: a big box and a small bag are more than enough!

Reality: children's things can't be streamlined. A person's clothes can be stuffed into a big box, as well as various snacks, toys and picture books. Cleaning is another box. Things between myself and my husband have been reduced and reduced, or it is like opening the escape mode.

Ideal: Apply a mask beautifully on the plane and take time to have a rest.

Reality: The child is not sleepy at all! Curious questions, wriggling, he will cry if you ignore him, and the passengers next to him will cast disgusted eyes. ...

A mother shared her experience of a plane crash to Sanya:

After work, I took a taxi to the airport, checked in, passed the security check, boarded the plane, and finally got on the plane after a busy period of time.

I have been holding my baby weighing 32 kg for more than two hours, and my back aches. I hope she will enter sleep mode soon.

However, at this time, my daughter was very excited and automatically started the 100,000 Why+infinite loop mode:

Daughter: Mom, where are we going?

Mom: Sanya.

Daughter: Mom, what is Sanya?

Mom: It's a city in Hainan.

Daughter: Mom, why did you go to Sanya?

Mom: Look at the sea.

Daughter: Mom, why hasn't the plane taken off yet?

Mom: It will take some time.

Daughter: Mom, I'm hungry. Is there anything delicious?

Mom: No, my aunt will deliver the plane meal later.

Daughter: Mom, when will the plane meal be delivered?

Mom: After the plane takes off.

Daughter: Mom, why hasn't the plane taken off yet?

Mom: It will take some time.

Daughter: Mom, where are we going?

Mom: Sanya.

Daughter: Mom, what is Sanya?

Mom: … (Inner: I just answered, can you be quiet for a while …)

10 seconds later-

Daughter: Mom, why is Sanya a city in Hainan?

Mom: …… (Inner: You know what Sanya is, so why do you ask! )

Daughter: Mom, when does the plane take off?

Mom: ... (Inner: I just answered! )

Daughter: Mom, why hasn't the plane meal come yet? I'm hungry. Is there anything delicious?

Mom: ... (inside: it's endless again! )

Daughter: Mom, why are you ignoring me? I feel a little lonely.

Mom: … (Inner: Can you be quiet for a while? I feel a little broken! )

Daughter: Mom, can you tell me a story?

Mom: Well, a long time ago ... (Insider: I don't want to talk about it ...)

This process lasted for three hours until she got off the plane and her daughter was still alive and kicking.

Ideal: Have a leisurely cup of coffee and savor the fresh local ingredients.

Reality: The rhythm of children is completely out of sync with you!

If you want to feel the historical customs, children should eat when they are hungry;

When you want to enjoy a street performance, the children clamor to go to the toilet;

When you want to sit down and taste a special dish, the child urges you to take him to play quickly. ...

Sun Li once complained that taking the baby out would reduce the quality of travel.

When she wanted to sit down and have a good taste of black tea, read the newspaper and relax herself, the children complained:

"Mom and brother hit me!"

"Mom and sister pressed me!"

When Sun Li was eating sausage with a knife and fork, her son said she was too slow, so he stuffed half of the sausage into her mouth and kept urging: "Mom, hurry up, let's play!" "

Ideal: Tell children historical stories, local conditions and customs, so that children can learn knowledge unconsciously while playing!

A mother said that she wanted to take her children to see the famous Guanyin and Nanshan Temple on the sea. As a result, the children were only interested in a stone elephant at the door, so the following scene appeared:

Daughter: Mom, this elephant is really fun. I want to go up!

Mom: It's too high. It's dangerous to go up. Let's go to Nanshan Temple.

Daughter: No, no, my mother picked me up and my mother protected me!

Mom: Sit down for a while.

Daughter: OK.

(One minute later)

Mom: It's time to come down. Let's leave now.

Daughter: No, no, I like this elephant. Mom, is this elephant tired standing here?

Mom: ...

Daughter: Mom, is this little elephant beside it?

Mom: ...

Daughter: Mom, why is this elephant so tall?

(Twenty minutes later)

Mom: It's time to come down.

Daughter: OK.

After coming down, she climbed under the stone statue and refused to come out, saying, Mom, this is my home.

Mom: ...

Daughter: Mom, it's raining. I'm here to hide from the rain!

Mom: ...

Daughter: Mom, will you come to my house to play? Oh, you are too tall to get in!

Mom: ...

In the end, the mother and daughter played here for more than an hour and went back without entering the door of Nanshan Temple.

Although it is hard to travel with the baby, mothers still insist on being "tired and happy" because it is of great significance to both children and mothers.

Travel will affect children unconsciously.

Many people say that the child is so young that he won't remember it even if he is taken out for a trip.

In fact, children will remember. He may not remember those cultural relics and historical knowledge, but the first impression left by the world will have a far-reaching impact on their lives.

Although Sun Li spoke frankly about his children in Weibo, he still insisted on going out with his family at least twice a year, and there were countless times when he only took the children without Deng's father.

Although the child is young, he has been punching cards all over the world;

Sun Li said, "Many people said it was useless to take their children out for a trip. He didn't remember.

In fact, he doesn't need to remember specific things, and you don't need to talk about many things. His eyes saw it, but in fact he learned it, which is particularly good for his psychological mapping, and this influence is endless. "

My friend's baby was a little shy when he was a child. Later, his mother took him to travel abroad several times. He found that foreigners would greet him warmly when they met, even to strangers.

This relaxed atmosphere has also infected children. Now he will say "Hello!" When he saw us.

Cherrie Ying also said that Jasper had always been a little timid. Once I took him skiing, I didn't expect my son to be interested, courageous and brave.

When I took my daughter to Northern Europe for the first time, she was very surprised to see that people here had different hair colors and spoke differently.

"Dad, it's still on here at 10 at night!"

"Dad, all the houses here are spires!"

"They don't eat stir-fry and rice, but only bread, salad and meatballs!"

Travel can make children feel for themselves:

"It turns out that there are so many people in the world who are different from us and live different lives.

Despite so many differences, we can still get along happily and enjoy this wonderful world. "

Such an inclusive mentality and diverse perspectives are very valuable for children to go to society and the world in the future.

Third, travel can enhance parent-child feelings.

Travel will make you see a different side of your child and make your child more dependent on his parents. This kind of dependent solitude is a very valuable experience.

My friend Xiaoman told me that the first time I took my daughter out to play, I found that there were so many bright spots in the spoiled child:

Children spend a long drive in different ways. She paints, reads and sings.

Children learn to make friends with friends at the next table, share their toys and share their favorite snacks;

The child tried to ask his uncle around him to help his mother take down the heavy box from the luggage rack. ...

Although traveling with children is very tiring, when she saw her daughter taking a shower and insisting on eating snacks with her mother, and heard her daughter lying in her ear and saying, "Mom, I loved you so much before, but now I love you more", her whole heart was warmed, and all the hard work was worth it.

Because she and her children have this precious memory.

Laughter and tears, complaints and feelings, probably this is the fun of traveling with the baby ~

The Dragon Boat Festival holiday is not far away. Are you ready to take the baby on a trip?