Is it necessary for Ma Bao to dress up when she picks up the children at the school gate?

When children go to kindergarten or primary school, almost every parent will pick them up at the school gate after school. Although many parents don't dress up carefully, they pay special attention to their gfd and try to be neat and generous, but if they push too hard, it is easy to leave a bad impression.

Tingting has been troubled by such things recently. As a post-Ninth Five-Year Plan, I just got married with my boyfriend and had a lovely son. After the children go to kindergarten, she picks them up every day like other parents. Because she is very young, she recovers very well after giving birth, and she looks like a person who has never given birth, so she is still a little girl in the eyes of others.

Every day when picking up the children, she always dresses up very beautifully, and other parents always cast envious eyes on her. She thinks that dressing up carefully every day can at least give children a long face and make them liked by more people. But she slowly found that the child seemed to be more and more reluctant to talk to her.

When she repeatedly asked what happened, the child told her that friends around her said that his mother was badly dressed, which made him feel very embarrassed. Tingting is confused at this time. After observing the clothes of other parents for several days, she finally knew what her problem was.

It turns out that other parents wear ordinary clothes, but she is more fashionable and looks out of place in the crowd. Other children think this mother is different. This mother's children are very isolated and gradually lose all their friends.

After a night of self-reflection, Tingting dressed like other mothers the next day and didn't look unconventional at all. Slowly, her children became more popular in the class.

Many parents feel that dressing is their freedom, but in fact, this freedom needs to be divided into occasions, and such public places should take into account the feelings of others. If you don't dress properly, it will have a bad influence on your children. So how should parents dress up when they pick up their children from school?

First of all, clothes must be clean and tidy. Although parents go to the school gate to pick up their children. But it is also inevitable to communicate with teachers and parents of other students. When you dress neatly, others will naturally want to talk to you more, which can also enhance the relationship with these people around you and leave them with some good impressions.

Second, don't dress too exposed. Some parents keep up with the trend, especially in summer. They like to wear shorts and miniskirts. It is not impossible to dress like this, but try to avoid dressing like this when picking up children, because this kind of dress is very out of place in the crowd, which will leave some bad impressions on other parents and affect their popularity at school.

Third, avoid heavy makeup. Many mothers like heavy make-up, but this is not applicable when picking up their children. If you have to make up, it is better to choose some clean and simple makeup and decorate yourself a little. Because heavy makeup often gives people a bad impression, and it is easy to scare children, and some of them are not worth the candle.

Dressing is everyone's right, but for the sake of children, we should appropriately restrain our preferences, so that children can easily integrate into the group and not be alienated by other children, and at the same time, we can set a good example for children and make them more proud.