I went on a trip with my neighbor, but we broke up with each other when we got back. Why do some people say we can’t travel with acquaintances?

In fact, it doesn’t matter if you are traveling in a group. We all eat together and ride in the car together, and the whole journey is at your own expense. There is no opportunity to travel independently, and there are no differences or conflicts, and you are with us. It is convenient for acquaintances to travel together and stay in a hotel. The director will arrange you together based on your relationship. But if you travel by car, be sure not to go out with acquaintances, because the AA fee will cause a lot of inconvenience and lead to conflicts.

Because everyone has different living habits, different hobbies, and different consumption levels. If you travel together, some people like to eat and drink, some people are more economical, instant noodles are also fine, and some people like to be down-to-earth. It’s really a good time to take a stroll, some people just go around and take videos and photos and that’s it.

There are also many differences in eating. Everyone has different tastes and likes different foods. Some people like spicy food, some people like sour food, some people like stir-fried vegetables, and some people like spicy food. Flavored snacks. Traveling is about going out and having fun. If you accommodate one person to another, you will definitely not have fun and feel unhappy.

I remember one time, I went out with an acquaintance. We signed up for the group at that time, and the acquaintance and I were naturally arranged in the same room.

But my acquaintance is a very boring person who doesn’t like to learn knowledge and doesn’t do much shopping. But what about me? Every time you go to a place, you need to acquire historical knowledge in advance. You need to travel well, understand the past history, and listen to the tour guides telling allusions.

I remember that we were in Changsha at that time, and we had a free trip in the afternoon. Everyone advocated going to Changsha to have a good stroll and go for a walk along the Xiangjiang River. But acquaintances said they were reluctant to go out and said it was beautiful to stay in the hotel. I suggested that we go to the streets near the hotel to eat Changsha-style snacks, but she said it was boring and didn’t want to eat.

In this way, I stayed in the hotel with my acquaintances for five or six hours. It was not until about 11 o'clock in the evening that other people came back from outside in twos and threes. They were all excitedly discussing where they were going tonight. I was the only one who was eager. I watched, and the acquaintance felt that he was quite comfortable staying in the hotel.

In the next few days, our itinerary will be Tianzi Mountain, Fenghuang Ancient City and Furong Town. After we got off the bus, everyone hurriedly went to play according to the time arranged by the director. However, after leaving for a while, she said she didn’t want to go, said it was boring, said she was tired, and wanted to go back to the hotel. She also dragged me along and wouldn’t let me be alone. go.

During the few days of the trip, she either said that she didn’t like to go shopping, or that she was too tired to walk, which made me miserable. She carried her bag and helped her along the way. I was exhausted and I wasn't having much fun at all.

After I came back, I had a good fight with my husband because I originally planned to go out with my husband, but my husband suddenly changed his mind and asked me to go with her. This trip left a deep impression on me, because I didn't go around at all. I didn't go into many places in depth, I just glanced at them. And she may also feel unhappy, because I love shopping and want to visit many places, and she is greedy.

I feel particularly unhappy about this trip. Although I signed up for a group tour, it is not a free trip and there will be no conflicts. But the two of us have different personalities and hobbies, so it would be a pain to go play together. I wasted my money and didn't have the fullest fun.

From now on, I never travel with acquaintances. I always go out with my spouse and children at home. In this way, our family has the same living habits. We can eat and play whenever we want, go wherever we want, and we can leave whenever we want. It’s beautiful.

Some people have bad character and are reluctant to spend money. They are very happy when it comes to consumption, but they hesitate to pay when it comes to checking out. Sometimes they feel that they have suffered a loss. Some people feel unhappy and blame their companions, saying that others have harmed her. In this way, there will be conflicts with each other. Some people don't like to walk around. They are satisfied with just walking around and taking pictures, which is not suitable for walking together.

So, traveling is the most intimate contact with a person. You can tell after traveling once as to whether two people are good friends or not. The same is true for many couples. Whether they are compatible or not, you will know when traveling. Knowing everything once, and sometimes breaking up after coming back is also because they usually have a sense of distance and wear masks, so they don't understand each other very well. Now we are suddenly very close. We are together every day. The strengths and weaknesses of each other are fully exposed, and our living habits are also clear. It is natural to know whether they are suitable for each other.

Therefore, when traveling, be sure not to go out with acquaintances. If you go out, there will be resentment. If you go out happy, you will come back disappointed. If you want to have fun and be comfortable, it’s better to go as a family.