What is the mentality of people who like to wander?

The definition of wandering in the dictionary is: wandering around, with no fixed whereabouts, no fixed place to live, wandering around, indulgent, and unrestrained. From this definition, wandering is first of all a very free thing. It is unrestrained. You don’t have to worry about food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. You don’t have to worry about being late for work tomorrow or worrying about being fired by your boss... In my mind, there are people who like wandering. There are four types. Below I will analyze the four types of people one by one.

This first type is a person who wanders just for the pursuit of freedom. A person likes to wander. His original idea is to pursue himself and does not want his life to be bound by some conventional rules and regulations. Deep in his heart lives a restless and unruly heart. In addition, people who like to wander have very stubborn personalities and it is difficult to change the decisions they have made. Even if this living habit will cause some trouble to their families, they will still follow their hearts and will not Compromise on some practical issues.

The second type is those who choose to wander due to serious conflicts between their ideals and reality. Most of these people are dissatisfied with reality. In the face of this conflict, they choose to wander. They want to find points on this road that are consistent with their ideals to pursue their ideals, such as some wandering singers. They have chosen a relatively free way to pursue their ideals, not compromising reality, and wandering for a brave heart that dares to innovate and fight. There is nothing wrong with these, but they have chosen a different lifestyle. That’s all.

I think the third type of people are the lowest wanderers, because they do not choose to wander because they are willing, but are forced by life to escape reality. After choosing to wander, they still I will proudly say that this is the life I have been pursuing. After encountering some major setbacks in life, there are many people who are unable to recover. In order to avoid the problems in reality, they choose to wander and escape. Leave the problem to your own family and let them bear everything. This kind of wanderer is the most irresponsible coward who dare not face life. We Chinese have an old saying: "You can't escape more than the first grade of junior high school, but you can't escape more than the fifteenth grade." . In this era of natural selection and winner-takes-all, those who are irresponsible and only focus on themselves are bound to be eliminated.

The last kind of people who like to wander are people who are extremely insecure. They often: their hearts rise with the wind and fall with the rain. There is no convincing explanation for their choice of wandering. They have no goals and just want to wander. Perhaps they are very lonely in their hearts and have no good listeners in their lives, so they want to seek some hope in this unknown journey. sense of security.