Why do many couples break up after traveling?

If you love someone, go on a trip with her. If you still love each other after the trip, get married.

-Qian Zhongshu

It is said that travel is the standard to test couples, just like a curse. Too many couples break up because of travel, which leads to breaking up.

Many people are used to comparing life to travel, because there are too many joys and sorrows, difficulties and challenges in life, which easily make us recognize ourselves and fall into madness.

Traveling is really a test, because two people come to a strange place, eat and live in sync, and they are tired by boat.

It will expose or even amplify your shortcomings or hide your personality, which is also the root cause of conflicts in travel.

There are three reasons for breaking up during the trip:

1, the expectation is too high to stop the loss in time.

Couples want to do something together in the usual communication process.

If there are contradictions and differences in this matter, it can often be terminated immediately to ease the atmosphere.

Before we decide to start traveling, we always have to pay a lot of precipitation costs, such as time, energy, money and so on.

So from the beginning, we will have high expectations for travel. When there is a deviation between reality and ideas, it is easy to break out bad emotions and intensify contradictions.

For example, today, I planned to visit a temple fair, but girls delayed their trip because of shopping or fatigue, so it is easy for boys to fall into an embarrassing situation.

If you drag her out, she will think that you don't care about her feelings;

Rest with her in the hotel, and then it's easy to screw up the trip.

2. Enlarge shortcomings and break out bad emotions.

Suddenly coming to a strange place, many things need to be arranged one by one, and these basically need boys to arrange.

If you expect girls to arrange it, why do you want it?

Therefore, there will be many unexpected situations and troubles along the way. The handling of these big and small things can easily make girls intuitively feel your true ability, which is also the standard to verify whether you can take care of her in the future.

Coupled with the fatigue of the journey, both sides will inevitably feel hard and boring.

Girls complain easily.

Often at this time, boys will feel that they have paid too much and can't get each other's understanding and support, which leads to quarrels.

You know, girls are inherently insecure. If you have an argument with her in a strange city, it is the easiest to amplify this insecurity and cause girls to be completely disappointed with you.

Travel is also a catalyst for feelings.

Many people break up easily when they come back from traveling. It is not travel that leads to the breakup of each other, but travel can better show what position they occupy in each other's hearts. If it is dispensable, it will accelerate the breakup, but if it is particularly important, then travel is the catalyst for your feelings and make you more loving.